I don't mean to pry but I noticed your name on your blog description changed?
ahh no it’s fine i just decided i’d rather go by that haha idk
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I don't mean to pry but I noticed your name on your blog description changed?
ahh no it’s fine i just decided i’d rather go by that haha idk

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Dos and don’ts about asking for preferred names/pronouns?
OK so I asked my friends again for questions, just for when I run dry of things to blog about. I’m actually not dry, as it happens, but when this came up, I felt that this was incredibly important. I’ve had to deal with it a few times and there are several different approaches people take. I will discuss the two main ones that I’ve come across.
The Direct Approach
This is my preferred approach. Just flat out ask me. Be like ‘so... if you identify as NB, what pronouns should I use?’ it’s simple and effective. Others may not agree, and prefer another approach, but it’s what’s best for me.
The Nervous Approach
So. You’re out of a night and a friend keeps referring to someone as ‘they’ or ‘xie’ or some such non-binary name. You become curious as to why, and what’s going on, or you worry that you might have misheard, but instead of clarifying, you sit there and become more and more nervous about it. That makes you uncomfortable, right? I’d rather people be relaxed and comfortable, ultimately, and so am very open to questioning about these things. As are most of my trans community chums. The more you relax about us, the more we relax around you. We want you to be able to just chill out in our company, and not constantly stress about gender pronouns, desperately hoping that it will come up so you can be sure.
As I’ve said before, if you get it wrong, and misgender me, please PLEASE don’t make a big issue out of it. It makes me feel awful, for some reason. I think because it makes me feel like you’re making me feel ‘otherised’.I don’t want a lot of attention drawn to what I’m going through. What I would suggest is that you simply say, ‘sorry, they.’ instead of stressing and fussing about it. Heck, I misgender myself ALL THE TIME.
Can people stop calling me out using my deadname? That would be fucking fantastic.