#nb-skeptic

woman is a binary term.

boy is a binary term.

girl is a binary term.

he and him are binary terms.

she and her are binary terms.

gay is a binary term.

lesbian is a binary term.

mlm is a binary term.

wlw is a binary term.

using binary terms while claiming to be nonbinary(agender) is self-contradictory. you can’t be binary and nonbinary at the same time. that’s not how the world works, and that’s not how an actual genderless brain would work.

actual nonbinary(agender) people who feel neither male nor female are already having a tough enough time being believed and respected. if you feel completely comfortable and not dysphoric at all using binary term and pronouns for yourself, consider the fact that you are most likely a GNC person. simply dressing androgynous and not conforming 100% to gender roles does not automatically make you nonbinary(agender). experiencing atypical gender dysphoria and having a brain that’s neither male nor female does, and that’s probably a very rare thing that not many people in the world actually experience. i think a lot of people are confusing gender non-conformity for being nb, and that’s not a good thing. i’m tired of seeing that happen. do not immediately slap labels onto yourself without knowing what they mean.