#separspec

Being pan in an orchidspec way, where one may experience attraction to any or all genders, however may only wish to enter or seek out relationships with certain genders. Under the Separspec umbrella.

Could also be called Porci- (Porcisexal, Porciromantic, etc.)

Example: A pan lesbian, who’s attracted to all genders, however only seeks out relationships with non-binary women. A Porcilesbian / Porcian Lesbian.

Porcian covers anyone who's attracted to all genders, but chooses to only enter that kind of relationship with certain genders. This can also describe anyone who's a mspec mono, such as being pansexual biromantic where one wants to always have a sexual relationship with one's romantic partners; one would technically be pansexual but would only enter sexual relationships with those one is romantically attracted to. (Technically, being both S.A.M. and non-S.A.M.)

Porcian is not an excuse for transmisia, exorsexism, intersexism, radfem separatism rhetoric, etc. Nor should the term be used to promote such rhetoric. This term just exists to explain a complicated aspect of attraction. Could technically be used as a non-problematic alternative to terms like Febfem.

This term was originally posted March 31st, 2022. It was originally posted on the same post as Separspec and Cupian. Porcian can also be considered to be an Alspec term.

Top Row, Separalterous: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right) Middle Row, Separomantic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right) Bottom Row, Separplatonic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right)

The platonic, romantic, and alterous equivalents of Separspec.

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Separplatonic: Being panplatonic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiplatonic) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

Separomantic: Being panromantic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiromantic) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

Separalterous: Being panalterous (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multialterous) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

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These terms were originally posted May 3rd, 2022.

Being pan in a cupiospec way, where one does not experience attraction to any/all genders, however may enter or seek out relationships with any or all genders. Called Cupian.

May also be called Cupan- (Cupansexual, Cupanromantic, etc.)

Example: A pan veldian, who is only attracted to binary men, however seeks out relationships with any gender. A Cupanveldian / Cupian Veldian.

Cupian covers anyone who isn't attracted to all genders, but chooses to enter that kind of relationship with anyone of any gender. This can also describe anyone who's a mspec mono, such as being bisexual panromantic where one wants to always have a sexual relationship with one's romantic partners; one would technically be bisexual but would still enter sexual relationships with those one is romantically attracted to regardless of not always having sexual attraction. (Technically, being both S.A.M. and non-S.A.M.)

This is also inclusive of any anattractional identity (Ace, Aro, Apl, etc.) that experiences ZERO attraction but may still enter relationships of whatever kind of attraction they want to. (General Aspec identities are included in the general definition.)

This term was originally posted March 31st, 2022. It was originally posted on the same post as Separspec and Porcian. Cupian can also be considered to be an Alspec term.

An umbrella term for being pan (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders mspec) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way. Can be called Separ- (Separsexual, Separomantic, etc.)

Under Separspec there's two sub umbrella terms, Porcian and Cupian. Porcian is the pan in a orchidspec way term, while Cupian is the pan in a cupiospec way term. In simple terms Separspec is the separation of action and attraction when it comes to one's orientation.

Separspec is also inclusive to anyone that describes either their attraction or action as pan, while describing the other as non-pan. Orchidspec & Cupiospec being used here to describe that disconnect in a simple way. (Therefore, inclusive of Fictospecs, Autospecs, etc.) May be exclusive attraction/action or not.

Example: An individual who is romantically exclusively attracted to women and fem folks who IDs as Neptunic, but may ID as Panromantic as well due to still entering romantic relationships and taking romantic actions with anyone of any gender.

This is also inclusive of any anattractional identity (Ace, Aro, Apl, etc.) that experiences ZERO attraction but may still enter relationships of whatever kind of attraction they want to. (General Aspec identities are included in the general definition.)

Example: An aro individual who enters romantic relationships regardless of their lack of attraction. One may ID as both Aro and Panromantic.

This term was originally posted March 31st, 2022. It was originally posted on the same post as Porcian and Cupian. Separspec can be considered to be more of an Alspec term.

Top Row, Cupanplatonic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right) Bottom Row, Cupanalterous: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right)

The platonic, and alterous equivalents of Cupian, a Separspec term.

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Cupanplatonic: Being panplatonic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiplatonic in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

Cupanalterous: Being panalterous (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multialterous) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

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These terms were originally posted May 5th, 2022.

Top Row, Porchiqueerplatonic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (middle), symbol-less version 2 (right) Bottom Row, Porchiromantic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right)

The queerplatonic and romantic equivalents of Porcian, a Separspec term.

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Porchiqueerplatonic: Being panqueerplatonic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiqueerplatonic in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

Porchiromantic: Being panromantic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiromantic) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

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These terms were originally posted May 4th, 2022.

Top Row, Porchiaesthetic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right) Middle Row, Porchialterous: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right) Bottom Row, Porchiplatonic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right)

The aesthetic, alterous, and platonic equivalents of Porcian, a Separspec term.

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Porchiaesthetic: Being panaesthetic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiaesthetic in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

Porchialterous: Being panalterous (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multialterous) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

Porchiplatonic: Being panplatonic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiplatonic) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

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These terms were originally posted May 4th, 2022.

Top Row, Separqueerplatonic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (middle), symbol-less version 2 (right) Bottom Row, Separaesthetic: With symbol (left), symbol-less (right)

The queerplatonic and aesthetic equivalents of Separspec.

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Separqueerplatonic: Being panqueerplatonic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiqueerplatonic) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

Separaesthetic: Being panaesthetic (or other-wise attracted to any/all genders multiaesthetic) in a orchidspec and/or cupiospec way.

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These terms were originally posted May 3rd, 2022.