sooooo I'm working on rebuilding my understanding of astrology because it's sort of atrophied while I was focused on work over the last year. and while I'm learning how to build and maintain different kinds of relationships I've been sort of dissecting my emotional responses and trying to place where they come from in my chart! so! a few theories I've gained-
the sun as your behavior when you like someone. in reflecting on my own behavior and the behavior of others when I first begin a friendship and we're both in the All Chemistry No Substance phase, I've realized I think this all has a lot to do with ego. not in a negative way either- just the mutual flattery of someone seeking out your company when they're under no pretense of obligation. it feels very solar to me.
the moon as your behavior when you care for someone. the moon is all about nurture and mothering. I've always understood this to be about how you "parent" yourself through life and learn from how you were parented as a child. as a gemini moon, a lot of my care for others looks like frantically fluttering around someone doing tiny little tasks to help them, or like offering money. very gemini. so although uninspired, it was an easy interpretation for me to miss.
venus as how you give pieces of yourself to others. some people constantly cut themselves open and allow loved ones to remove whatever they need. some people turn love into religion. venus is about giving yourself over and about accepting others into yourself.
anyway all this to say I'm working on a silly little series on the sun/moon/venus signs and a meter for how much they like you! hopefully will be done sometime in february but released incrementally :)
