The Real Secrets To Steal a Woman’s Heart (Or Really Anyones!)
1. Wake her up with some breakfast
I get it guys, cooking is hard, but it honestly doesn’t have to be. Just waking her up with some home made waffles cooked in a waffle maker would make anyone break down in tears. Imagine how you would feel if someone did that for you. You know someone cares about you if they’re willing to put in the effort without even being asked. Not to mention, who doesn’t love food? Crazy people, that’s who. Maybe you’re into that. The bottom line is, the old saying of “The best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach,” works both ways. It’s a small step, but it can go a long way.
You can get a fairly inexpensive waffle maker just about anywhere. This is my personal pick if it’s for the one you love simply because you can cook a whole batch very quickly and they’re immediately ready in a heart shape. How romantic.
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2. Skip the Jewelry and Clothing and Instead Get Her a Pillow
Sounds crazy, right? Well it’s not. While expensive jewelry and clothing might sound like obvious gift ideas, do you know what they don’t offer that a good pillow does? Comfort. Just like with food, a pillow lets your significant other know that you care about their well being and are actively trying to make their lives better, rather than just coexisting near each other. Think about it, if after a hard day you’re just dying to slam dunk yourself into bed, so is your partner.
Really, you could get just about any neck pillow, but I recommend getting a massaging one for maximum affect like this one, which also has heated pads for even more comfort.
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3. Just Spend Time With Her
No, seriously. That’s it.
Yes, I know this is the most basic aspect of any relationship, but it still seems most people generally forget about this constantly. For the most part, couples all over the globe often know nothing about each other, what they like, what they don’t like, and in many cases don’t even care. If you’re one of these people, how can you honestly expect to say you care about someone enough to be in a relationship if you don’t even care about what they have to think? I don’t mean start a random philosophical conversation with them every day, I mean just pay attention to them. Make playlists you both like, try to understand their hobbies, just get involved in their life and stop thinking of just yourself.
That’s really the general theme I hope anyone could get out of this. Just think about them. Don’t say you do it, actually think about your partner. Think about how they’re doing. Think about how what you’re doing could affect them. Think about how they feel. You could buy them all of New York and it wouldn’t make a difference if there’s just no connection, and that connection is built upon genuinely caring about each other. No amount of boxed chocolates, flowers, or Netflix passwords could ever buy genuine love and affection. So, please, go out and ask your significant other about their day. They could really use the support.
