#sushies

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if you're in to/post a majority of

-bnha

-mob psycho

-fmab

-90s anime

-asoue

-stranger things

-Harry Potter

-doctor who/Sherlock

-misfits

-literature

-fallout boy/Paramore

-dodie

-cavetown

-studyblr

-any k pop

-Steven universe

-gravity falls

-otgw

-food

-cats

-or anything sweet pastel

Lister: *curled up with a bag of doritos watching Brooklyn nine nine*

Yes we've all heard the "so you're a plant" joke, thanks for the dehumanisation by the way, but what people fail to realise is the complete heartbreak asexuals can feel because they can't live up to the medias portrayal of romantic actions. Does kissing have to be that romantic? I'm more interest in hugs and sweet kisses on the cheeks and hand holding and little cute gestures. I'm a hopeless romantic at heart, but it's like I can never uncover it because there's this invisible line I can never cross as an asexual. This invisible line that was drawn by society that should be erased. It's heartbreaking watch couples in love because I feel like I'm never going to get it even though I wish for it so bad. The constant discrimination of asexuals hurts, from the blatant comments of "you need to be fixed" "asexuals aren't a thing" "how do you know you don't like sex if you've never tried it?" And numerous offensive other comments I've seen and heard, but it goes deeper than that. The notion of sexual actions being romantic being the normal creates this ideology that asexuals can't achieve the ultimate romantic gestures as they have been linked with sexual attraction and activity. I'm barred off from love and I want to experience, to the point where I wish I could experience sexual attraction and the want for sex and kiss someone passionately but being asexual isn't about what you want it's about how your body is wired and how you're attracted to people. It feels like I'm the outcast, the leftover. I truly feel broken even though I have all the emotions and heart to experience love, but I don't have the sexuality to achieve the ideologies.

Although it's pride month

I don't feel very proud

⇒flux by orion carloto

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