#our problems

Ignorant Niggas: “ see the problem with black women is...”

Black women:

Ignorant Niggas: *says something completely ignorant and wrong about black women* 

White America: Must be true since he’s a negro male

Black Women: 

Regular Black Men: “This nigga about to fuck it up for everybody”

I think the biggest rift between Black Men and Women (especially on social media) is that there are huge groups of ignorant niggas that for some reason have the loudest voices on here.

These niggas are completely one sided and  jaded with no interest  of correcting or educating themselves. They hang around other niggas that are just like them and feel like just because a lot of people agree with them ,then that means its a fact

ONE MILLION WRONG NIGGAS = ONE MILLION WRONG NIGGAS

Just because a lot of people have the same opinion and assumption doesn’t mean it’s a fact; its still an opinion and assumption.  

But another problem with Black Men is that some of us don’t want to check our homies or bros; so in doing so you only indirectly make everything worse.

and for some reason things that Black Women deal with only seem to be a fact to the rest of the world if Black Men co-sign. So it makes women expressing their problems even harder because now they need this weird validation in order for thing to move forward in a steady way

There’s alot that needs to be fixed and addressed in our own community on both sides, so we can start making solid changes. But first we need to start separating these niggas and calling them out on their bs so we can dead this stupid mentality.