Top Posts Tagged with #nonbinary vent

I fucking hate people who insist that ships with nonbinary characters are yaoi/yuri or wlw/mlm or sapphic/achillean. I don't give a flying fuck that it could technically fit, because y'all just use that to be exorsexist and to basically put the equation of "nonbinary=man/woman lite"

And YES I am tagging it with deltarune because you are the primary target. You just can't seem to treat nonbinary characters as nonbinary no matter what

#exorsexism #nonbinary vent #deltarune #kris deltarune #kris dreemurr

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Think I experienced a microagression the other day while getting my hair cut…

For context, my hair had been growing out a while, it was down to my shoulders before it was cut (mostly because I couldn’t decide on a haircut). I decided to start fresh with a buzz cut, I figured that would be easier to dye at home and I had hoped that maybe it would help me pass better. When I told the hair stylist I wanted a buzzcut she was like “and WHY are you doing this 😐” like girl I know you don’t ask the cis men who come in and ask to get their hair real short the type of thing you just asked me… come on

AND THEN she literally lied to my face about how short she was cutting it. I told her leave half an inch/“a 4” in hair cutting terms (according to her) and she repeatedly kept asking me “are you SURE about this” (before and while actively cutting my hair) but even after I kept telling her, yes this is the thing I asked for and I haven’t changed my mind, she made it longer than I asked for, which I didn’t find out until later when I went to my friend’s house and they offered to shape up my hair for me since she had obviously missed a BUNCH of spots and they used a 4 on their razor and it was already longer than that around my ENTIRE head, so in order to get the length I had originally asked for my friend had to shave around my entire head, and like at LEAST half an inch of hair came off (all over) when they did. Meaning, she didn’t use the length she said she did and just actually fucking lied about it. What the fuck. Cisgender stylists be normal about trans clients challenge??? (Impossible)

Gender conforming cis people will really just see a visibly GNC person they don’t even know on a personal level and assume that they must Know What’s Best For Us better than we do ourselves, because to them, they’re Doing Gender Right and we are not. It’s so so fucking weird. This isn’t even close to the first time I’ve had stuff like this happen while getting my hair cut by a stranger either.

#I hate getting my haircut mostly because of this #but also sensory issues…#trans #trans vent #transmasc vent #nonbinary vent #vent #anti transmasculinity #transandrophobia #exorsexism #butchphobia #our posts #(blurry)#gender nonconforming #gender noncomformity

I feel like almost everyone in my life liked me better (or at least acted like it) (including a lot of the other queer people I know) when I was still going along with pretending to be a cis girl and before I took HRT. and I try not to allow the feeling to get to me but it does and I hate it

#I’ve never been particularly popular but people definitely seemed to like me more on average than they do now #it just sucks to finally be yourself and all of a sudden everyone likes you less INCLUDING a whole lot of the other queer people you know #/not directed at anyone here #vent #dysphoria vent #transandrogynous vent #nonbinary vent #genderqueer vent #exorsexism #anti transmasculinity #transandrophobia #transmasc vent #transphobia vent #my posts #personal #kitt speaks

just got yelled at in my own home about how me wanting to live in a queer friendly state and mentioning that it’s a queer friendly state is pushing an agenda and how I’m always shoving how I’m queer and trans down everyone’s throats.

I—

I love my in laws 🥰🥰

Feel so safe in my own home rn

#vents #.txt #transmasc vent #trans vent #nonbinary vent

I shouldn't need to transition medically to be called by my pronouns.

I shouldn't need to look androgynous enough to be referred to as a non-binary.

I shouldn't need to be skinny enough to be seen as nonbinary.

I shouldn't need to suppress signs of a depressive episode to be seen as nonbinary (i.e. not always dressed up, hair not always brushed, etc).

I shouldn't need to be convenient enough to be considered nonbinary.