#myisfj

INFJ - I admire how you put other people first because you have such a big heart and know exactly how it feels to be heartbroken and would rather hurt than hurt others 

INTP - I admire how you don’t change yourself for others but at the same time you care about people even if it isn’t so obvious but you are always right there by their side 

ISFJ - I admire how much you actually care about the welfare of others even if to others it seems like you are controlling but no it is just because of how aware you are about how other people are feeling

ISTJ - I admire how much knowledge you have about everything and you aren’t boring even if you don’t talk much because what you say always has substance

INTJ - I admire how you have your own way of doing things and don’t need the approval of anyone else

INFP - I admire how sensitive you are and how unique you are and that you stand up for people as if you are standing up for yourself when you see injustice

ISTP - I admire how chill and humble and nice you are even if you are one of the coolest and calmest people ever

ISFP - I admire how soothing and witty and surprisingly romantic you are in your own way

ESFP - I admire how you can make the most out of anything and inject life into anything and not making something boring not boring

ESFJ - I admire how perfectly imperfect you are and how you make mistakes not look embarrassing but instead grow from them the way I think everyone should

ESTJ - I admire how you are ready for anything and how poised you are when it comes to overcoming challenges

ESTP - I admire how you are clumsy and full of life and how you put so much color into other people’s lives without even trying

ENTP - I admire how quirky you are and how you don’t care about what other people think of you but are also so caring at the same time 

ENFP - I admire how cheerful you always are despite everything you go through behind the scenes

ENFJ - I admire how much you take care of other people and make sure everyone is having a good time 

INFJ - is actually truly happy since they can finally live life at their own pace without life’s outside pressures and do the things they’ve always wanted to do-- but is at the same time panicking because they...had...barely...started :-) 

INTP - is actually thriving staying at home and pretty much doing the same thing-- but is at the same time complaining because now they have no excuse to not do work since everything... can be done.... online :-)

ISFJ - is finding ways to earn extra income ‘cause they still need a sense of control and online selling has suddenly become their life’s calling 

ISTJ - is pretty much doing the same thing, yet for some reason has become more sociable by enjoying having face-to-face zoom meetings...? (definitely more than actual face to face meetings)

INTJ - is actually glorifying staying at home and taking advantage of all the free online courses, posting a whole album of all their certificates they earned...in just...one...week...

INFP - is spending their time wisely in their own special way: playing video games all day and re-watching their favorite series which is way better than filling their minds with the actual worlds’ news

ISTP - likes the peace and time they now have, but would rather have used it outside to go hiking or traveling, instead of being stuck at home where they’re not sure how to entertain themselves

ISFP - is staying updated with all the news and is feeling overwhelmed and emotional but also energized at the same time to blog and share about how to help and donate during these times

ESFP - is still noisy and lively by greeting everyone every single morning through Viber, sending cliche, positive quotes or memes that only they find funny 

ESFJ - is probably re-organizing their already-perfect room for the nth time, thinking about whether or not they should become a vlogger and do “How To” videos on things that people don’t really need help with

ESTJ - is reading countless articles about what one must do during these times to keep safe and healthy, and is forwarding them to those they truly care about like the (bossy) care bear they are deep inside

ESTP - is making the most out of their down time by starting an online business to keep the thrill going (or go on dating apps)

ENTP - only realizes how much they miss the company of other people, when they are not with people 

ENFP - is baking and cooking and going on Zoom meetings every other day with their friends ‘cause they won’t stop, can’t stop

ENFJ - is still doing fundraising online ‘cause nothing can stop them help save the world and make it a better place

ENTJ - is catching up on social media, updating everyone by posting their achievements of learning new skills or contemplating online about what new grand thing they should order online

Aesthetic #12: ISFJ Female

aqua and fuchsia color scheme

Requested by @ixfj-fish

INFJ’s Cognitive Functions: (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se)

Ni: Extremely future-oriented; has a difficult time living-in-the-moment; is always thinking about possibilities and ideas (but keeping them all in their heads); prone to overthinking; can “sense” things (in an abstract way) and see through things/people (so-called 6th sense)

Fe: Gets overwhelmed by other people’s feelings because they just feel too much; craves to be liked and accepted; doesn’t wanna cause any drama/conflict; treats others the way they treat them (mirror effect)

Ti: This makes them think before they act/talk; they really think about things before doing/saying them–which makes them extremely careful; they tend to analyze things before actually sharing what they know

Se: They are actually pleasure-seeking individuals who are secretly drawn to “dangerous things” that enable them to escape their overthinking 

ISFJ’s Cognitive Functions: (Si-Fe-Ti-Ne)

Si: Super focused on the little details; traditional and can easily recall things in the past; is very sensitive when it comes to one of the 5 senses (may have sharp hearing, is able to smell things a mile away…etc); they literally sense things (through their 5 senses)

Fe: (same as above) Gets overwhelmed by other people’s feelings because they just feel too much; craves to be liked and accepted; doesn’t wanna cause any drama/conflict; treats others the way they treat them (mirror effect)

Ti: (same as above) This makes them think before they act/talk; they really think about things before doing/saying them–which makes them extremely careful; they tend to analyze things before actually sharing what they know

What I noticed and observed about them: (3 FEMALES & 1 MALE)

Most of the ISFJs I know work out and exercise. Extremely hard. It’s a part of their daily schedule/routine. Their stress-reliever. 

They are super private about the things they are good at. They don’t brag at all or think of sharing their talents to the world just for applause. If ever they do express their talents-- it’s usually for the good of others. 

They can get so emotional to the point that once they see someone cry, (even a stranger), they will most likely start crying quietly as well. They have high levels of empathy. 

The ISFJ females I know have everything prepared and ready. Hungry? They have snacks in their bag. Have dirty hands? They have wet wipes for you.

They give the best gifts. This is because they have such sharp memory and most likely remembered the times you've talked about your favorite things. Or well, they are such good observers that they know the things you are into. 

All of the ISFJs I know are of the conservative type. They wear clothes for comfort; not for impressing others. But if ever they do show off their bodies--it's because they are proud of it. 

All of the ISFJs I know are extremely family-oriented. They like people who remind them of home and comfort. If you ever hurt one of their family members--you will see their not-so-sweet side. 

When they're with their friends, they are so different. They don't seem like introverts at all. They're lively and carefree--even the quiet ISFJs I know. Their friends make them feel alive. And stress-free. 

Like most introverts, they are private individuals. Personal questions make them super uncomfortable; some ISFJs are just super shy, and the other ISFJs just find you undeserving to know more about them and will snap back at you because you've attempted to "threaten" their personal space (unhealthy ISFJ trait). 

These individuals are sensitive to their surroundings. They hear every little creak on the floor, every whisper of gossip, smell every scent; they are just completely aware and this may be one reason why they may get stressed out and irritable easily (Unhealthy ISFJ trait). 

Unhealthy ISFJs are prone to gossip. It's their nature. With their good sense of observation, sharp memory, and eye for detail--they have a 'ton of stories to tell. 

The more demanding and unhealthy ISFJs I know are controlling because they know what you need. Or well, they think they know what you need. 

They have this ability to hide how they truly feel and be civil with people. It's an Fe thing. You wouldn't even know how they truly feel about you. It's just difficult for them to express their true selves.

Some of the (unhealthy) ISFJs I know love teasing others. But once you tease them or their family members, the joke ain't funny anymore. 

Another unhealthy ISFJ trait: They can be the ultimate hypocrites. They can easily see other people's flaws and point them out--except for their own.

The more innocent and delicate ISFJs I know really care about what people think of them and want to be badly accepted. They are brought to tears if they feel unloved. They can be such puppy-dogs. 

They are generally nice to everyone, but they only really put on their best and fun behavior with a select few.

Well, what do you guys think? :) Agree or disagree? 

Note: Sorry if I took awhile to finish this! Describing this type was actually really difficult for me... because I have met a lot of unhealthy ISFJs. I tried my best to not make it sound like a negative post and I hope none of you ISFJs will feel offended. Again, these are posts about the different types of personalities I’ve met--so yeah, please don’t think that I am teaching you about the types. I am just stating my observations.