#singlebychoice

I can’t wait for this version of me.

If a man has been single for two, three, or more years, stop assuming something is wrong with him.Sometimes the reason is simple:He has standards.Not arrogance.Not fear.Not trauma.Standards.Some of you listening right now have outgrown chaos. You’ve learned the hard way. You’ve dated potential. You’ve ignored red flags. You’ve tolerated disrespect. And you paid for it with your peace.So now? You move differently.You don’t entertain inconsistency.You don’t chase validation.You don’t negotiate your self-respect.Your dating pool is smaller because your tolerance is smaller. And that’s growth.You would rather stand alone than sit in a relationship that drains you. You would rather wait than repeat the same lesson with a different face.And to the men here who feel pressured because you’re single — hear this clearly:Being selective is not weakness.Protecting your peace is not ego.Refusing to settle is not bitterness.It’s maturity.You’ve learned too much to go backwards.If you relate to this, comment: “Peace over pressure.”

มกรา กุมภา มีนามีนา เมษาา #singlebychoice (at Baan 104) https://www.instagram.com/p/CLRpncGs320/?igshid=1lwl1gipmwlo1

me at the moment :)

#SingleIsh #SingleLife #InMyThoughts #SingleByChoice #NotSettlingForLess #ImJustJen #ImGood #NoRush (at Hempstead, New York (town)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGOTehaA6Nn/?igshid=9vni4k75i20j

Reposted from @fredandfar “All my single ladies... I've always celebrated my chosen singlehood. I never wanted the marriage and children that other women seemed to want. Instead, I wanted to live life on my own terms and be completely independent. I wanted to travel and have adventures and not feel tied down. And while I'm extremely happy with my choices, they're not ones that society deems worthy of celebrating. I will never have an engagement ring to show off, a bridal gown to pick out, and *definitely* not a baby! Friends will never throw me a shower to celebrate my independence because people don't celebrate single women... They see us as sad, lonely cat ladies (ok, guilty on the 3rd one 😸) that are lacking something in their lives. For most of us, it's just not true! As I'm about to start a completely new chapter in my life, I wanted to celebrate the choices that have made it possible. The Victorians had a custom whereby single women (and men) who had no interest in marriage would wear a pinky ring on their left hand as a sign to the world that they were single, but not looking. I wanted to embrace that tradition. So, in searching for a ring to do that, I came across @fredandfar . I found the most gorgeous ring that is designed to symbolize a woman's commitment to herself. I fell in love immediately and purchased it right away. It arrived yesterday and I couldn't be more thrilled! So, here I am, single AF, and proud to show it off. 💍 This is not an ad, just a product I love and wanted to share. Love yourself, ladies!” Welcome @shopbuyposh your sparkling spirit is delicious and we are lucky to have you with us. 💗 Melody #selflovepinkyring #selflovejourney #selfcaresunday #singlebychoice #selfpartnered #selfpartnering #selflovering #singlelifestyle #singleaf #chooseyourself - #regrann https://www.instagram.com/p/B-MkYD0Jc_U/?igshid=12c6t1hhxvqsy

28 days of Loving Me & Who am I Journey ♥️ : : Day 1 of Loving Me & Who am I Journey: I’m going to try my best to do something that I’ve not done before and that’s to put all my focus, tine, and energy on me. To sit back, be patient with myself, listen to what I’m saying, pay attention to what I’m feeling, and make time to get to know me, find out what I like and what I really need and want in my life to continue to grow, give me peace, happiness, and balance. : I decided to take a 28 day “loving me” and “who am I” journey to celebration Myself, Valentine’s Day, and the Greatness of Black People. This should be interesting 🧐 : January was just as bad for me as December was BUT today February 1, 2020 is my new year and my choice to think differently, react and respond differently, create my new on purpose and always with passion life... I’ve been through a lot in 2 years and they were the hardest two years of my adult life. : I’m finally in a much better head space and I look forward to this new life that I have been given... I’m ready to live for me and to only do what will continue to elevate my personal and professional life. : Insanity is doing the same thing over and over many times and expecting a different result 🤔 : Happy first day of February... what are you doing to creating a better life for yourself? :————————————————: #blacksingles #beingsingle #singlebychoice #mindsetchange #createyourlife #livingforme #letmebegreat #iamthegreatest #lovingme #beingme #lovinglife❤️ #sandeeismyname #iamaweirdope (at B R O O K L Y N!*) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8Bj0_9pgh7/?igshid=15tlmcs5thizs