#self-identified

normally thrown around by goyim towards Jews, and straight people and gay and lesbian people towards poly/pan/ace/aro/bi people in an effort to marginalize them away from any sense of larger community within a movement.

"This self-identified Jew": aka: Jews are some weird other entity that have no place in leftist movements or their own communities even.

"That self-identified bisexual..." :aka....can we REALLY trust that they're queer?

3. What if I told you that you were pretty?

Already answered this one.

1. Could you go the rest of your life without smoking a cigarette?

There are very few things in life that I couldn't go without for the rest of my life. A cigarette certainly isn't one of them.

4. Ever been told, "It's not you, it's me"?

No. I hope that doesn't mean it WAS me. Actually, though, I'm fairly certain it *wasn't* me.

15. Is it hard for you to get over someone?

Generally, yes. I was in a rather long-term relationship in high school and my early days of college, and after that, I didn't date for about two years. The good news is that I AM over that relationship, thank heavens, and ready to move on. And settle down. Hopefully someday.

9. How late did you stay up last night?

Already answered. See previous post.

56. Do you own something from Hot Topic?