I would really like a radnormal-esque label but one that doesn't demonize other-than-traumagenic plural systems. (edit: okay cool cleanqueer doesn't enable this shit)
. The online plural/multiplicity community existed since the days of Usenet Google groups. It didn't "start as a hate group" like so many of you claim (and tbh the pro-endos that do actually harass people with CDDs can gladly fuck themselves). We were always here, it's just that most of stay out of these corners full of people half our age. Ask any Linux-obsessed transfem furry over the age of 30.
. Have you ever considered that the reason so many pro-endos are radqueer is because they've been completely ostracized by other groups and fandom spaces for being plural in a way you don't like??? Maybe most of you are too young to remember this, but years ago, MLMs who used the toothpaste flag and Mspec lesbians often got accused of instantly all being proshippers (like, the bad kind, not the people who just want to write more nuanced fiction that doesn't glorify bad things) for the same reason - they got screamed out of spaces so they ran to predators for validation. All of a sudden MLM flag users and mspec lesbians are "okay" so you don't see that anymore.
But that's what's happening to pro-endos. You're basically telling kids who are probably mostly just trying to figure themselves out to kill themselves so they seek shelter within people who claim to want to help, but are really just trying to groom them. If you see a pro-endo who otherwise is trying to live in good faith (like, not supporting abuse)... be fucking nice to them and welcome them in your spaces so you don't chuck them to a pit of wolves. We'd have significantly less radqueers running around if you didn't essentially tell them they needed to be groomed to feel accepted. You don't have to fully agree with them, but just grit your teeth and be happy they're safe and not making dogfucker pride flags.