#patchs-muse-hub

CURIO has been consistently defending a longtime abuser while hypocritically namedropping people all while claiming reblogging callouts is bad.

CURIO, you are either the most easily manipulated person on this dirtball of a planet or you are willingly and desperately scraping the bottom of the barrel for people to write with because "oh patch was never abusive to me so I'm good"

Be aware that communication is a two way street. In order to interact with me, you have to be able to vocalize or directly communicate your needs, and reinforce your boundaries effectively in call or text.

If you do not believe you will be able to consistently talk to me about our problems, we cannot be mutuals. I will not be friends with people who will refuse to set or uphold boundaries with me, and then attack me for 'crossing' boundaries they didn't set or uphold.

There will be a certain standard for behavior. The bar is really in the ground here, but it needs said- antisemitism, islamophobia, racism, sexism, classism, and any other bigotries that are well established as horseshit will be unwelcome ooc. If you explore those themes IC, that's one thing, but if these are things you truly believe in? I am not interested, and you will be blocked.

I do not do shipping with underage muns. This is a hard limit you will have to accept. Minors DNI, this is non negotiable.

Likewise, ships between adult muses and child muses are a major red flag and will get you blocked. I should not have to explain why, but I will anyway- I am not comfortable with depicting predatory relationships like this in any capacity, even when criticizing the predator in the material. I am not Vladimir Nabokov, and we will not be reenacting Lolita. End of story.

I reserve the right to be as selective as I wish, to block for whatever reason I deign, and to not have to explain to people why I block them. I will also respect the rights of my peers to do the same. We are not owed anything from one another.

If you are not interested in shipping, or you don't like the direction our muses are going in during a given thread or plot, it is your responsibility to tell me, not my responsibility to read your mind.

It is okay to ask for reassurance. Sometimes rational understanding that mun =/= muse is drowned out by personal doubts or fears. If you need reassurance that we are on good terms at any time, that is okay to ask for and I will give it without hesitation. But likewise, I will sometimes need this reciprocated.

If you are impatient about replies, do not bother following me. My motivation to write ebbs and flows rather frequently due to me being chronically ill, so sometimes I will disappear for a few days, or even weeks. If that is not compatible with your needs, I'm not the writing partner for you.

I'm one of many victims, and once I can gather more evidence, I'll be glad to send it, but this is a warning for anyone who decides to get involved with Shiloh/Patch.

They will block evade, stalk you for years, and send you death threats with constant and consistent harassment.

"I want your redemption plan to work, Charlie. I want it to work so badly, I can taste it. Because if your plan works, that means that maybe, just maybe, I can help save some people I love."