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Once I finally opened up to my boyfriend about my current financial stresses, he has been spoiling me nonstop, extended my birthday trip to Mexico, and has me touring houses with him for us to move in together next year! Building wealth up for both of us that way, plus going for a low mortgage so that we both can save money & travel more..

Also, watching videos and reading about feminine / masculine traits… made me realize I need to get WAY more in touch with my feminine and once I did, he started providing and taking care of me so much more..!!

For upscale restaurants or special occasions, these tips will apply to most dining situations not only to help impress, but to be aware of proper table manners & standard etiquette.

✨Maintain your posture! No slouching. Back upright, shoulders back, and wrists or forearms at the edge of the table. No elbows on the table (only hands, wrists, forearms) unless it’s a cafe or very casual restaurant!!

✨Keep phone off the table and away. Engage your date or the people at your table. They deserve your full attention as do you with theirs.

✨Place the cloth napkin folded once on your lap. It helps with messiness and avoidance of stains. When wiping your mouth and face, try to conceal the saucy areas on the cloth from being flashed to the people around your table every time you wipe by wiping with one section.

✨Multiple forks, knives, and spoons? Work from the outside in (from farther to closest to the sides of the plate 🍽). Usually the biggest fork is for the main entree, small fork/spoon for dessert.

✨Chew with your mouth closed of course. Finish chewing before speaking. Don’t put large bite sizes of food into your mouth or even cut up all your food at once. It seems animalistic to eat hurried and rushed! During special occasions there’s no need to rush, this isn’t lunch break at work. Enjoy the experience which means take your time!

✨Don’t wipe your plate clean! Leave some bits of food and please don’t ask for a to-go box.

✨When finished with food, place utensils in the 5 o’clock position. This notifies the waiter you’re finished. If you’re just taking a break, place the utensil in their normal position besides the plate.

✨Always excuse yourself before departing the table. You can spare the details on the bathroom. Leaving abruptly is considered rude.

✨Don’t hand over your empty dishes to waiter or try to help clean off the table at fine dining or high-end restaurants.

✨Save touching up makeup for the restroom. It doesn’t matter how chapped your lips are! If this is a dining event with refined people who aren’t close to you, excuse yourself from the table!

✨Don’t eye the bill or even mention anything about it unless you’re paying! That’s not your business.

WHO THE FUCK STAYED OVERNIGHT FOR $500? I just want to talk

 I've been meaning to make this post for a while but I'm glad I waited. I hate SA (More detailed post about the burning hatred I have for this site later) so of course I jumped on tinder after I heard about a few SB using it to find POTs! 

And GIRLLLLLLLL please believe me when I tell you the sea is WIDE and the fish are PLENTY!! I had some luck in the very beginning but it is not EASY. I honestly think I'm also going to make a more detailed post about how to make the perfect SB profile on tinder without directly saying you're a SB. 

When I say its not EASY i mean its NOT EASY! I think thats the one thing that every SB needs to understand honestly. This entire lifestyle is HARD and it will never be easy. You will get better at it but it will always be a job in some way. 

The men on tinder are all part of 3 categories; Actual sugar daddies who already know whats up, middle class vanilla men looking for love, and successful old men who can afford the SD life but are hoping to find a young attractive girl that wants to be with them for love LOOOOL. I’d say the ratio is something like 20%, 50%, 30% (in my city). I personally like those odds because its basically 50/50 if you know how to talk to a vanilla man about SD/SB relationships without scaring him away. 

BUT, and this is why Im glad I waited to make this post, the men are FLAKY. Like I said earlier the men are there and most of them are willing, but due to tinders bad rep most of them are hesitant which leads to flaking. Ive set up 3 POT dates off tinder and 2 of them flaked on me last minute 🙄 Im still trying to figure out a way around this because I like the convenience of tinder. I also like having the option to also be a SG if I wanted. Tinder gives women the control and I love that about it. 

Anyways, my point is try tinder!! Especially if you're new to the bowl (or coming back after a while like me) It’s good practice for talking about what kind of arrangement you're looking for and ASKING FOR YOUR COINS. Im also using it to get up the nerve to freestyle! It will get discouraging, trust me I'm discouraged as hell right now but I'm not going to give up. I also think I might try Bumble. Okcupid SUCKS! Nothing but weirdos and broke ass niggas on there. I will update on Tinder progress after I actually get a date off there.