Ever stare at your mate and wander back to the High School days when you used to joke about how your future partner was gone be? Sitting there making circles from your wrist to your forearm seeing how many kids you guys would have, or even writing each other’s full name down to fake come up with baby names. Thinking back 15 years I can honestly say that the teenage female that I joked and dream about has grown into the woman of my reality. It wasn’t easy at all over the years because everyone knows that I’m a huge geek and into Technology, so texting and emailing is how we communicated for a while. It’s funny because I used to be so upset in her delayed responses, but then I’d find little handwritten notes hidden in my pockets or briefcase…got to love a spontaneous woman. The day that I stood before God and told Him and everyone in attendance that I would do my part to make sure whatever sacrifice and consistent growth that needed to be made so she never felt unsafe and that it was no longer team me or you, but Team Montgomery…was 1 of the best decisions in life. No longer did I have to worry about finding someone who’d accept me for me, no longer did I have to search for someone who would truly believe in me when I didn’t believe in myself and most of all no longer did I have to settle for false company or random female friendships because I had finally found my best friend and my soul mate. No to mention the added bonus of her being a lady in the streets and a fre…nevermind, you know the rest. I love how we can laugh and joke with each at the drop of a hat. For example, earlier she texted talking about she sent the kids to her Mom’s for the weekend and wanted to know when I got home would I be ready to eat…you know I’m a fool, like Kevin Hart I said, “EAT WHAT!?”