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I wouldn't go as far to say that every Scorpio Venus/Taurus over the 8th house/Venus at a Scorpio degree (8, 20) (either women or men) have a Madonna-whore complex, but there is a similar pattern that is happening. A lot of them either find someone cute, hot and are attracted to them, but struggle with developing proper, real feelings, because the attraction is overwhelming them. OR they have real emotion for someone who they are just not that physically attracted to. Which I think is why they could struggle with loyalty or betray someone, they are very much "divided" internally themselves.

On this point, a lot of Scorpio Venus/Taurus over the 8th house/Venus at a Scorpio degree (8, 20) have "unavailable" Moon sign, usually there is Moon Uranus aspect, Sagittarius Moon, Aries Moon or Moon Saturn aspect, Capricorn Moon that makes them emotionally unavailable or disconnected from their emotional world, which is why their attraction feels taboo.

Furthermore, they get plenty of chances throughout life to be together with really attractive, hot people, yet they are too insecure about their own physical appearance to actually develop real feelings for that person, they prefer to let them go. They tend to have self-worth issues that go deeper than insecurity, to being insecure about the type of clothing and how much clothes they have, how much money they earn, the aesthetics of their home, car, how much they can provide, their social network and friends.

Also, they tend to repeat the previous relationship(s) with the next, new one. They just continue what they were doing before, making it seem like the connection is not special. Going to the same restaurants, galleries, watching the same TV series, basically the same traditions.

I think the placements that really compare themselves the most are Gemini/Virgo over the 8th house, Pluto over the 3rd house, Pluto in the 6th house, weirdly Libra Moon (I believe, because it's sidereal Virgo Moon). They will compare randomly with a close friend, their sibling, cousin, the in-laws, a person on social media, a schoolmate, co-worker, especially when it comes to cars, education, knowledge, jobs. They also compare themselves in the most random moments.

I think in little ways both 8th and 12th house show how they will treat you after they are done with you. For example:

Leo over the 12th house: they will say you seek their attention after every time you do something that they dislike or don't approve of

Virgo over the 12th house: they turn very overly critical of you, they nit-pick apart your job choice, clothing, your natural features, everything will be criticised or they will express that they are deeply dissatisfied with you

Aries over the 8th house: they won't try to calm you down after an argument, they will just leave and let you calm down on your own

Taurus over the 8th house: they turn very unemotional, instead straight-up logical, also definitely tries to pretend like they never liked you in the first place or like you never existed

Cancer over the 8th house: they retract every emotional support or emotional validation, won't try to understand you emotionally anymore, instead listening only to their feelings, also will start having invisible beef with your family or dislike not only you, but your family members as well

If you ever doubt if they are cheating, just look at which signs, planets, degrees are in your or their 12th house, honestly there is your answer always. Usually it corresponds to the other person's Sun sign or they have that Sun - personal planet aspect.

You have heard that 8th house Synastry is raw, passionate, authentic. While this is true, something else is also true at the same time. I would argue a lot of 8th house Synastries share common themes: you met in work setting or any formal, public setting, even educational, some elements of the connection are forced or give off the feeling of being arranged.

Leo Chiron and Chiron at a Leo degree (5, 17, 29) get hurt in dating the most, their dating life tends to be public as well. The public knows the good and the bad things happening in their dating life.

I think why Selena Gomez seemed so obsessed with Bella Hadid for decades is because she has Saturn in the 7th house and Bella Hadid is Libra Sun. She wishes to be more like her in the future. She sees her as intelligent, poised and beautiful (Libra) which is how Selena wants to be perceived as, but she mastered it only after her Saturn Return.

If you have Cancer Moon, Moon in the 4th or Cancer Venus, Venus in the 4th house you could end up with or marry a partner who is younger than you. But if you have Capricorn Moon, Moon in the 10th house or Capricorn Venus, Venus in the 10th house you could date younger when you were young too, but could still end up long-term with someone older.

We are all looking at Pisces Moon for how emotionally chaotic they are, but I believe Sagittarius Moons are just as equally emotionally all over the place. Very similar traits to Pisces Moon, escapistic tendencies, especially travel, but also substance overuse (especially alcohol), too much sugar, the oversleeping, watching films, isolating themselves, experiencing unrequited feelings. They find it very hard to decipher what they are feeling in the moment.

Saturn in someone's 8th house Synastry is no joke. You might think it's nothing, because it's a generational planet. Until you have a situationship or a very short-lived connection where you are still dealing with the ending, the breakup for the next 10 years after. The aftermath and consequences of this connection are insane. Y'all are arguing about that one exchanged birthday gift after 5 years. Also, what you saw about them while the connection was still active, the public will be able to see and recognize in 10 years time, you just saw it first.

can you please interpret having uranus in the 9th house of a solar return chart?

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Uranus in the 9th house - Solar Return

A series of events may occur that cause the native to change their outlook on life. As this is a "Uranian" shift, there is a certain freshness to the way they view and interpret the world; akin to seeing it from a perspective they had not previously held. Very often, these changes prompt the native to seek a life lived with greater freedom and authenticity.

Since the topics of freedom and authenticity have come up, it is highly likely that the native will adopt an individualistic outlook on life this year. This does not necessarily border on selfishness; rather, instead of comparing themselves to others, constantly judging, or viewing things always through a biased lens, the native focuses more on their own internal processes. Uranus provides the necessary detachment to accept that many people do not act the way they do, allowing them to view each situation from a less personal perspective. They find it easier to understand others without absorbing their energy (something that might happen under the influence of Neptune).

This could be a perfect year to start learning something new that has always piqued your curiosity. Since it is the 9th house, focusing on a subject you have always wanted to learn about can lead to the accumulation of a vast amount of knowledge in that area. Information is absorbed more easily.

It can spark curiosity about subjects such as psychology, spirituality, sociology, or the humanities in general. However, these are studied independently (through videos, courses, or one's own methods).

The possibility of long-distance travel, or even trips abroad, is highly likely. Air travel becomes significant, as Uranus is closely associated with airplanes.

The native will be able to make friends abroad or with people from cultural backgrounds very different from their own. If they already have friends abroad, communication and contact with them will strengthen during this period.

As far as university is concerned, Uranus brings its characteristic changes here as well. It can represent a change of direction (such as switching from one's previous field of study to something more aligned with one's interests), graduating, or abruptly dropping out of university, or the start of this new phase (enrolling).

I have Sun/Mercury/Venus/Pluto all in 6H(capricorn) and 3H Saturn and ive been told that all the time they see me with books.

Obsession with learning in the chart

Certainly, when discussing learning, the 3rd house must immediately be taken into account. If we examine certain indicators using it as the central focus, I can mention the following:

💫 Having a stellium in this house indicates that, throughout our lives, we will use or wish to use our energy to learn about and explore the world around us.

💫 The chart ruler (that is, the ruler of the 1st house) can reveal a personality strongly inclined toward acquiring knowledge on a wide variety of subjects.

💫 Having the North Node in this house leads us to feel that exploring any topic that captures our interest is part of our life's purpose. There is a seemingly insatiable thirst for knowledge and an aptitude for mastering many different subjects over the course of our lives.

💫Having planets like Sun, Mars, or Pluto in this house leads to a very interesting relationship with this subject matter. These individuals tend to dive headfirst into studying and exploring a topic once a spark of interest is ignited, striving to uncover as much as possible. It is worth noting a distinction, however: if the Sun or Mars occupies this house, the person may lose interest or fail to sustain consistent energy for the study once they have discovered everything they deem important (unless these planets are in an earth sign or forming harmonious aspects with Saturn).

💫Venus in this house typically indicates someone who finds pleasure in learning. At the very least, these individuals enjoy reading a good novel; they turn learning into an enjoyable activity and love discovering new things.

💫If Moon rules this house (with Cancer on the 3rd House cusp) and is placed in a mutable sign (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, or Pisces), there is a need for variety in one's life; often with learning new things serving as the source of that variety.

💫When the ruler of the 3rd house is in the 2nd house or vice versa, the native may equate their self-worth with the extent of their knowledge. Consequently, learning becomes synonymous with developing expertise in various fields that can eventually be transformed into practical skills.

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Trigger warning mentioned weight

If you end a relationship and you're a Taurus Venus, they will try to humble you. But if you are a Scorpio Venus, they will say "it's me not you" and try to hype you up.

Both Martian Moons (Aries, Scorpio Moon) care a lot about their physical body. They care about gaining/losing weight, because they feel so in tune with their bodies that they "feel" too much or too little weight in their body. Out of all Moon signs, they care the most about hygene, physical appearance, how put together they look, being nicely dressed far more than they let on.

Capricorn Moons usually have the most athletic body type even if they don't work out. But those disciplined Capricorn Moons, actually have the consistent energy to work out. Naturally very toned bodies out of Moon signs. Look at famous Capricorn Moons such as Benson Boone, Jaden Smith etc.

Scorpio Risings have this thing with weight in the past that now they openly dislike people, partners who can't control themselves or are undisciplined when it comes to weight, working out and eating. Some Scorpio Risings were chubby in early life, but not all of them, a lot of them are lean since birth.

With 8th house sign and Synastry they will either go all out for you or save their money on you.

If you have Gemini over the 8th house, you will end up using your partner's car more than your own. You have "what is yours is also mine" mentality here.

And the same it goes for any other sign you have over 8th house, it shows where you will merge with your partner the most and it will be out of your control. Such as Cancer over the 8th house: your family will become their family, Leo: your hobbies, interests, past times will become theirs, Aries: they will adopt your personality, identity and your favourite sports hobby, Taurus: your money/salary is theirs too, Aquarius: your friends are theirs as well. It shows what you share with people you have a deep trusted bond and you're physically intimate with.

Leo Descendants (5, 17, 29) could be prone to have a committed partner (even after marriage) that has a wandering eye, flirts with others, seeks attention (when they are bored with you) elsewhere, possible affair, but not always.

When you have Gemini Descendant and Gemini degree descendant (3, 15, 27), Virgo degree Descendant (6, 18) it gives you in-laws that compare themselves to you A LOT (also your partner's sibling).

If you have Cancer over the 7th house, your partner's mother could think you are not good enough for their daughter/son, they could compete with you.

If you have Libra Moon/Cancer over the 7th house/Moon in the 7th house/Moon at a Libra degree (7, 19) you could emotionally cheat. This is also a type to secure another relationship before actually ending the last one, like you could already have someone lined up.

If there is any Pluto or Mars contact with your 9th house in your Natal chart, there could be subtle tension with your partner's parents or they could easily frustrate you.

I think a lot of people from Neptune in Capricorn generation have a tougher, harder time with Capricorn Suns. You might constantly feel Capricorn Sun doesn't have your best interests at heart. This generational placement might also struggle with periods of longer unemployment or are generally confused about career, long-term goal or where they are going next in life.

A lot of Sagittarius Moons or Moon in the 9th house are recreational alcoholics. They just do it inconsistently enough, so they make you think they don't have a problem.

Virgo Risings have a partner that gives them stomacheache. Literally everytime they are in a committed partnership, Virgo Risings end up bloated or your nervious system is dysregulated.

If you have Pisces Descendant, you could have in-laws that act like they like you, but secretly dislike you, put you down behind your back or gossip about you when you're not around.