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We can cling so tightly to an idea that when life takes it away from us, we lose ourselves. We become upset and distracted from where we are really meant to be going.
It may be hard to see it in the beginning, but that path you were on likely was going to cause you more harm than good in the long-run. It's likely best that you were forced to exit that path sooner so that bigger and better things could come your way.
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I got 80% on my finals and I feel really bad about it, like, logically I'm actually fine with it but there's just this bad feeling like I failed that keeps haunting me, ik it's nothing major but it's kinda bothering me
Hiya anon! First of all, congratulations on your 80%, because even if something feels off about it, it is, objectively, a great score. Secondly, I feel like I understand where you're coming from. When I came out of secondary school with my GCSEs (that's like the equivalent of halfway through high school I think?) I had a brilliant set of results. I was pleased, and relieved, but another part of me was going, "You could have done better. It's not good enough. You could have gotten a better score." That ominous feeling telling you it's not good enough? It's wrong, and a product of your self doubt or whatever impossible standards you set yourself. I think my advice would be to give it a bit of time. Whenever we do something, we tend to focus on our mistakes/what we could have done better and forget the things we accomplished. Treat yourself kindly, comfort yourself in things that make you happy. If you think acknowledging the bad feelings and wallowing in them for a bit will help, that's encouraged too. And given a lil bit of time, you'll focus more on the fact that you did well and accomplished a great score. That feeling of failure doesn't tend to stick around for long. Xxx
Love~ Clover
Im pretty sure I messed up the easiest exercise on a test bc I was nervous so I’ll fail the test and the teacher will think I didnt study and be mad and disappointed so shell start targeting me and asking me questions in class like she does with everyone who fails and everyone is gonna know I got it wrong and think im stupid and if I start failing now the whole school year will be messed up because I’ll risk failing the subject I think I’m having a panic attack rn
Hiya anon! First off, I'm sorry we weren't able to get to this right away, I hope you're doing a bit better now. I think it's important to remember that everyone messes up at some point. Failure feels awful, but its inevitable, and it's ok to get things wrong. Even the easy things. I'm sure your teacher has seen a lot worse, and will understand that this isn't how you always perform. They know you, and they know you're a hard working student. There's a chance that you got the rest of the test right, which means you won't fail. If your teacher sees you getting other parts of the test right, it's clear you must have studied, even if you tripped up on other parts. If you can, try talking to your teacher about it. You can let them know that you messed up a part of the test, and ask them whether it will affect your grade. That shows the teacher that you're aware you didn't do as well as you could have and are being proactive. It shouldn't bring down your grade, but if it does, you can ask them what you can do to bring it back up. You can usually contact teachers over email too if it's easier.
If you find yourself panicking again, remember to take deep breaths and remind yourself that it'll be over soon. Try practising different breathing/grounding techniques and try and find something that sticks. There's an app called Clear Fear that some of us find helpful. Music and distractions can also be helpful.
I hope things go well, I'm rooting for you! Xxx
Good luck~ Clover
Happy Friday... just some food for thought!
What perceived failures have you seen turn into success?
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tw: anxiety
I am trying to find ways to cope - I am slightly aware of when my anxiety peaks, but can do nothing but ride it out. I have to remember that in five months this extra piece of stress will be gone. When that time rolls around I must remember that I CAN SAY NO to things that I know will cause me undue stress. I WILL REMEMBER that doing what I think is 'just okay', or not doing as much as other people IS NOT FAILURE. I will listen to the people who remind me that I DO NOT OWE ANYBODY ANYTHING, and I will remember that I OWE IT TO MYSELF to be good to myself. I will remind myself to look back at these moments and TRUST MYSELF that they were hell, they were not just something I 'got over' and I don't have to do this to myself. I will choose to be good to myself.
