#synastry post

💚The core issue with the square between Moons is the different emotional needs. You both may need different things to feel satisfied or comfortable. This aspect can be approached with good communication in which you talk about what you need without fear of "asking for too much". Not by reproaching or asking the other to change, but rather telling them how you feel more emotionally validated and, in return, listening to what they have to say about their own needs. A person who loves you will make an attempt for this communication to exist and will make these attempts to make you feel both loved and understood. 

💚When your Mars falls in a person's 8th house, this person will find you very attractive and sensual. You will give this person the impression that you are someone very sexual, with a lot of experience or simply a person with whom they could connect very well sexually. A mutual attraction happens and there can be a lot of desire for the other, that kind of desire that you don't understand why it is but it pushes you like a magnet.

ASTRO RED FLAGS ; WOMEN

𝄢 disclaimer  !!!  please  do  not  judge  based  on  the  knowledge  of  knowing  someone  or if you  have  a  particular  placement  stated  within  this  post.  the  energy  of  each  placement can  follow  through  no  matter  the  gender  and  in  different  ways  that  aren't  inherently  negative.  Proceed  with  caution  and  take  the  whole  chart  into  consideration  before  taking  to  heart.  Have  fun!

𝄢 disclaimer  !!!  these  are  all  based  off  of  my  own  natural  experiences  and  from  thorough  examination  of  research. I ALSO AM IN NO WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM, BREAKING DOWN THE WOMEN OR BLAMING THEM FOR THE ISSUES IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS. THIS IS STRICTLY FOR ASTROLOGY RESEARCH.

𝄢 note : hey guys! I've been seeing a new vocabulary slang word going around social media. The term "bird" means to define someone ( usually a female ) as someone who is fast ( slut ), stupid, ditzy, vain, all in the name of a man ; due to the actions of a man. Flying closer and closer towards the sun, but do you feel the burn?

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 ༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰¹ NEPTUNE ☐ / ☌ VENUS | SYNASTRY & NATAL

NATAL ; This is prime Pisces / Libra energy at work! When you encounter an individual with these placements / energy in their chart, this can be an indication of someone who deeply craves affection from others, or wishes for anything to maintain or bring love within their lives. In a more negative aspect, this can be an individual who does not understand relationships or doesn't exactly have direct standards within love. Which causes them to partner up with pretty much anybody— which doesn't turn out healthy in the end. This can be an individual who has has an obscured sense / view of love from a young age. Expecting fairy tales, love at first sight, and partridge in a pear tree— but as they stay with this person they can easily see this isn't the case and chooses to stay due to the devotion and principles of what it means to be in love. They LOVE love, not relationships. They fall in love fast and have a hard time getting out of it.

SYNASTRY ; Specifically referring to Venus Square Neptune, I have been on both planetary spectrum's of this!!! It's not fun when you're the Venus person LMAO. When having this type of synastry, the Venus person is utterly devoted and in love with the Neptune person, idealizing them as someone they simply aren't. The Neptune person notices this and strings them along, seeing how devoted and utterly WHIPPED they are for them. To the point where they just like the attention Venus is giving them.

But of course, the veil that was so heavily placed upon Neptune falls and the Venus person starts to see them for who they really are— human! Not some fantasy they made up in their head. The Venus person was more in love with the ideation they had of them then the actual interactions they fuckin' had!

And DON'T let the Venus person be Man, pure love bombing placement omg! The Venus person expects a version of Neptune that they simply cannot give to them. And usually however the Neptune person is remembered is due to the Venus' undoing.

 ༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰² FIXED PLACEMENTS : OVERLY LOYAL

When referring to the fixed signs of the Zodiac; Scorpio, Leo, and Taurus. These energies show up within a personas chart as someone who doesn't budge easily. A person who doesn't back down without a fight, someone who makes something last for the hell of it. These people are only done until they mean it. The way this can manifest as a "bird", is someone who stays with an individual because they can't see themselves leaving due to the love they have for this person is too strong. They're loyalty towards their relationship is stronger than the love they have for themselves.

 ༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰³ VENUS / PLUTO ASPECTS

This can be an individual who constantly places themselves within un-pleasurable situations all in the name of love. When they fall in love it becomes pure devotion and the breakups are always messy and something that directly changes their brain chemistry.

༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁴ CANCER MARS : emotional debt placed onto someone, they stay to get their lick back , always pushing the goal post of leaving! Starts to resent partner.

From seeing this placement acting within real time is truly something. People who have this placement that are in relationships have a tendency to place themselves or their partner in emotional debt. Due to this Mars placements being in fall, these people can have a hard time expressing their emotional needs within a relationship or are placed within relationships that are emotionally abusive. They care for their partners more than their partner cares for them.

Now when I define their actions as "emotional debt" this can be an indication of them pushing the goal post of when they are going to leave their partner. "If she does one more thing like that i'm gone!" then they still stay. "They have one more chance to change and I'm leaving!" they don't leave. "You make me feel like shit" they still stay. Like wtf.

This can also be an indication of staying within a relationship for some ego-driven reason, "I'm staying because he's gonna get what's coming to him" like they're itching to cause imaginary harm to their partners even though they could never do what their partner did to them. Like just leave!!

 ༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁵ MERCURY 7H

Fuck, like no shade to these people but you guys don't know how to not be in a relationship. This placement can indicate a person who IS NEVER single and doesn't like being alone. Now, I wouldn't take this placement as being a "bird" at face value. But when you analyze this at a deeper level it becomes alarming. These individuals can go through a 1-of-1 traumatic relationship and them jump into another relationship, sleep around, or starting dating not even a week later.

It gets to a point where these people will begin to be perceived as someone who doesn't like the thought of not being loved. They physically cannot conceptualize not being with someone romantically due to the fears of being alone with themselves and doing the necessary work in order to heal. They carry the previous trauma onto the next partner and make it something they need to solve, which is honestly dangerous for all parties involved.

 ༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁶ NEPTUNE ☌ MOON : battle of the mind and heart!

When someone has Neptune conjunct their Moon, there is a theme where they are in a constant battle between understand what is rational and what is emotional. In a constant state of push an pull as to what makes sense to their mind and what pleases their heart. And this can be easily translated into relationships where they do not understand the severity of situations at first due to their heart being pleased first.

This can be the type of person who is 21 years old in a relationship with someone who has like 7 kids LMAO, this person can see that their community does not understand why they're with this person and it makes sense to leave, right? Right! But at the same time, why would they leave if the sex is amazing and their late night convos just feel so right and they pay for everything they ask for?

Whole time, the money that man used to buy them a brand new purse was the child support money that had to be in one of the mothers hands by the 1st! PRIORITIES PEOPLE 😭

༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁷ VENUS ◻︎ MOON : doesn't know how to emotionally communicate their desires; Mariah the Scientist & Young Thug

Now, this placement is something I've studied within the chart of Mariah the Scientist, a famous American singer that is COMMONLY known to be seen as a "bird" a mother goose if you will… she's known to be the leader of the birds LMAOO.

From what I have astrologically gathered about this artist is that with such a placement like this, she indirectly communicates what she desires / complains about within her relationship with her man. Or she is the type of person to swallows her true thoughts in order to maintain peace within the relationship or to save face.

A really good example of this is when she was publicly proposed to by Young Thug at one of her concerts, this video is a very hard watch but expresses these placements perfectly in real time. When watching the video, you can see how she was peer pressured into saying yes. Her emotions weren't taken into consideration and she wasn't able to even communicate it due to the immediate use of control from her ( now called off ) fiancé. And the cherry on top was that she engagement ring was the exact opposite of what she wanted ( and she TOLD HIM EARLIER IN THE RELATIONSHIP!! ).

You can also see within her music that it is very emotionally driven to always sing about her displeasure within relationships and rarely ( from what I've heard ) about what it is like to be healthily in love and more about falling in love I guess. Like you drop an album dissing your man, but your sitting court-side at a basketball game like nothing happened? Make it make sense.

༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁸ ˖ ݁ SATURN IN 7H : struggle love, didn't have good example of love in the home and wants to stick it out

This is a classic struggle love placement, when encountering an individual with this Saturn placement it is inherent to know that these individuals ( as well as myself ) did not grow up with a healthy performance of love meant within the home. This can be a one-parent household, a failing marriage, or divorce, etc. These people understand that the construct that is love is karmic and therefore wants no parts of it. But when they are in a committed relationship, they chose to stay and make things work even when it isn't suiting any party involved for the sake of "breaking" the traumatic curse of being like their parents.

༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁹ ˖ ݁ VENUS IN 2H

This is also similar to the Neptune / Moon conjunction I previously talked about. These people are the type who look for security within their relationships. This is a good indication of the type of person to be an a relationship purely for the money and financial security their partner gives them. A situation I've seen unfold in real time was seeing a woman stay with her abuser just for the fact that he paid for her mothers hospital bills and trips out the country.

Nothing is more important then the safety and priority of your own life!

༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ¹⁰ ˖ ݁ SCORPIO VENUS : holding down for a man that ain't worth it!! Cardi B & Offset

DUDE! This placement is supreme bird placement. When I see someone with a Scorpio Venus I flinch because what they have gone through romantically is so sad. I notice that many successful female artists such as Queen Naija and Cardi B have this placement.

Another fixed placement like spoken before, these are the women that hold it down! These women will stay in a relationship for so long with a man that does not serve them in any capacity for the sake of mending the relationship. A very sad example of this is when Cardi B's ex-husband Offset said, "you my baby mama i won" a HARROWING statement to say to your wife. Mending your body and soul with a man who sees you as nothing more than a reproductive / sexual object is very saddening.

And sadly it happened again with her now ex-boyfriend Steffon Diggs, As the Venus placement is in detriment— it seems that the main way these people go about expressing their love is through sensuality. And it's like, as soon as they love this they will SHOW YOU. But from that you're giving a man ANOTHER kid and he has several. WITH NOOO RING!!

Once more, this is a loyal placement, a classic jail bird placement. The type of woman to stay with a man who's serving 20 years for shoplifting and assault of an officer. Because "know one is gonna love him like I do", well bitch would he do the same for you?

ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ LIBRA / PISCES MARS : overly going, lack of boundaries

This is a classic detrimental / fallen energy where Libra and Pisces have a hard time stating their beliefs and boundaries within relationships ( not just romantic either ). This is also another energy where these people talk shit about their man every single day but still wont leave ( this is also applicable to Cancer Mars ). Like stop telling me shit if your not gonna do what you tell me ur gonna do everyday fuckin' day. This is coming from someone WITH a Libra Mars 😭

ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ GEMINI PLACEMENTS : doesn't like to be proven wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now, with this Mercurial energy ( mostly Gemini Mercury and Venus ), seeing this in person is funny and sad at the same time. Like these people will stay in relationships and try and make them work NOT for the sake of themselves or the partner, but more to protect their own ego from believing they were wrong to be with them in the first place.

 It gives that energy where you're the most hated couple in the room, and it's not because they're some "power couple" it's because everyone knows their business and thinks that they don't need to be with each other whatsoever. This couple is suffering, yet they choose to stay because they don't wanna be wrong. They'll blame any other reason as to why they're still together BUT because they don't want to.

Like yeah everyone told you that you didn't need to be with him and they're all right, but you're gonna stay because You wanna leave on my own terms? … not because of the main reason being that you're simply incompatible. #whatdatmean

ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ LEO PLACEMENTS

This is a good placement where these people will do things to please their man and their man wouldn't even do anything like this in return. Constantly doing things their man likes to do, supporting his passions and hobbies but doesn't wanna do the same when it comes to you. Constantly placing consideration for your partner instead of it being a mutual effort. This is also an indication of the couple being better at face value than at home.

Like they post everything on social media but when they're at home they barely even speak to each other or they talk about the same shit over and over, they don't bond LOL. Like ur man doesn't even know your favorite color but you're going to his favorite football teams' game for the 5th time in a row? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE! LEAVE!

ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ URANUS ☌ MERCURY OR IN 3RD HOUSE : constant contradictions of their words and values; LATTO.

Now, LATTO the American rapper is a great example of this. To break it down very short and sweet, this woman is pregnant by a married man and it currently very happy. Looking at her chart we can see how these placements manifest as she is at a constant contradiction of her words and values.

She's publicly said out loud that she's "big mama, no kids, waiting for right man at the right time" yet she IS a big mama with a kid and chose the WRONG man at the WORST time. She's also presented herself on social media posted up with this MARRIED MANS TWO OTHER BABY MOMMAS with a smile on her face. Wtf is there to smile about?

ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ NEPTUNE ☌ URANUS IN 7H : doesn't know what they truly desire within a relationship, delusional and gets the bare minimum; QUEEN NAIJA

Great example of this placement is the singer Queen Naija, this woman has been in two very long lasting relationships with men who were no where near her caliber for success. When having these planets placed within your 7th house, there can be a sense of delusion within the area of love and relationships. These individuals can have a hard time knowing what they truly desire out of a relationship or have fantasies of what they truly want in their relationships.

A good example is Queen Naija and her yearn to be a married woman, this is a running joke within her fan base and outer communities that she solely stays within relationships just to wait and get married. The men in her life have constantly joked ( and even pulled pranks ) that she would be proposed to. "Just wait a few more years", "I'm not ready", "Let's start a family first", is something that this woman has gone through time and time again. And until she recognizes her own power and states her desires and values within a relationship she will never be in a healthy relationship.

If you are a woman, man, whatever and you deeply resonate with these observations and are in a relationship that does not suit you or your needs. Please, for the love of pearl, leave! A life not lived is a life wasted. Understand the potential you have within yourself and strive to heal from this and find the love that YOU desire!

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🤎Your Saturn falling in their 1st house: You will have this calming effect on your partner, who will grow a lot as a person with you by their side. You will make them have a more mature vision of life and you will make them think and act in the long term. The relationship with you will make them analyze more about themselves, be more introspective and analytical of what they are and do. You will help them take life more seriously, have ambitions and be more realistic with their way of approaching life.  You will make them reconsider their priorities and become more focused and responsible. You will help your partner create healthy boundaries that make them feel good about themselves, you will encourage them to be more independent. 

🤎Your Mars in their 1st house: Your simple presence motivates them, makes them feel more confident and very capable of doing everything they want to do. Both of you may be angry at the same things and may have similar desires and goals. The physical attraction with this overlay is enhanced and both you and they are seen as very sexy, appealing and sensual people, the sexual attraction between the two can be something very obvious from the beginning. They perceive you as someone very sexual, hot and seductive, someone direct in that field who loves to chase or being chased, you make them feel really desirable. Both can challenge the other, you in particular will challenge them in some way. In sex, there is a lot of understanding between you and a lot of affinity too. They see you as a person with whom you can have sex many times in the same day, they see you as passionate and very energetic, they perceive that you have a great drive that you know exactly how to turn them on. From the first moment they saw you they felt that burning and suffocating desire towards you.

🤎Your Mars in their 2nd house: They see you as a very sensual and provocative person, they know that you take your time to explore every corner of their body and that you are very attentive to what they want as much as they are with you. They love the aftercare when being with you, it is something they deeply enjoy. They see you as a very ambitious person who looks for ways to generate money and achieve everything you set out to do. You encourage them to get out of their comfort zone and actively look for things that make them feel comfortable. With you, they feel the luxuries and comforts guaranteed. They like to feel that for a moment they belong completely to each other, and they take advantage of sexual encounters to tell you how much they want you and that you are just as much theirs as they are yours. Physical contact is something of the utmost importance to them, even if they are people who highly respect their personal space, they want to feel your body close to theirs, as it gives them an indescribable warmth to which they slowly become addicted.

🤎Your Mars in their 3rd house: You mentally stimulate them like no one has ever done, they see in you an interesting and difficult lover to captivate. Your intelligence and cunning turn them on, that way you make them feel like they have to try a little harder to get your attention. You are not predictable and they like that, you are experimental and adaptable and that amazes them. They love that you communicate directly and frankly, you say and ask for what you want without hesitating, and they will not hesitate to give you everything you communicate that you need or want. They seem intrigued by the way you act and you seem fascinated by the way they think. Both can bring new points of view, new ideas and ways of thinking. Directly or indirectly, you teach them to be more clear with what they want and not to beat around the bush when it comes to pursuing something they really want, this of course without bordering on immature and hasty. They feel that they have to be smart with their moves when you are around. 

🤎Your Mars in their 4th house: You are an engine that drives them a lot in their lives, you inspire and motivate them easily and you are capable of moving every emotion that they can keep under the shadows. Emotionally you move them like no one else and you have become a very sensitive point for them, being able to bring out their bravest and most protective side for you. You drive them crazy and you turn their life and emotions into chaos addicted to you, there is a huge degree of affinity, in addition to indicating that emotionally and sexually you are capable of satisfying them a lot. For them, you know their needs perfectly and you please them like no one has ever done before, you’ve an emotional bond that makes the trip to the other extremely enjoyable. You can easily launch in them the idea of ​​starting a home. They may feel the need to be overly affectionate before, during and after sex with you. Being affectionate with you is something that comes naturally to them. They can get quite touchy with you.

🤎Your Mars in their 5th house: There is something in you that motivates and turns them on almost automatically, they are fascinated by every corner of your body and every part of your complex personality. You are the fire of their life, who encourages them to try, to improve and to dare to do things that they did not think possible. They see you as an intense, fun lover who is capable of surprising them more and more as they allow themselves to get to know you under the sheets. They are fascinated by the idea of ​​persuading and chasing you, you are capable of provoking an incomparable emotion in them. The sexual field is very enjoyable and positive for them. You make them feel more confident in themselves and you make them feel very loved and wanted. It is very likely that the more driven and motivated you feel, the more they will love you. It also applies when you actively seek to seduce and tease them, then you will automatically make every part of them fall for you.

🤎Your Mars in their 6th house: You came into their life to fill it with emotion and make them say goodbye to the overwhelming monotony. You teach them that interesting, fun and adventurous quality of life, as well as help them to get out of their comfort zone. They see you as a person with whom they get along wonderfully, with whom they’re able to discuss things and agree easily. You encourage them to take care of their bodies and you get them in contact with that sensual and sexual side that they sometimes put aside to fulfill their occupations. They deeply desire to have you with them quite often, sex with you can be something they enjoy doing as many times as their body allows. Your body seems extremely attractive to them and they love the care and details you have regarding it when it comes to your sexual encounters. They love it and it can turn them on to see you do the most mundane things, and they find you particularly attractive when you seem busy or if they see you working hard.

🤎Your Mars in their 7th house: One of the things they like most about you is that behind that charming personality there is a person who fights and says when something does not seem right to them, they like to see that you are an independent person who at the same time knows how to work as a team. It gives them a confidence boost when it comes to relating to other people. It is also very likely that after meeting you they have decided much more quickly that they should formalize with you, they may have that inner urge that they commit to you. They love your duality and how you go from that grace and charm to a much more seductive and chaser personality. They think that you are capable of getting what you want, especially if you want something from them, you can easily see how passionate they feel for you and how they fall for you more and more. They will not like to argue with you and will always opt for a more peaceful resolution, but they may see you as someone with a stronger temper than theirs.

🤎Your Mars in their 8th house: You provoke in them a series of emotions never before explored, the attraction is not only evident but lethal. They feel very drawn to you, as if they couldn't take their eyes off you, they feel hypnotized by your appeal, because in their eyes you are the most attractive and sensual person in the room. They love the idea of ​​being alone with you, getting to know you on a deeper level and letting you see and know every corner of them. Sex with you is something that fascinates and fills them completely, they may find themselves constantly thinking of you from that perspective and feel like they can't get enough of you. You motivate them to fight with their inner insecurities, and you make them feel much more sensitive than they are capable of showing. You make them feel that urge to change or give a change to life. They see you as a person who moves on pretty easily and as a person who is very aware of what to deal with and what’s not worthy enough.

🤎Your Mars in their 9th house: Your entrance into their lives brought with it a burst of light, passion and motivation. They may have had a very simple vision of life but your arrival made them change their perspective on life, seeing it as something more fun, interesting and happier than they thought life would feel like. They have a fascination for the way in which a life with you looks like and in them there is a desire to explore and discover new places in your company. Your drive, impetus and character are things that they love, they think that sex with you is something fun that is never the same, your versatility makes them more open to the idea of ​​experimenting with you new ways of having fun and enjoying the other. They will be fascinated by the way you think and what you talk about with them, they will let themselves be carried away by you and they will always be willing to learn more and discover new things with you. You will teach them many things and you will leave an important lesson with them.

🤎Your Mars in their 10th house: Since you are in their life, that desire for self-improvement arises in them, to show you that they are worth it and that they are capable of many things. You encourage them to excel professionally, you make them think about achieving what they set out to do and their long-term plans, where they envision you with them. The attraction they feel towards you is powerful, they see you as a person who exudes a lot of confidence and that seems irresistible to them, as it seems that you don't need anybody is exactly what makes them feel they need to pursue you and provide for you or support you in some way. Sex with you feels like that breath after a long day, it's sensual and you take time to explore and enjoy each other's parts. Time disappears when they're in front of you and they finally feel like they can live the moment. A release from stress, from all the negative things that could happen in their day, which becomes better when they have you with them for an indefinite period of time.

🤎Your Mars in their 11th house: They know perfectly well that they count on you for anything, you make them feel that there’s someone who values ​​their goals, dreams and aspirations, better yet, who encourages them to achieve them. They see in you the perfect partner, someone with whom everything is more fun and makes every moment and decision worthwhile. They feel more sociable when they are with you, happier and more willing to meet people that you consider important in your life. You have a charm that has caught their attention since you met, they saw in you that "something" that they can’t explain but that leaves them thinking of you every time. You make sex a totally new and unique experience for them, you show them a distinctive and sparkling facet of sex, both allow yourselves to experiment and try new things with each other. They see you as someone very verbal, passionate and playful, they feel that you express yourself with total transparency and your expressions are something they love.

🤎Your Mercury in their 1st house: They feel that communication with you operates naturally, they may consider that you have very similar opinions. Think that you are a person who communicates in a genuine, direct and very own way, they have not met someone who expresses himself in the way that you do and they see a lot of genuineness in you. You may be described as being very firm in your opinions and may find debating with you fun or entertaining. The conversations they have together are not boring at all, you always have something to add and they love that. They see in you a person who really values ​​conversations and seeks to maintain active communication. You became a person with whom they love to share their anecdotes or experiences, no matter how mundane they may be. Even if they don't usually talk about themselves, with you things change and you can see sides of them that not everyone knows. They see you as a very sincere person who always says what he thinks, who is very spontaneous and charismatic when it comes to talking. Talking to you makes them feel motivated and through conversations with you they develop a more authentic way of thinking and acting.

🤎Your Mercury in their 2nd house: They deeply value talking to you, you make every conversation they have something that brings them something that will stay with them for a long time, be it an important lesson, a reminder or even a memory that makes them smile. They feel that you really care about them and help them to take what can help them and let go of what no longer serves or helps them. They see you as a realistic person, thoughtful and attentive to what they have to say, they may think that you don't talk much, but they appreciate and highly value the fact that you are someone who knows how to have a good conversation, who listens and speaks in balance. There may be topics that both of you don't talk about with each other for fear that it will be "too much" for the other person, but this feeling fades when you are with each other. You two help put each other's feet on the ground. This is an overlay that helps long-term relationships, since it indicates that both of you are not afraid to talk about a little more serious topics, besides that it is favorable in case you want to start a project together, because they trust you and your friends a lot. capabilities.

🤎Your Mercury in their 3rd house: With you they felt an almost immediate connection, an immediate affinity because they had similar ways of communicating and thinking. Talking to you is the most fun in the world for them and it's something they have to do constantly. And, if for some reason you cannot see each other, they will do their best to keep in touch with you. They think a lot about you and things to do when you're together.They see you as a person with a lot of knowledge in many different things, someone very witty who never gets tired of talking and making them laugh and those conversations in which your stomach hurts from laughing so much are very common among you. Talking to you seems really stimulating and interesting, and something happens when you get together, and that is that although you do not exclude people, in your conversations you can see a great and strong connection between you and sometimes it just feels like it is just the two of you. They know that they can talk about anything with you, that if there are differences they will resolve it and that if they ask for your opinion you will give it without hesitation and with complete honesty.

🤎Your Mercury in their 4th house: Talking to you feels like letting all the loads off their shoulders, you make them feel comfortable, content and even relieved. Thanks to you, they have a facility for talking about their deepest emotions, they think that you are a person with whom they can talk about their personal experiences, someone who allows them to talk when the day has not been the best, but also someone with whom to celebrate when the day is going amazingly. They like when you show them that you trust them by sharing those things that you usually don't with just anyone, they like to feel like they are having meaningful conversations for both them and you. Your words touch his heart easily, give him a sense of security and genuine love. You are a person with whom they talk a lot about their past and their childhood, they can enjoy having those conversations that allow them to get to know each other on a deep level. They love that you care about their emotional well-being and constantly ask how they feel. Even if you don't notice it, you allow them to appreciate the little things in life. They really like your way of thinking and may have very similar views on family life and how close relationships work.

🤎Your Mercury in their 5th house: You have a knack for stimulating their ability to express themselves genuinely and not just themselves, but their emotions as well. Talking to you is an instant and strong serotonin hit, so don't be surprised to see them smile more when talking or after talking to you! They bring out their most daring, free and charismatic side when they talk to you, thinking of you is synonymous with thinking of smiles and having a good time. They may have similar abilities and interests, especially in their taste in music, or preferences in movies. When you two get together there is no topic of conversation that you do not talk about, communication with you feels more dynamic and entertaining than with other people they know. It is very easy for them to show their romantic side when they are with you, even the flirty one, they may think that you have a very attractive personality that, accompanied by your way of thinking and communicating, ends up fascinating them. They may have a similar opinion about relationships and the idea of ​​having children. Speaking of children, they feel like they can be a little more childish around you and that you are someone with a great sense of humor. Sexually, they may see you as very skilled and sensual.

🤎Your Mercury in their 6th house: There is something that they find adorable about you, and it is like you check up on them, it is very likely that they deeply value the attention you have with them, how you care about their well-being and that they are well. Talking to you will soon become part of their routine and a message from you can motivate them a lot, especially to take care of themselves or to work hard. They think that you are really attentive to those details about them that others go unnoticed, and they value it as you don't get an idea. Communication between you is quite fluid, since Mercury is comfortable in this house. They can come to you when they need advice and they know they can trust you no matter what, they see in you a partner who understands and helps them. Both of you are the person with whom the other talks about those random experiences that happen to you daily. In their eyes you are a very altruistic, hard-working, rational and intelligent person, there is a certain level of mutual admiration between you. It is very likely that you make them think more about taking care of their body and well-being, making them more aware of their health (i.e. if they work a lot, you can help them relax or to fix their eating schedule if they skip meals).

🤎Your Mercury in their 7th house: Your way of thinking attracts them a lot, what you consider a priority may make them think about what they want in a serious relationship. They love how much you prioritize clear and active communication in your relationships, the attention you pay to your connections makes them see you as a very conscientious and consistent person in this field. They may have somewhat different ways of communicating, but they’ll know how to get along with each other. The opinions that the two of you have regarding relationships and what you want from them are similar and that’s what makes you connect. Both understand each other very easily and it’s easy for them to put themselves in the other's shoes. They love that you think of them when making an important decision and that you make them feel part of your life. They and you will constantly talk about the relationship, how to improve it, what to avoid so as not to bother the other and you will make them feel that they can talk about any problem that may arise with total comfort and confidence. It’s likely that it is difficult for them to be so communicative, but since they met you they can be in very constant contact with you (messages or calls are constant).

🤎Your Mercury in their 8th house: You are a fascinating enigma to them, they don't easily know what you think but it seems to you that nothing about them goes unnoticed. They perceive your way of communicating as intense, direct and somewhat seductive, it may be your voice, or simply the way you communicate. They see in you someone with a sexy brain, who seems to know a lot about topics that they are completely unaware of. Talking to you feels very good for them, because they can let off steam and be totally open with what they think, it is entertaining because you leave a lot to the imagination without intending it, because for them it is clear that you have very well defined what seems good to you and what not, what you want and what you don't. They see you as a person who keeps what they think and feel a lot, but whose opinions are very fixed and difficult to change. They also see in you a lot of emotional depth, for you things are deeper and less simple than those of the people with whom they usually interact on a daily basis. Talking to you can change them a lot, from their way of being, their priorities or even their way of thinking. They may think that sexually you are very verbal, very skilled, experimental, and very adaptable.

🤎Your Mercury in their 9th house: Talking to you is a unique experience and they find it extremely fun. They see in you not just someone they can fool around with or joke around with, but they see you as someone somewhat philosophical with whom they can have serious, existential conversations. You are adaptable in their eyes and just as you can be their partner in misdeeds and their best friend, you can be that person with whom to talk about the future, ideologies and the most mysterious sides of life. You are a teacher for them and in this relationship you will teach them many things that they did not know, they will have a deep admiration for you and you will always easily manage to put a smile on their face. They will see you as a person with a lot of experience and wisdom. Before their eyes you communicate with vitality, hope and fire, fun with you is guaranteed. They love hearing from you about those clever things you come up with, even if you think they're weird. You are the person that comes to mind when they think of having someone to stay up all night talking to. Your phrases and what you say are what they call memorable. They see you as a very educated and intelligent person.

🤎Your Mercury in their 10th house: They see you as a person superior to others on an intellectual level, as a person who thinks a lot and plans their future, someone mature who faces life and problems rationally. They can admire you a lot intellectually and they find you a person with prestige. Your mind is a place that amazes them, you may even guide them to improve some skills, because they want to surprise you. They will always address you with respect, although not for that in a cold way, but they do not want to ruin things with you. They love it when you talk to them about your goals and aspirations and that you allow them to do the same. They like that you get excited about their achievements and take an interest in them, in addition to their plans. It is not difficult for them to think about a future with you, since you both share priorities and even motivations and goals. It is very likely that your long-term goals are similar to theirs. They seem touched when you care about their personal success and encourage them to be more independent, you make them feel supported in that regard.

🤎Your Mercury in their 11th house: In their eyes, you’re a person open to the idea of ​​communicating with many different people. They see you as someone who despite having an opinion or way of seeing things, is open enough to listen and talk about other points of view. They see you as a very intelligent person, in fact as one of the most intelligent people they know. They highlight your social intelligence and how you are able to understand others and their experiences. You’re a mixture of originality, uniqueness and awareness of others, they love to see that you don’t only think about your own opinion or well-being and you’re able to think of the other before doing something. You brought new perspectives and concepts into their lives, talking to you is a kind of revelation for them. Talking to you gives them a lot of inspiration and your words encourage them to go after what they dream of and want. You two may have similar ideologies, hobbies, interests, and knowledge. What happens with this overlay is that at first glance both may be different, but once you begin to open up you discover that you have more in common than you think. They’ll love the idea of ​​being able to work with you in any way, since there’s a lot of affinity and intellectual fascination.

🟫When your Rising falls in others 12th house tells us about a mirror relationship, I would dare to say that it is even more mirroring than if it fell in the 7th house. It may be an unpopular opinion, but if we analyze it, the 12th house is a house that tells us about the hidden, what we hide and/or repress from ourselves. You will be the reflection of the other person in terms of what he does not show, either due to fear or personal insecurities. In this relationship, you will help them to open up more, to show themselves in a transparent way and not to be ashamed of being who they are. They will feel drawn to precisely because you will be the reflection of what they feel they do not have or have not known before. You will help them to know sensations, feelings and things that they did not know or that they subconsciously refused or did not believe they deserved (i.e. to be loved, to have a good friendship, to open up, etc).

🟫If you have a stellium and it falls into a house of your partner that does not have planets, you can help them find a deeper meaning to the themes that that house rules, and you will help them develop the themes of that house more easily. But, if that stellium falls in the house where your North Node is, it is very likely that what you live together will be a very important part of your own development, you will teach you important and decisive lessons in your life and you will be able to begin to be the version of them that they themselves have as a goal to be.

🟫When a person's Jupiter is making a conjunction, trine or sextile with your Rising, you will notice that with its presence your spirits will improve a lot, that your perception of life will be better and more positive and that you will see yourself in a more constructive, optimistic and beneficial to yourself. This person, in addition to bringing you new perspectives, will help you develop self-esteem and encourage you to be more independent and authentic. Contrary to what you might think, this person will love all sides of your personality, even the ones you're ashamed of or don't share with others (it's enhanced if their Jupiter falls in your 12th house but it's conjunct Rising).

🟫The opposition between Moon-Moon is a fairly common aspect in marriages or long lasting relationships. This is because their emotional needs are more similar than they seemed, despite the small differences at the beginning, they understand the other and treat them with sweetness and delicacy. They may have similar ideas about family life and their ideologies about traditions. However, they have a somewhat different way of showing their emotions and finding comfort. Despite this, one of the purest and sweetest expressions can arise.

🟫When your Venus is conjunct their North Node, the romance that you experience will be something very significant for them, something that will mark them deeply and something that they will remember for a long time. This aspect indicates that both will bring out their romantic side much more easily than they would with other people. They will love each other sweetly and with a touch of passion and they will share many hobbies and preferences, their way of loving will be similar and they will teach each other that it is possible to have a nice and tender romance.

🟫If Sun or Moon are conjunct IC, no matter if it's on 3rd or 4th house, the planet person will play a crucial role in the life of the IC person. CI is the most sensitive point of the entire chart, so anything that comes into contact with this point will be very important for the person's life. The Sun/Moon person becomes the soft spot of the other, provokes in him emotions that he probably never imagined he would feel, or at least with that intensity. They become very memorable to the IC person and it will hardly be possible for them to forget them.

🟫If your Rising falls in their 3rd house, they will be very intrigued by you from the start. You are probably at first that stranger they saw on one occasion that they can hardly stop thinking about. Once they get to know each other better, they will think that you are a very witty, creative and intelligent person, someone with whom they share opinions that they consider crucial and a person with whom it is easy for them to spend hours and hours talking. They seem delighted by the way you express yourself and even if they are very quiet or reserved, they will become very chatty if you are around them and they will talk to you a lot about the way they see you and what you mean to them.

🟫When you have the North Node squaring the other's North Node it is usually indicating that you will teach each other important lessons, especially related to ego and balance. Both will be taught patience and perseverance, to learn to discern when it is valuable to fight for something and when it is not. In case these people want the other in their life, they can put a lot of focus and desire in the relationship, even if external factors want to get in the way.

🟫In case the Nodes are positively aspected (trine or sextile) we find a relationship in which they mutually help each other to achieve what they want, it is very usual for these people to be that peace after the turbulence, things can be more fluid than what they perceive from the outside world. Both will help each other grow and will be very understanding of what the other feels and thinks.

🟫When your Rising falls in someone's 9th house it indicates that this person sees you positively, as a very charming, fun and radiant person like a ray of sunshine. You make him feel and think that there are still good and well-intentioned people in the world. You have a knack for inspiring them and opening their minds, they may feel more open to receiving new ideas, especially if they come from you. They see you as a teacher and as a person who subconsciously motivates them to be a better version of themselves.

🟫Many people either take this aspect as a downfall or do not give it much importance. When it comes to a square between Moon-Venus both people can teach each other new things in terms of relationships. The basis of this aspect is that both have somewhat different emotional needs and preferences, meaning that if both are very stubborn and closed-minded, they see it as an immediate off. But, what happens if we open up to meet the other or if there are other positive aspects? Both people can teach the other to open up to other ways of making themselves feel loved. For example, if one of them has difficulty verbalizing their feelings, and the other is more verbal, they may find themselves intrigued and fascinated by this quality of the other, since they feel that they cannot do it themselves. This square is one of the easiest to work with, since the nature of both planets is already quite compatible. If they share other trigons or conjunctions, they can be used as ways to work this square.

🟫The positive aspects between Mercury and Mars (trine, sextile, parallel, quintile or biquintile) make both people easily happy and motivated when talking or after talking with the other person. The Mercury person learns to think and plan better for the future and to put his ideas into action, he feels that his ideas are clearer and he learns to think and plan independently, as well as to say what he thinks and be faithful to what he really wants. While the Mars person obtains a better direction, he learns to be more rational and analytical when undertaking an action or idea. Both teach each other to be more spontaneous and feel more dynamic being together. Communication is fluid and somewhat fun.

🟫Saturn-Venus contacts can be truly sublime for both parties. For the Venus person, they can feel that they are taken seriously, that they have found someone very devoted to them and someone who can give them that firmness and sense of stability that they may have lacked in past relationships. While the Saturn person will be fascinated not only by beauty but also by sweetness and affection, being able to melt that hard shell with which he usually approaches love. Both can have a stable relationship and it should be added that there may be a fear of making a mistake in the relationship that makes the other feel misunderstood or unloved, this happens especially for aspects such as conjunction, opposition or square. Even so, no matter how tense the aspect is, it does not take away the loyalty and commitment of the relationship.

🟫The Sun-Mars conjunction is extremely interesting and gives us a powerful attraction for both parties, but especially for the Mars person. Both of them can become and behave very flirty with the other, they can find themselves irresistible and feel a fascination for the body of the other. The Mars person sees the Sun person as alluring, powerful and dominant, while the latter will see the Mars person as someone chaotic, intense and equally seductive. There can be some competition in some cases (especially if Mars is making a lot of tense aspects with the rest of the planets), and it can give us an enemies to lover vibes at times. They both feel very dynamic after spending time with each other, especially the Sun person. There is that sexual tension that is capable of being felt from the beginning.

🟫There is a spiritual touch to the relationship of those with a Jupiter-Pluto trine/sextile. They both feel that they grow with the other, that they learn a lot and that together, they can face whatever life throws at them, becoming much braver since they are with each other. They feel a strong connection because of their similar beliefs and ways of seeing complex issues, such as death or sex or even the true meaning of life. Both learn to see life with different eyes and can feel that they begin to truly enjoy it with the presence of the other person. Jupiter person will bring a lot of light, joy and new insights to Pluto person who will be very intrigued by it. While Pluto person will bring transformation, changes and an intense union to the life of Jupiter person, who will feel very attracted to them.

🟫Many times when we are told about the square between Venus-Mars it is painted as something fully sexual and somewhat chaotic. One of the problems that can arise is the difference when it comes to showing desire and forming love. Both may have very different ways of showing love, but that doesn't mean they don't feel it. To solve this square, two factors are crucial: good communication and acceptance. If both are mature enough, they will understand that they cannot change the other. When we see this aspect, it is recommended that both make clear the way in which they want to be loved and what attitudes they do not like. The attraction is very strong, as much as the adoration for the other.

🟫When your Rising is conjunct someone's MC this person shows a lot of admiration for who you are and what you have accomplished. In their eyes you are a great person, someone who achieves what is proposed and in general someone who inspires and motivates them to try to be better every day. This is because the MC often displays traits that we admire and what we consider to be superior to ourselves in some way. With this overlay-aspect we have a relationship based on motivation, admiration and self-improvement.

🟫When your Moon is conjunct another's North Node, it means that this person will help you develop your emotional side. The North Node native will be delighted with the Moon person, they will feel a lot of inexplicable warmth towards this person and they will have a well-developed instinct to protect and care for them. While Moon Person will see to their well-being and pay a lot of attention to them, treating them with great delicacy and treating them with great affection. Both of them will feel that this connection was fateful and they will see each other as a very special person in each other's life, especially for the North Node person, who will see the other as a very special person in their life regardless of the time that has passed or if the other person continues or not in their life.

🟫If your Saturn is aspecting your partner's Sun or Chart ruler, chances are they think you bring order and stability into their life. You make them have a need to want to improve either as a person, professionally or in any other way so that you see and feel that something stable augurs you with them. In your case, you can see them as people with whom you can have a lasting, solid and secure relationship. There is a lot of trust between them and they can feel that they finally have someone to rely on.