One thing about me—I don’t let other people’s opinions or rumors cloud my judgment of someone. If I hear something bad about you, I won’t treat you differently until I see the truth with my own eyes. Too many times, people twist stories, play the victim, and lie to turn others against you, just because they’re hurt or bitter. I’ve learned that not everyone’s perspective is the full story, and I…

1 Corinthians 4:3-4 “But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged of you, or of man’s judgment: yea, I judge not mine own self. For I know nothing by myself; yet am I not hereby justified: but he that judgeth me is the Lord.”

“No judgment zone.”

Many would like to place this as a placard over their life. Many would like to live without the scrutiny of others. We ask for no…

Alright ladies - lets talk about empowerment

Recently I’m coming off a point where I’ve lost 30 lbs and feel GREAT in my skin. With that being said I’ve been posting more “selfies” of my self on social media - because why the hell not?!. Recently I’ve heard people say things like

“She’s so into her self”

“When is she going to stop no one wants to see that”

“If I see another selfie I’ll claw my eyes out”

“I’m unfollowing her if she doesn’t stop”

The list goes on and I’ve heard it all and I just want to remind everyone out there that essentially what you do, how you behave, and even what you post is UP TO YOU. No one else. I tell myself that the difference between a flower and a weed is judgment. Those who hate do not flourish. The world needs more woman to embrace their beauty, their intelligence and everything in between. Those negative comments are nothing but a way to test you and the wall you have built.

So ladies, continue to love yourself in all moments. Don’t be afraid of others and love all parts of you! Show it off, believe that you are the best thing on this planet because you are! The biggest growth comes from you, not from others.