#enbie

I also used Pride to introduce Desdi, my aliensona. Desdi is not a serious character. So there's not much plot. Just a little green cat who can morph into an actual cat and back at will.

Grace x Rocky x Adrian with anything close to sensual let alone romantic would be fucking tragic because Rocky and Adrian would do all this work to learn Grace's specific region of Earth's courting games and all about consent and all about human relationship arrangement and orientation possibilities and they'd have this whole negotiation sit down ready but Grace would completely not compute or internalize any of it. He's busy looking at Eridian butterflies and avoiding introspection like the plague, he can give a human teenager all the supportive teacher talk but as soon as an Eridian changes what pronoun they use for him Grace gets squirmy and confused inside but doesn't mention it to anyone because everyone feels that way constantly right? You're not supposed to be comfortable being a man or a woman right thats the entire point? Poor Rocky lol

It was actually many years ago, maybe even a decade ago, when someone first approached me online about this exact situation when it came to referring to me in their language, especially when their immediate family was not as accepting of queer identities as they were, so I told them to refer to me in the masculine if they found theirself in a situation that required it. That choice stuck with me and within the last 5 years I decided I wanted to accept the usage of he/him/his for myself, like "back up" pronouns.

Couldn't have said it better myself, this what I strive for with my secondary he/him pronouns.

Like: I’m a babygirl, I’m a little guy, I’m a Victorian gentleman plagued by the horrors, god forbid women do anything, a man gotta do what a man’s gotta do, i am Sappho of Lesbos, I am a wretched little man, I am a vaguely human shaped blob, I’m invincible, I can’t be killed, I’m dying, i will kill god, I am already dead, I have decayed for many years and have become one with the wrathful earth, I have no gender, I am all conceivable possibilities of gender, I am merely inhabiting this human form which I have snatched from its former self, I am every part of this body and every part of it is me.

But, if God created man and woman as equal, but is above man and woman, is it safe to assume that God is an Enbie?

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