#to men

The election got me thinking about the whole lonely-young-man-right-wing-pipeline thing.

As a sapphic ace girlie this whole male loneliness epidemic is bullshit. I am just as attracted to women. I long and pine and wish for romance and to have a girlfriend too. Men are not the only lonely ones. I am lonely too. I am lonely all the time, right now, tomorrow. I've been lonely with very little real life human connection for almost half a decade now. I rarely go outside and don't really talk to people. I have wonderful online friends and I cherish my best friends deeply from afar but otherwise I spend most days of the year by myself.

I am not out here resenting women for not being with me, I am not blaming them, I am not calling them cunts and bitches and whores and sluts. I am not threatening to rape them. I am not threatening their security. Men are not the only ones. Everyone gets lonely. Maybe instead of blaming this shit on us make friendships with other men, real connections. Foster bonds, take a class, take up a hobby-knit, make art, play a sport, read a book, form a club. Your loneliness is not my moral failure as a human being. Your loneliness is your responsibility. You can do things to feel less lonely, and ofc it is not always that simple but you are NOT entitled to sex, to bodies, to emotional, financial, sexual, physical, spiritual labor.

When I first started watching Supernatural, I kept calling it Stranger Things, and having watched both of them, I still make that mistake.

So I need to see that. I especially need to see Dean and Eddie and what their dynamic would be like.

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