Why many women donât want to have kids
Women get criticised a lot when they decide they donât want to have kids. Itâs not because they hate them, but itâs because they donât see themselves as a mother in the future. There are a lot of reasons why many women decide that kids arenât for them.
The first of one being, they are probably focus more on their career. There are many women who have fast driven successful careers that they probably believe that kids are slowing them down, they probably canât multitask and would rather only have one role. The second one is that many women canât have children and yes, adoption and surrogate is an option, but it depends on her the person is. Things like this take a lot of time and if you really want kids than go for it, but many women who canât have children and probably donât even want children. Probably the last one is the woman you criticised for the decision not to have children probably had multiple miscarriages. They probably think that the world is telling them that being a mother isnât their call and donât want to go through with the pain.
Not only women get criticised for saying they donât want children. But if someone does have kids they are probably forced to have their tubes tied to prevent them from having anymore children. In 1973-1976, 3406 Native American Women were sterilised without their consent. Not only do people criticise womenâs choice to not have kids, but they are probably the same people who forced women to get sterilised to stop them from having anymore kids. I know that the Native American Women fact was a long time, but whose to say itâs still not happening.