#polyamorous things

So... This married couple I asked on a double date for Pride/my anniversary asked if my wife and I are monogamous. Which like bless for saving me the trouble of finding a way to bring that up.

Sometimes I think my heart is like the TARDIS (bigger on the inside).

We need more polyamory fics in One Chicago’s AO3 tags

explain non-hierarchical polyamory to your mom while stoned challenge

Was talking to my boyfriend about this date I had with a married dude and how after the date I had the thought that I wanted to spend my birthday (which is months away) with him. Just me and married dude who I've only been on one date with out for a nice dinner somewhere. No married dude's husband, no my wife, no boyfriend, no party. And that terrified me (but like also in a good way?) because that's a lot of intimacy to want with someone after one date and the act of verbalizing that anxiety made me realize I haven't let myself be this vulnerable in a while. So I'm just like sitting with that right now.