#struggeling

It's not just touch Wille is missing, but it is Simon's touch, he doesn't only need someone to talk to, but he needs Simon's ear and his voice, his opinions which will make him look at things differently.

I am the one you trust

I am your friend

I am always there for you

I am your friend

I am your free therapist

I am your friend

I understand you

I am your friend

You can always come to me

I am your friend

But I wonder if you ever saw

I am your friend

They are arguing again about things that are not that important in the end. And I could intervene and stop them and try to mediate between them. Telling them that all that really matters is to understand the opposed side and feelings behind the action and to find a compromise together.

They are struggeling again with not being present and scattering themselves in all directions to make everyone else happy but themselves. And I could tell them and explain what to do.

But none of that is my place!

People can get upset when you try to help them. You’re giving them the solutions. When you have all the solutions there will be nothing left to do.

I can give hints and tips but I can’t tell the solutions. I can’t, because all we are in life is learning.