TINDER!!! TINDER!!! TINDER!!!
I've been meaning to make this post for a while but I'm glad I waited. I hate SA (More detailed post about the burning hatred I have for this site later) so of course I jumped on tinder after I heard about a few SB using it to find POTs!
And GIRLLLLLLLL please believe me when I tell you the sea is WIDE and the fish are PLENTY!! I had some luck in the very beginning but it is not EASY. I honestly think I'm also going to make a more detailed post about how to make the perfect SB profile on tinder without directly saying you're a SB.
When I say its not EASY i mean its NOT EASY! I think thats the one thing that every SB needs to understand honestly. This entire lifestyle is HARD and it will never be easy. You will get better at it but it will always be a job in some way.
The men on tinder are all part of 3 categories; Actual sugar daddies who already know whats up, middle class vanilla men looking for love, and successful old men who can afford the SD life but are hoping to find a young attractive girl that wants to be with them for love LOOOOL. I’d say the ratio is something like 20%, 50%, 30% (in my city). I personally like those odds because its basically 50/50 if you know how to talk to a vanilla man about SD/SB relationships without scaring him away.
BUT, and this is why Im glad I waited to make this post, the men are FLAKY. Like I said earlier the men are there and most of them are willing, but due to tinders bad rep most of them are hesitant which leads to flaking. Ive set up 3 POT dates off tinder and 2 of them flaked on me last minute 🙄 Im still trying to figure out a way around this because I like the convenience of tinder. I also like having the option to also be a SG if I wanted. Tinder gives women the control and I love that about it.
Anyways, my point is try tinder!! Especially if you're new to the bowl (or coming back after a while like me) It’s good practice for talking about what kind of arrangement you're looking for and ASKING FOR YOUR COINS. Im also using it to get up the nerve to freestyle! It will get discouraging, trust me I'm discouraged as hell right now but I'm not going to give up. I also think I might try Bumble. Okcupid SUCKS! Nothing but weirdos and broke ass niggas on there. I will update on Tinder progress after I actually get a date off there.
STB 💅🏾
