ೃ ⁀➷ ASTRO RED FLAGS : IN MEN
disclaimer !!! please do not judge based on the knowledge of knowing someone / you have a particular placement stated within this post. the energy of each placement can follow through no matter the gender and in different ways that aren't inherently negative. Proceed with caution and take the whole chart into consideration before taking to heart. Have fun!
disclaimer !!! these are all based off of my own natural experiences and from thorough examination of research.
❝ disclaimer !!! this post is not intended for minors to read, I will be discussing sexual topics. ❞ PROCEED WITH CAUTION.
⁰¹ ೃ ⁀➷ GEMINI LILITH : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : gossip prone, always in drama, loner, manipulative, lack of social life
➤ most of the immediate men in my life have a gemini lilith, if not? strong personal gemini placements in their big 6. but I've noticed that these men are always in the center of some friend group drama or relationship drama. they're also the type of individuals to have their relationship all on display, whether thats good or bad. I knew a guy who wasn't in the healthiest relationship and everyone knew that was the case.
this is also a good indication of being a manipulator, they can make you second guess yourself or change the people you hang out with. make you switch from friend group to friend group. barks orders and expects you to follow suit like a cute puppy.
if they don't have many friends, it can be obvious (there's nothing wrong with not having many friends). they can tend to loners or sit in their own self pity. but usually it's because no one wants to be around them, or they were exiled from groups, or they simply do not want to in fear of said reasons.
gemini lilith men are also men who aren't committal beings, they choose to go about their life and try and find the right one through multiple partners. can't stay in a relationship for more than a year.
⁰² ೃ ⁀➷ PLUTO IN THE 1H : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : egotistical, anger issues, sexual impulse issues
➤ when encountering a man with pluto in their 1h, prepare for their large ego. they will believe they are a god / king of sorts. and if they don't? they believe they're the devil LMAO. they make it apparent in usual day to day conversations about how much they "love themselves" and how they have great values as a person but doesn't realize how truly unstable their energy is.
unstable in the sense of anger, they want to only see their side of the story / opinion as correct and final. if you chose to disagree and counteract, expect pushback. will go out of their way to insult and embarrass you to deem themselves in a good light. lacks balance within their relationships.
they also have a problem with sexual impulse and coercion. any woman they deem attractive will be sexualized (thats in a some men's nature sadly). puts women into categories, derogatory nicknames for each woman.
⁰³ ೃ ⁀➷ PISCES PLACEMENTS : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : overly emotional, manipulative, will use words against you, delusional, dark fantasies
➤ jesus. god almighty.
I've been "romantically" inclined with pisces energy twice in my life. never again. these men can easily be head over heels for you, which sounds sweet in theory… but it's usually more sinister than that from my experience.
when they envision a woman they have their eyes set on, they tend to idealize and fantasize about a version that is not within their reality (clocked my libra stellium). depending on where the pisces + libra energy is placed. their thoughts of you can turn borderline obsessive and weird.
TW: MENTIONS OF R*PE and M*RDER
I knew a pisces man who had VERY strong feelings for me. to the point he'd tell me dreams he'd have of me in them. telling me how I'd be happily married at home and he'd come sneak in my house in the middle of the night and kill my "husband" and then proceed to rape me… I was at a loss for words. and there were more dreams that had a sadistic taste to them that he refused to tell me.
these men will also be very emotionally manipulative, give you silent treatment, laugh in your face when you tell them how you feel. lack of empathy overall for you. will make you apologize over the little things that trigger them that you didn't even KNOW.
pisces and libra placements can also hold grudges and hold a vendetta towards women over their first heartbreak. will constantly bring up "the one that got away" "the one who made me this way." this is a demon I hope you stay away from.
⁰⁴ ೃ ⁀➷ CANCER MARS : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : mommy issues, prone to have issues with feminine energy, non-confrontational, easy to anger
➤ mommy issues!! these men have strong issues with feminine energy and make it everyone's problem. especially if their mars is making negative aspects to their moon and mercury. they're usually the one's who break their partners hearts due to the issue of being unable to express their emotions.
they usually keep quiet of their emotions and due to this they have a lot of pent up energy that they threaten to unleash on a daily basis, whether that be sexual or not. it's like a beast being held back by a singular toothpick. even though they regulate their anger well compared to others that I've seen. once they snap, they snap.
but most of the time when they do snap, it's usually because of applied pressure. pushing their boundaries by asking simple questions that should be easy to answer. and it's like they physically can't take it. so they explode in your face.
⁰⁵ ೃ ⁀➷ SAG MARS + VENUS : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : flighty, childish, overly sarcastic, very cold, unconsciously hurtful with words, brute
➤ these men can be extremely harsh and cold. their sarcastic and "know it all" energy can come off distant and brute. even if they don't have the intentions to be that way, that's how they exactly come off. they can also be very childish, my brother has this placement. he can usually be the cause of something and he doesn't take responsibility for. he could push a glass off the table and say verbatim "that wasn't my fault, it was the glass' choice to fall, so don't blame me."
this can be in many situations regarding them taking other people's emotional outbursts at face value. not taking their emotions seriously and telling them to calm down or be dismissive. "you were the one that yelled at me, calm down" type shit.
they also have a flighty nature and choose not to commit due to lack of freedom. wants as much space and perks within relationship before settling down.
⁰⁶ ೃ ⁀➷ TAURUS MERCURY : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : plays aloof, know it all, downplays your emotions
➤ men with a taurus mercury are the type of individuals who like to downplay your emotions when having conversations or play aloof when under stress / accountability. they act as if you're talking to them in an ancient hebrew language. or they act as if they're a know it all and they talk to you as if you're the dumbest person alive. a indication of mansplaining.
⁰⁷ ೃ ⁀➷ HARSH ASPECTS TO MOON (PERSONAL PLANETS) : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : lack of self love + confidence, lack of emotional maturity, doesn't care how their actions make others feel
➤ I've noticed when looking at a multitude of men's chart that when they have personal planet afflictions to the moon— they may have a lack of self love and inner confidence… or they have a hard time with their own emotions and feminine energy. I've seen men have more confidence with arguing and degrading a woman in public than assess themselves in the mirror. they usually don't think before they act and don't take other people's emotions into consideration before acting.
they may also have a rocky relationship with their mother, or have been on the receiving end of abuse from their mother or maternal side of the family.
note: there are more indications in the natal chart to state this claim, this is just one of them that I have noticed.
⁰⁸ ೃ ⁀➷ HARSH ASPECTS TO MOON + MERCURY : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : childish, bad communicators, likes to argue, doesn't care how their words make people feel
➤ I've noticed that when having harsh aspects between moon and mercury that this can cause men to have a restriction to how they voice themselves. or on the latter hand, they tend to listen to respond than actually listen to hold a conversation. they can be prone to arguments or can be outspoken and hold resentment because of that. these people can also be argument prone and rather get into arguments than actual conversations. the type of guy to bully you as "flirting."
ᴴᴼᴺᴱᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ೃ ⁀➷ 6H, 8H, 12H SYNASTRY : within negative connotation!!!
— key themes : experiencing traumatic events with an individual, feelings can go unreciprocated, only being used for sex, feeling like a burden to their life rather than an addition
➤ this is a wonderful honorable mention. as someone who has experienced these first hand, whether it be as the planet person or the house person, it never has ended good. maybe it's because of my 7h saturn, but men who I've had this synastry with I don't speak to anymore because they have either betrayed me or broken my heart. if I do have this synastry with a man, I keep them at a far length.
having 6h synastry with someone can contort into this feeling of worthlessness, feeling as if you're more of a burden to their life rather than an addition. you'll most likely be the one reaching out than the other way around.
having 8h synastry with a man can be erotic, heavy, secretive and borderline controlling. it feels as if this person has you in lust rather than in love. it's a mutual connection based on the attraction to the person. and can feel as if you're uncovering and bringing out the worst in each other when spending time with this person.
having 12h synastry with a man is hell. it feels as if his presence is within you from day in to day out. a connection that is karmic and soul bonding, but at what cost? what is this man supposed to teach you? they can be a person who breaks you and pushes you pass your limit. a lot of trauma can blossom from this connection. so assess the connection carefully before choosing to commit.
note: these synastry placement can't be inherently bad, but make sure to look at the whole synastry chart before making rash decisions. make sure the person you're checking synastry with is within an actual relationship with you. whether that be platonic or romantic.
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