With all the anti stolas shit thatâs been popping up on my dash recently(fuck you, algorithm, I love my gay owl boi)Iâve been noticing a pattern. Anti stolas criticizes stolas and calls it that, refusing to acknowledge his good parts. Meanwhile, pro stolas responds with overwhelming positivity, which, like, yeah I love him, but thereâs no acknowledgement of his flaws and mistakes. Thatâs what Iâm here for! No one invited me and I broke through the wall(sorry blitz)but Iâm here!
Stolas is SUCH. A. FUCKING. DICK! In the beginning at least. He refuses to respect blitzâs boundaries and disrespects imps in general(before you say âitâs only blitz! Bc itâs a form of flirting!â First of all no itâs not flirting or some bs, and if thatâs how he means it, he needs to work on that. Second of all, he calls Millie and moxxie âlittler onesâ and refuses to respect the family Blitz worked to find, despite the fact Blitz treats them like shit a lot of the time, especially moxx, but thats beside the point).
another thing to consider, though, is that itâs not one person fucking up. The blame canât be shifted onto the shoulders of Stolas OR blitz. Blitz treats him as if he doesnât care, doesnât acknowledge his professed feelings as anything else but a joke, essentially disrespecting Stolasâs emotions like Stella likely did and does. Heâs ingrained to think of stolas as never caring for him, but that doesnât mean stolas deserved it. He hurts and hurts because he gives a shit. Blitz needs to work on emotions shit, because the way he expresses them is hurtful to others and he doesnât communicate or express care in a way that makes it clear to the other he does.
So yeah. They both need to work on shit before theyâre healthy.
But I digress, it got a bit off topic, my original point was that yeah. Stolas is a fucking dick. But that doesnât mean heâll be a fucking dick for the whole of his life.
So can the divide close a little bit? I get it if stolas is irredeemable for you. Iâm not saying you have to love him, or even like him. But letâs acknowledge the positives and flaws of a character. I didnât get into positives, because those arenât hard to find if you look a little. But negatives never get fully into why they exist, or how they can be worked on. So yeah. Hope you liked my fucking ramble.