#nonbinary blog

but this never really was about feathers. was it?

Maybe this is what moving on is - realizing that you aren’t the girl I fell in love with anymore. That maybe you haven’t been that girl since the night you broke my heart.

You know, I feel like a fraud sometimes. I spend a lot of time thinking, and sometimes I misgender myself. Most of the time I don’t care what pronouns are used, but it feels like I claim to be something I’m not when this happens. When I don’t stick up for myself and correct someone when they use the incorrect pronouns on a day I’m more particular about what I’m called, I feel as if I’m betraying myself. I just don’t want to bother people. I don’t want to make them uncomfortable, even if it’s at the expense of my own comfort.

:) 💞 🌠 beautiful! so cute!

I want to encourage content based on those experiences, but the few people who mention the terms are mostly talking as if those were gender identities, which misses the point entirely.

(Picture of a house across the street from Westboro Baptist Church) Hello lovely trans and nonbinary people! You all are so wonderful and great and valid! I hope you have a good life and focus on the good things! You deserve it!