I recently reconnected with my best friend from my tweens/early teens and I told him about the SOME of the extreme bullying I experienced and it did genuinely seem to really upset him I assume now that he’s a grown man he’s gained empathy but at one point he was like “I wish you’d told me, things would’ve been so different” and I had to break the news to him that I did tell him many many times and he completely blew me off and dismissed me. obviously we were just kids but it also does mean he cared so little he didn’t even remember he did it. People will change the course of your life forever and then not even remember it happened









