#space issues

Let’s get our rebelling inner children together. Time to communicate like grown ups.

We keep stretching our absolute boundaries. I wonder what it is that makes us push and pull the outlines of the room we give to each other. Is it fear, unawareness or rather decadence?

I wonder why you always let off these boundaries and therefore worshiped them every time I had to make you aware of them. Is it because you are actually aware of their purpose? My fear of being abandoned? My fear of being abused? Then I wonder why you keep stretching the outlines. There’s so much room!

I’m not quite flattered by you being the least flexible possible. You seem not to be aware of me being aware. Can you call this flirting?

I don’t think so. I‘m not sure whether this is emotional abuse or just a brilliant lesson you’re giving me. Maybe it’s even the same. I‘m hurt in the least obvious way by you taking the most possible space that my boundaries let you. And more.

For me tbh, I still struggle worshiping your boundaries, because I don’t really know them well. Where does your space begin? And did you want to let me in?

I kindly want to remind ourselves of the possibility of leaving each others’ space, if we think we can‘t meet our needs within. We’re not in the tight twin tummy of our mothers anymore.

Thanks lil boi, for showing me how super flexible my definition of personal space is. Let me teach you one last thing: Boundaries do not bend endlessly. Luckily mine proved to be flexible enough for not letting you destroy them, yet. But the cracking point is reached.

“But Matt,” you say, “doesn’t that mean you should maybe eat it???”

To which I hiss and curl protectively around my ridiculous hoard. 

NO. It’s MINE and I must KEEP it in case I won’t have ANY

“But Matt,” you say, “if you don’t eat it and keep getting more then you will run out of space very fast.”

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