#nj asks

In terms of Moon Signs, yeah Aries/Leo Moon would be good with Sagittarius Moon specifically. Having the same element in the Moon signs brings a lot of understanding/sharing sympathy/vibing temperaments. But having the same elemental moon just isn’t enough to bring people together. That’s why there’s so much emphasis on looking at people’s complete chart, and their own interaction with their charts. Because in most cases, the way that Moon works/manifest in us individually is different from one person to another. 

We can share the same Moon sign with someone (and same sun/ASC) and come across completely different. That’s because our chart aren’t working the same, and the traits of say, an Aries Moon often find themselves not sharing the same traits as another person who also has an Aries Moon y know. It’s not a guarantee, and signs themselves are so vast/multi-layered that you don’t really get to pick what you’re predisposed to (that’s different from others). There’s camaraderie there, a sympathetic understanding of each other obviously (like being on the same colour-team)– but even sharing the same sign with someone, it’s not going to guarantee you’ll have great compatibility with them (which is why you see people awkwardly trying to vibe with each other, but their vibes are too stiff/awkward because they share the same sign/placements sometimes) 

It’s also to do with our houses, our other placements, our aspects, our decan, etc. The relationship from one person to another can be so different, it depends on what you feel comfortable handling and your exterior conditioning as well (like, having grown up surrounded/adopting traits of a certain sign/placement– social conditioning) 

So yes, fire-moon would definitely go well with his Moon (Tae, Jin, JK are good examples) but it’s not a guarantee/principle rule for an ‘ideal’ placement to someone. There are lots of other factors involved in making that decision, and sometimes your Moon is the same one betraying you when trying to connect to someone else. 

For the second question, it’s less about taming the fire but making the fire feel accepted/belongs/fit in. So no, having earth/water placement isn’t going to tone down the fire. Because the fire wasn’t the problem in the first place. The earth/water placement is however, going to agitate the fire even more but in the worst way/non-productive way (when it doesn’t understand each other: see below) 

It’s also more about polarity? Like the part of him that is fiery and exerted is his air/fire qualities, but it’s grounded in this heavy earth/water he has already. So when it comes to vibing off another person/wanting to see it replicated in someone else, it’s gravitating towards that same fiery/air-fire driven combo. With Tae/Jin in particular it’s because they exude heavy air (Tae’s Aquarius- Aries Moon) and fire combination (Jin’s Sagittarius Sun- Aries Moon) but there’s also conflict with the heavy Capricorns placements in them as well. 

That’s part of the reason why I didn’t include water-signs in his ideal placements, it’ll be good for him sure but that totally depends on how in-touch Namjoon is with his water-qualities/placement/consciousness. The water-sign stuff isn’t posing as the biggest problem for him– the sagittarius-libra thing is. And that’s the part he’s probably invested in more when looking to vibe off another.  

I nearly included Pisces for his ideal placements but I figured I should explain it more here, water signs are good for him (especially since Pisces/Sagittarius share the same ruler - Jupiter) but it’s more about temperaments and consciously understanding ourselves. The earth/water heavy chart poses a bigger problem of having a different approach/temperament to certain things (depending on their placements) —that without any type of air/fire conflict in them, Namjoon would feel disconnected to the person - y know? And that’s also the biggest thing with Scorpio. 

Scorpio Venus is pretty adaptable like it doesn’t have to be a water-sign or earth-sign it feels connected with. In fact it can be very fire-driven/appreciate fire-traits/earth traits. So what matters the most here is that the other person has to have that sparkly fire/air combo (20%) and an earth thing going on for them (80%). (Since his own ratio/how he perceives himself is probably going to be 80% fire/air and 20% earth/water – balancing each other out, supporting each other) 

Also understand that Sagittarius Moon like his, especially with Libra Mercury, shies away from unprompted/unexpected emotional talks of any kind. Or clear communication/personal intimate connection as a whole when he doesn’t have the time/emotional connectivity for it. It takes him a while to get into that gear, that connection to his own water-traits. So heavy water-earth temperament/approach can sometimes pose to be too ‘heavy’/ ‘emotional’ for the fire-air spark dominant relationship he’s looking for. 

It’s also just a matter of – you yourself and how much you’re willing to put up with each other realistically y know? Like as much as this is about finding what he’s good with, it’s also a matter of not compromising yourself to fit what his standards/needs are as well. Tolerance, acceptance and understanding shouldn’t be forced/felt like gritting your teeth through the entire thing.

Having a fire moon, with an earth/water heavy combination is good for you and you have your own understanding of yourself/how you can deal/sort/help with a situation someone else might be having, but its never about compromising yourself to put someone else first. 

For relationships to actually work, it’s about collaborating with one another and finding it in yourself the understanding/sympathy to another person– without ever putting yourself second to someone else. It shouldn’t feel that way ever, even when you’re coming to a decision together. It should feel like you’re working together for something for yourself, always. Even if that ‘something for yourself’ is selfless or for another, it’s something you still have control over and you’re not– sacrilege to someone else’s will (power dynamic will be tilted when you don’t take responsibilities for yourself or your inaction/action) and start the blame game/letting your relationship lead your life, y know?

I hope this answers your question! 💕 I’m sorry I pointed out a lot of ‘nos’/’buts’ in this answer sdkjfn I feel really bad for it. Again, any relationship/compatibility can work. It’s just a matter of what you know about yourself, what you’re willing to put yourself into and what you yourself decide to stick by. It’s about not compromising yourself, but also having strong sympathy/understanding for another.

So if you really feel strongly about someone else– and your ‘compatibility’/astrology says otherwise– please still go for it!! Pursue it and don’t be disheartened!! This is all just to give guidance, and making people conscious/aware of what they should/shouldn’t tolerate in others. Astrology is about looking for directions/having control of yourself  to apply it to your own life/how you treat others. All I’m pointing out is just the challenges/difficulties the relationship might face–  ‘perfect’/’ideal’ placement doesn’t exist completely (even with AA+ aspects) and a little friction/challenge is good between two people. 💕

No relationship is not going to benefit from a little difficulty/challenges that involves self-evaluation, growth and learning how to work with others. It’s the same as social conditioning, you just have to be careful with the energy you put out, the conscious effort to check yourself and to love yourself as much as you love another as well. 💕

First of all; Cancer Mars in the team specifically. Jin, Yoongi Namjoon. I’d say Namjoon is the pettiest in my opinion. In the most direct sense of the word, a lot of his energy is focused on processing from the external to the internal (Libra/Sagittarius - Virgo) and then pushing a lot of that internal energy (that’s expanded/processed) outwards again. 

If you think of it as like, mixing ingredients to make dough and letting that dough rise. Then trying to fit that dough through a too-small space to get a specific shape. It’s a lot like frustration and wanting to express but still being held under strict confinement (in his case, by mannerism/the mind - Libra/Virgo) 

It creates an individual who is sneaky, but not in an innocent way. Sneaky as in they express their mischievous side more and pose their dissatisfaction as something ‘not that big of a deal’ when it is to them. (trying to fit the dough into a specific shape that’s too small) 

Namjoon is passive aggressive in a way that you can tell he’s still trying to keep a resemblance of control, yet somehow his emotions are getting the better of him because he can’t help it. Combined with Sagittarius Moon, a lot of the time it’s outbursts that are rant-like and can be more of a whining than anything. 

Jin is first and foremost just very reactive, as a person. He controls himself in a way that either shuts off his emotionality completely (Capricorn/Scorpio) or uses it to express himself in his entirety (with his whole being – Aries/Sagittarius). This control helps him keep a resemblance of authority over his life/choice/actions, but at the same time it can lead to a lot of stewing and general cynicism to those around him. 

Aries isn’t petty on it’s own, but rather in combination with Scorpio and Capricorn in combination with Sagittarius leads to a lot of strong opinions and dissatisfaction with not leading discussions/feeling heard when he’s supposedly ‘put in charge’.

Pettiness in this sense, is more like ‘why would you say something like that and then not go through with it? Don’t you know it affects me too?’ (Capricorn Venus) or ‘your words are one thing but your action is another. Make up your mind.’ (Sagittarius/Scorpio-Aries) 

Yoongi on the other hand, tend to internalize a lot of stuff (Virgo Moon/Pisces) although he might not ‘put that same energy out there’ the internalization helps with keeping a grudge much longer than people expect (Pisces/Cancer)

This has to do with Pisces Mercury not knowing how to express itself when something truly bad/hurtful happens to them (something that’s just out of the left field)  and thus, when internalization happen (if they didn’t get to talk/resolve it immediately) it becomes a grudge instead.

It’s not so much as pettiness as an acknowledgement that it has happened, and at the time it has hurt them. But because they’re so focused on not putting that energy out there (Aries Venus) they like to think they should always try to take the ‘higher road’ or ‘challenge themselves to do better’ (Pisces Mercury/Sun) – but can’t help but gleam a lot of satisfaction at seeing their adversary suffer (Virgo Moon/Cancer Mars).

In a way, for Yoongi– Virgo Moon talks so much about self-discipline that it becomes ‘let them suffer on their own, we should focus on ourselves/work harder to overcome them’ instead.  

Another one to note that’s similar to Yoongi is Jimin. Jimin’s reaction are much more apparent, but it also ‘looks like he’s plotting something’ at the same time. It’s not so much of a Libra/Gemini thing as a Scorpio thing.  

Scorpio tends to get people thinking that they’re naturally suspicious when they’re not. With Jimin, a lot of the time it’s a  ‘no means no’ situation and if you don’t listen to that, he’ll come for you directly (Libra Sun/Mercury). 

He doesn’t let things slide, hurt him one shame on him. Hurt him twice he’s cutting you off for good.

It’s not so much of pettiness as self-preservation. Sure there’s emotional things like being hurt that factors in, but he processes that through talking/communicating. If something bothers him, he’s going to talk about it first he’s not going to start acting passive aggressive out of nowhere (Libra Sun/Mercury). 

If it’s dissatisfaction, it’s more aimed towards himself than others. If it’s dissatisfaction towards others– you best be sure he can’t keep his mouth shut from going off on you for long. 

If prompted, he’ll burst into a dam of overflowing criticism and ‘ways to behave better’ (Libra/Gemini) and he won’t stop until he’s sure ‘you really gets it’ (Scorpio Venus) and that you show through your action/demonstration that you do (consistently- Scorpio Mars) 

Another person is Jungkook. Pettiness in this sense is more like child-like pettiness, not the ‘unwilling to share/’selfishness’’ part on his belonging but more like he tends to judge people harshly sometimes without giving them a chance/if he doesn’t watch himself.

It’s more like, not believing he is naturally petty and doing his best to NOT be petty— but constantly confronting parts/faucets of himself that is petty and him not being able to accept that in himself (Leo Moon)  

He wants to be the best version of himself but at the same time, he’s highly romantic and wants the best in others/himself. This comes an inability to accept the self for ‘who it is’ or understand what the ‘true’ self is sometimes. 

This is more apparent with maturity, because maturing comes with understanding/accepting part of oneself and overcoming it organically. In order to do that, he has to confront some truths about himself he’s kept hidden to keep preservation/peace of mind in his younger days.  

Pettiness in this sense comes from seeing something they don’t want to see, and not accepting the reality of it. Be it in others or in themselves, their ability to turn the other face and demand it ‘remove itself’ from their sight is Leo/Virgo pettiness at its core.

This also, links into part of Virgo’s personality and why they control/point out flaws so much. A lot of the time they have no problem facing things they’ve acknowledged/relish in pulling it into the open. But other times, when they don’t want to face something they are arguably very stubborn in not even acknowledging it to themselves either. 

WIth Hoseok, pettiness in this sense comes from social awareness (Pisces/Aquarius) 

Things other people have (Taurus) things they themselves are lacking, things they could implement. People’s reaction/how they speak (Aquarius). All these external factors leads to the Aquarius being critical of themselves and others, expressively showing dissatisfaction and a closed-ears reaction to improving themselves in order to ‘gain more’. 

It mostly has to do with Taurus Moon, pettiness in this sense isn’t even pettiness it’s more like mildly suppressed jealousy/envy. A valid emotion to have, but problem seems to be focused on them and how they react to their own dissatisfaction.

Taurus Moon doesn’t like feeling negative emotions for others, so they drive that energy towards themselves. But with Aquarius/Pisces in the mix, a lot of his reaction tends to have an affect on others as well (like lashing out unexpectedly/the other person not even knowing why he’s reacting that way)

It leads the person to shutting themselves down from others advice/input to ‘improve on themselves’ – alot of the time it’s self-containment.  

Even if the other person wants to provide support/a new perspective, the Aquarius/Taurus has already shut themselves down and may just brush them off. 

So pettiness in this case isn’t so much of a ‘channelling’ towards others but a blatant dismissal of others from a person who’s usually so receptive to everyone else’s problems instead. It’s like that contrast that throws people off. 

Taehyung on the other hand has so much self-containment (Capricorn galore) that it can be hard to even acknowledge these emotions/part of himself at all.

When he does, and if he does– he often just sees it in a simplistic light like ‘oh it’s just competitiveness’ (Aries Moon) instead of any deeper emotions.

There’s so much forward moving energy (Cardinal) that he can barely even think of himself as a petty person. And even if he is, he has so much of that forward-moving energy to overcome it that it doesn’t pose as much of a problem as Jungkook’s diddly daddling does (Libra Venus).

Taehyung kind of just– acknowledges a problem and then work to get over it. The dismissal of help from others is a bigger problem than Hoseok (same affect though– brush people off sometimes but with more of a ‘don’t worry about me I don’t want to burden you’ kind of deal) 

He acknowledges a lot of his pitfalls out of anyone in Bangtan, and in that sense he grows the most from internal self-improvement and self-empowerment. 

He strengthen his own internal character basically. His integrity and his own persons is something he constantly work hard on in order to manifest it externally/use it to help others as well.

So in terms of pettiness, unless it’s just him feeling kind of sulky/baby-like he sees it as just one of his pitfalls and then he overcomes it. (Capricorn Mars)

That’s my opinion on BTS and Pettiness!!! 💕 This was super fun to do!! 💕 Thank you for dropping by and asking! 💕 Good luck with work? Friday is soon so you’ll hopefully be off this weekend right?? 💕💕

By the way more than half of the team is petty which is pretty hilarious 💕 although they’re petty in different ways, it makes them look like children sometimes which is always entertaining to watch. The manito run episode in particular. I love the chaos.