Let's blabber together
Trying to step into someone else's shoe is my biggest guilty pleasure. Got to say, with figuring the origin of stink I come armed with other information as well. I am not speaking for myself but for my fellow friends who identify themselves as introverts or people who have a problem in making conversations.
We hate small talks, why? Because we leave it at small talks!
Here is when I come up with a solution. This one has always been working for me. This is the easiest yet the boldest thing which comes out of you. Simple seven letter word. BLABBER IT OUT!
(I am not asking you to tell someone how they've got a unibrow, maybe ask them out to check out the new parlour with you!)
Going with what you feel has its major benefits, sometimes contemplating can work up the tension rather than easing it.
Here, I am not asking you to go on with your incessant talks or point out some anomaly in others rather you're being asked to say what you've been meaning to say without making the other one feel uncomfortable. This itself is a skill. With more and more practice you may be able to talk nonchalantly with the one you've been meaning to.
