#nonbinarypeoplesday

Happy Nonbinary peoples day!💛🤍💜🖤

Gender was always a complicated topic for me,since I was young I never fit in, Im afab but I never acted like society expected me to act I never knew why though this was just the way I always was,even if I was raised in a catholic and strict household with "traditional" gender roles

So I was called a tomboy,told I was always acting "like a boy", forced to wear dresses because I didnt like them and told to "act more like a girl"

There was a point that I said well fuck you I wanna act or be who I wanna be,fuck everyone else, and that is the idea that I have since then. When I found out what "gnc" meant I of course adopted the term but there was still something that didnt fit, I still felt out of place identifying as a gnc woman but also identifying or being addressed as a man. There was something about that binary that didnt feel right to me personally

At that moment I was already in lgbt+ circles because of my other identities (asexual and biromantic) so I knew about non binary but I had this misconception that non binary meant genderless/agender , androgynous ,people who used they/them pronouns and nobody else.

Thankfully I did more research on the non binary identity (after finding posts and memes talking about how being non binary was a really diverse experience) and I found the label "demifluid" which is part of the non binary spectrum under demigenders , and something really clicked, I finally felt complete . For those who dont know demifluid is an identity where a part of your gender is fluid and another part is static, the static part of my gender being non binary and the other part everything else (I cant always point out which gender that part is) this was also probably influenced by the fact that I am the host (or possibly a shell) of a (possibly OSDD) system and this made it more difficult for me to identify my gender because of passive influence from other alters