I've been thinking again about how hung up the online Disney fandom gets about Aladdin being a "compulsive liar" (which he's not).
Lying about his identity isn't even the worst thing Aladdin ever does. The worst thing he does in the movie is going back on his promise to the Genie and refusing to set him free. Yet I've never seen online fans cite that incident when they call Aladdin "toxic" and say he "doesn't deserve a happy ending." Oh no, it's just that "He lies to Jasmine."
If the truth about Aladdin's identity hadn't been revealed, Jasmine would have just had a husband who wasn't really a prince. If Aladdin hadn't decided in the end to set the Genie free after all, he would have been a slave for possibly all eternity. But of course it's no big deal for a male character to wrong another male, even if the harm is substantially bigger than anything he does to a woman. It's only when a man wrongs a woman that they come after him!
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Did people at the TADC theatrical release chimp out like the Chicken Jocky event?
The reason why I ask this is because I have seen TADC fans online harassing Gooseworx and the voice actors. But when I see the TADC fans in real life, specifcally at Kawaii Kon 2026 it consisted of teenagers cosplaying the characters with their parents and 20 something year old women cosplaying the characters. They were all well behaved. So, I wonder how much of the TADC fandom are actually assholes?
just spent an entire HOUR AND A HALF up AO3's asshole trying to find a shockfic I remember reading back in high school that existed in the same category in my mind as The Hat Fic and The Milk Fic, and it was an extremely harrowing experience but I FUCKING FOUND IT GUYS. I HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE EXCITED TO UNEARTH DISTURBING GARBAGE FROM THE INTERNET I FUCKING FOUND IT.
I wrote this back in December for Substack but given the nature of my research on this blog I figured it was relevant here as well. So check it out, I had fun. Everybody wants the guys in the National Football League to kiss and I fear I understand why.
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Hereâs a sentence I never thought Iâd write: people online are writing fanfiction about the players in the National Football League kissing on the mouth and then posting it on Archive of Our Own.
Now, if you know anything about online fandom communities, you might not be surprised by this. Honestly, I should not have been surprised by this. I know how the Internet works, I know how online fandom works: two hot men making eye contact cannot be ignored. But the idea of the NFL having a stereotypical online fandom on AO3 and Tumblr was just completely baffling to me, because like⌠thatâs the NFL. The National Football League. The piece of media lauded as the highest echelon of manliness in the United States of America. In my mind, the Venn Diagram of people who spend a lot of time on AO3 and people who spend a lot of time watching football are not even close to touching.Â
And yet.
There are 1,340 works on AO3 tagged âNational Football League (US) RPFâ as of December 2nd, 2025.Â
And over a hundred of those are just Joe Burrow and JaâMarr Chase kissing.
This fascinated me because it exists in such stark contrast to my previousâalbeit quite narrowâperception of people who are really tuned into the NFL. Which led me down a two day rabbit hole that resulted in not only discovering one of the most baffling pieces of fiction I have ever read (which isnât even related to this topic), but also kind of maybe shipping Joe Burrow and JaâMarr Chase now. So. Letâs talk about this I need to talk about this.
NFL Real Person Fanfiction (RPF) exists for the same reasons that all sports RPF exists: itâs popular and easy-to-watch media where hot men hang out with a bunch of other hot men, and those men can be shipped together and itâs fun because itâs ridiculous but also because thereâs an overwhelming amount of content to feed it. None of this is out of the ordinary. And, to get this out of the way upfront: I am not interested in debating the ethics of RPF as a fanfiction genre in this article. It is a very nuanced topic, and it can absolutely cause real life harm to the people involved. I do find that to be both an important conversation and an interesting subject, but for the sake of brevity letâs just table that for another time, as I donât believe that there are any major cases of the fanfictions impacting the actual players in the NFL specifically.
The reason I find NFL RPF more interesting than other sports RPF is because itâs not a fringe sport like others we often see these fandoms pop-up around (hockey and Formula One being the biggest examples I can think of). Itâs an incredibly mainstream sport, arguably the most popular in the US, and is the domain of primarily cishet men. So why did it spawn so much gay fanfiction?
If you look at the history of the tag âNational Football League (US) RPFâ on AO3, youâll see a major spike in posts starting in March of 2020. Prior to March 21, 2020, there were only 343 total posts in that tagâyes, I countedâwith a majority of them in the early days being by the same handful of people.
The first post ever made under the tag is from May 1st, 2004, and is a Tom Brady/Drew Bledsoe fanfiction written by a user named âanonymous_sibyl.â This person would then go on to write the first 24 fics under the tag before theyâre joined on December 18th, 2005 by a user named âLazarettos,â who appears to be one of their friends, as they mention âanonymous_sibylâ in the notes of their first fic (a Joey Harrington/Original Male Character smut one shot, for the record). Thereâs a wider variety of users after that, but it just goes to show that it appears to be a relatively insular fandom for the first fifteen or so years of its existence on AO3. 1,000-ish fanfictions in five years doesnât sound like a lot, and it wouldnât be a lot for some fandoms, but compared to the popularity pre-2020 it is a significant spike.
I believe that this can be attributed to truly one thing: quarantine.
We were stuck inside of our houses with nothing to do except for dwell on the state of the world. It is completely unsurprising to me that the quantity of posts in this tag would increase in 2020 because the quantity of people who were suddenly given a bunch of free time to write fanfiction drastically increased. Honestly, I wouldnât be surprised to find out that the quantity of posts on AO3 as a website overall drastically increased in 2020, but I have no idea how I would even begin to find those statistics.Â
So weâre all stuck inside and suddenly a lot of people who maybe normally wouldnât find themselves entrenched in online communities have no choice but to be in online communities. Combine that with a healthy dose of the escapism and emotional relief that interacting with fandom provides, and you have a large group of people who mightâve been on the fringes of stereotypical âfandomâ now searching for an outlet. Itâs not a stretch to say that fans of more mainstream media that typically wouldnât be super relevant on websites like AO3 and Tumblr would find their way over there, because those are widely popular sites for fan communities.
The perfect storm of de-stigmitization of fandom culture, lack of ability to go outside, and increase in desire for community being found online creates the perfect environment for a boom in a fandom like this; something that is mainstream, but still carries all the potential hallmarks of a classic Tumblr/AO3 fan community if you look at it the right way. Which is to say, hot men on TV that can be shipped in almost unlimited different pairings.
And you might be thinking: âAlexandria, you havenât talked about Taylor Swift yet! Alexandria, youâve been talking about the NFL for almost two whole pages and you havenât mentioned Taylor Swift!â Do not worry! I did not forget! I cannot! But the Taylor Swift/Travis Kelce RPF isnât the side of NFL RPF that I find particularly intriguing. People have been writing RPF about musicians for probably as long as fanfiction has existed (thatâs a rabbit hole for me to go down another day). While their relationship has certainly caused an increase in the popularity of the tag, itâs still not as noticeably drastic as the 2020 boom is. Taylor Swift is only tagged as a character in 95 total fics, with her and Kelceâs relationship only appearing as a tag in 94. However, if you sort by either hits or kudos, the first fics that will come up are all going to be Taylor/Travis, meaning that the most popular fanfictions in the tag are all of that ship. This should not be surprising.
Obviously RPF of one of the most popular musicians of our generation with one of the most aggressively online fanbases in the world is going to be the most liked and clicked on stuff in the tag. Just because itâs the most popular by metric doesnât mean itâs the most pervasive, and itâs not emblematic of the thing about NFL RPF that I find to be the most interesting (a.k.a. âwhy did we do this, why must we play god, how can the NFL and AO3 exist in the same sentence and why did we decide to make it gay?â) even if it was. It is still important to talk about, though, because I think it shows that while a large majority of the people writing fanfiction in this tag are writing M/M (Male/Male) fanfiction, the large majority of people reading fanfiction in this tag are doing so for Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. There are simply a larger number of Taylor Swift fans who are entrenched in online fandom than there are people who know who Julian Edelman is well enough to want to read fanfiction about him. However, she did undeniably bring a lot of new fans to the NFL, especially new fans who interact with fan culture in a different way than weâd typically see in sports fandom.
So we understand where this came from, and my personal theory about why the tag became so popular in the 2020s specifically. Now, allow me to give you an idea of the kind of fanfiction you will find when browsing âNational Football League (US) RPFâ on A03.com.
Itâs gay. Itâs all super gay.
The M/M category is by far the most popular, with 1,088 fics being tagged as such. There is some F/M (Female/Male) fanfiction in the tag, as well as fics that are just tagged âGeneralâ or âOther,â but it is a noticeable minority. And while some of those are just Original Female Characters getting to kiss Joe Burrow â because itâs always Joe Burrow, heâs dorky and conventionally attractive and everyone either wants to kiss him or wants him to kiss his teammates â most of them are the aforementioned Taylor Swift/Travis Kelce fanfictions. The top two most popular ships are Joe Burrow/JaâMarr Chase, and Danny Amendola/Julian Edelman. While smut isnât hard to find, the most popular additional tag youâll see is âfluff.â A lot of the fics are extended slow-burns following these men from college to professional, or very well thought-through scenes about the potential public backlash that would come with being an openly gay NFL player, or conversations about overcoming internalized homophobia. Itâs honestly very similar to the types of fics youâd see in most fandoms, except instead of the One Direction boys going through inner journeys that result in them kissing, itâs these men who are held up on a pedestal of masculinity by probably every single one of our dads.
And thatâs what makes it all so much fun, isnât it?
This is something that most of us in America grew up watching, or at least hearing in the background of our childhoods. Thereâs an emotional connection there, a nostalgia that maybe carries over into our adult lives. Itâs regarded as necessary to understand in order to facilitate a social life, but also too complex and manly for all except the toughest dudes. Taking a piece of media like that and stripping it of all its potentially toxic societal associations by allowing the characters involved to be more than just the boxes that theyâre expected to fill is so powerful. Looking at something that has been the domain of mostly cishet men for a majority of its existence and saying âno, actually, the boys are going to kiss now and have deep conversations about internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity and the perception of LGBTQ+ people in sportsâ is so much fun. Iâm not necessarily trying to make the NFL RPF fandom deep, but⌠thereâs something inherently interesting there. Itâs cool to watch LGBTQ+ people take back narratives that weâve been left out of for so long, even if it is in the form of Joe Burrow and JaâMarr Chase kissing on AO3.
Thereâs also something undeniably homoerotic about most sports, but thatâs neither here nor there. I donât think I need to argue my point on that, I think thatâs a statement most people can agree upon. Go look up NFL commentators out of context if you donât believe me.
While the initial thing that got me spinning towards writing this essay was complete and total bewilderment at the existence of the NFL as a fanfiction category, my initial surprise and confusion has melted into something close to fondness. Online fan communities will never cease to be fascinating to me, in both the ways that they morph and change the source material and the things that they show us about the wider world outside of the Internet. We are social beings, and our desire for understanding and connection influences everything that we create. Fandom doesnât exist in a vacuum; it tells us something about the people who are participating in it. In this case, maybe it tells us that LGBTQ+ people will find ways to create representation, even when itâs within media that is often closed off to us. Or maybe it tells us that quarantine was a weird time for everybody, including NFL fans.Â
Or maybe it just tells us that Iâm reading way too far into all of this, and people just like to play with the silly little guys on their TVs like Barbie dolls and it doesnât actually mean anything.Â
Either way, this was a very interesting deep-dive, and I hope that you enjoyed and will never be able to watch a Bengals game the same way again.
And now, a list of the top five funniest tags that I saw while scrolling the âNational Football League (US) RPFâ tag on AO3:
âGratutious use of âtight endâ as a punchlineâ
âNo beta we die like the Bengals 2025 seasonâ
âThe romanticization of Detroitâ
âPower Bottom Tom Bradyâ (< this one is only outstandingly funny to me because it was on a fic that was otherwise entirely in Russian)
AO3 Nonsense Archive For My Own Personal Comedic Enjoyment
There's some crazy shit out there, and I encounter much of it while searching The Website for Interesting Content. I'm incapable of being silent ever in my life, hence why this blog exists. Here's some crazy shit for you to peruse.
The Xtreme Dildo Plug: this was the first piece of writing I discovered by this author while researching for my deep dive into the NFL RPF fandom. I find this very very amusing because imagine being Eric Decker. This exists about you on the Internet. And that's not even to get into this author's extended football-and-buttplug-related universe, which could honestly have an entire post of its own the world-building is so in-depth.
Scooby Doo No Way Out: the description of this fic made me so confused I had no choice but to click on it and then proceed to read the entire thing out loud to my research assistants while legitimately in tears from laughing so hard. Incredible work.
Sweetened Amber: I clicked on this because I was confused about how you could put Scooby Doo and Sesame Street into the same fic and then I realized that it had nothing to do with either of those however there is a line in this where the character refers to one of her siblings as her "rival sibling" in her internal monologue and that has fully entered my vernacular in daily life so it's worth archiving here.
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"Lara Croft's Culture War" - Tomb Raider Files Explores Nostalgia, Fandom, and Controversy in Latest Documentary
Unless youâve been living under a Martian rock for the past decade, youâll know all too well that Lara Croft and the Tomb Raider franchise as a whole have been the topic of much heated discussion on social media. Whether itâs the size of Laraâs breasts, the shape of her chin, or the developersâ well-intended attempts to address the franchiseâs colonial aspects, it seems like not a single weekâŚ
"Why is your fic M-rated? It's not graphic, it seems safe for teen readers."
Because I am an adult in an online fandom space. I only want to engage with OTHER adults, not children who are left unsupervised over the internet, which on its own all but eliminates basic social boundaries.
I am also neither a movie studio nor a television network. I am writing fiction FOR FREE and FOR FUN. I don't need to keep things "ad-friendly" to get as many eyes watching it to sell ad-space or to sell tickets to get as many people to see nearly an hour's worth of previews before the feature.
Many moons ago, when (I think it was) the fifth season of Buffy the Vampire Slayer was airing on TV, I decided it might be fun to join some mailing lists dedicated to the show, so I'd have more people to talk about the show with. (Mailing lists were pre-social media vehicles for fandom, somewhere between USENET and MySpace; imagine a chain of comments on a Tumblr post, but it's sent to you in email.) It definitely let me talk to more people about a show that I loved, but it also taught me that online fandom can take just as easily as it gives. [SPOILERS if you're just starting to watch the show, i think it might be having a minor resurgence atm.]
It wasn't a terribly negative experience. I didn't get bullied or even have my ideas shit on. That season had the show's typical mystery of what's the deal with this season's Big Bad and how are Buffy and the Scoobies going to defeat them, but it also had the mystery of Buffy's previously unseen sister, Dawn. Where did she come from? Howcome all the characters act like she's been there all along when she totally hasn't been? Et cetera, et cetera, et wtf.
There had been cryptic hints dropped in the previous season (Little Miss Muffet, counting down from 7-3-0), but they were very cryptic. Babylon 5 had concluded not too long ago, and HBO's mainstreaming of the "tv show as novel" concept had not quite kicked into gear yet, so nerdy fannish brains were hungry for a well-planned-out tv narrative to sink their teeth into. This mailing list was full of speculation, sometimes based on those aforementioned hints, sometimes based on the bits of Latin and German text seen in the opening credits (the show is full of mystical tomes), to all those sorts of background details and clever quips that supposedly have hidden meanings. You know how it can get.
Of course I had my own theories, which I do not remember. That's suspiciously convenient, because I do remember that they were wrong. (Good job, super ego. You saved me from an embarrassing memory for once. That doesn't mean we're okay about all the other stuff.) Whatever my wrong predictions were, it really bugged me when they turned out to be wrong. And before they were proved to be wrong, it also bugged me when I would watch the show and someone else's theory, usually one I didn't like so much, would pop into my head. Oh, that one character did that thing that supposedly proves that such-and-such will happen. There was a mention of that so-called clue that means Dawn will turn out to be whatever annoying thing that one poster said that I didn't like. My pet theory being wrong was just the stink on top of the turd pie.
So at the end of that season, I thought, this deeper involvement in fandom has made the show less fun to watch. And that sucked, because I really liked that show. I'd found it at the beginning, and my enjoyment of it had grown from a very simplistic "hey, there's an attractive lady kicking vampires" to a real appreciation of all the character growth and the good acting and the smart metaphors and the playing with tropes, all the stuff that makes a tv show good. And one of my best friends had recently gotten into the show, though they were still catching up via my obsessive video taping (a lost art, folks). All that enjoyment was diminished, if only a bit, by my participation is a particular aspect of fandom. I unsubbed from the mailing lists and decided I wouldn't go down that path again.
Obviously, I didn't completely give up on online fandom, because here I am. But I have tried to be much more careful in how I engage with that fandom. Speculation isn't for me. It might be for you. Digging into behind-the-scenes details, and examining statements that creators have made about a story is not for me. It might be for you. What is for me is finding those stories--whatever medium they may be told in--that appeal to me, taking them in, letting myself get lost in the details that catch my attention, talking about those things with friends, and occasionally posting something here. Similar vibes seem to attract each other here. Most of the interaction is just a like, which I can interpret as appreciation for the thing that I enjoy or maybe my rambling about it, and that's nice. When folks do reply with more than a like, it's almost always thoughtful and written in a chill, conversational way.
I reckon the moral is, it's worthwhile to notice how your interaction with fandom affects your enjoyment of the art that brought you there in the first place, and it can be helpful to tailor that interaction so that you get the most positive and the least negative out of it.