#myentj

INFJ - I admire how you put other people first because you have such a big heart and know exactly how it feels to be heartbroken and would rather hurt than hurt others 

INTP - I admire how you don’t change yourself for others but at the same time you care about people even if it isn’t so obvious but you are always right there by their side 

ISFJ - I admire how much you actually care about the welfare of others even if to others it seems like you are controlling but no it is just because of how aware you are about how other people are feeling

ISTJ - I admire how much knowledge you have about everything and you aren’t boring even if you don’t talk much because what you say always has substance

INTJ - I admire how you have your own way of doing things and don’t need the approval of anyone else

INFP - I admire how sensitive you are and how unique you are and that you stand up for people as if you are standing up for yourself when you see injustice

ISTP - I admire how chill and humble and nice you are even if you are one of the coolest and calmest people ever

ISFP - I admire how soothing and witty and surprisingly romantic you are in your own way

ESFP - I admire how you can make the most out of anything and inject life into anything and not making something boring not boring

ESFJ - I admire how perfectly imperfect you are and how you make mistakes not look embarrassing but instead grow from them the way I think everyone should

ESTJ - I admire how you are ready for anything and how poised you are when it comes to overcoming challenges

ESTP - I admire how you are clumsy and full of life and how you put so much color into other people’s lives without even trying

ENTP - I admire how quirky you are and how you don’t care about what other people think of you but are also so caring at the same time 

ENFP - I admire how cheerful you always are despite everything you go through behind the scenes

ENFJ - I admire how much you take care of other people and make sure everyone is having a good time 

My opinion? Well…for friendship, I think it would be interesting :) They both have the same functions (with different orders) and both see the world in a somewhat similar–yet still distinct–way. So, they will definitely learn from each other.

Relationship-wise…I really don’t know if it would be easy. I, as an INFJ–can’t imagine dating an ENFJ. ‘Cause well, I feel like I would be able to see through him and his motives, because we share the same functions and similar mindset. It’ll be like looking at an “ideal version” of myself… not really a person to love and grow with. More like a person to look up to and have long conversations with.

Hmmm I never met an ENTP in a relationship with an ENTJ… but I feel like the ENTJ will be the dominant and serious one; expecting a lot from the ENTP– who will have a difficult time committing and will end up feeling tied down in the relationship or forced to change their ways (just so they could please and get along with the ENTJ). 

What I noticed and observed about them: (FOUR FEMALES & 1 MALE)

They can talk to adults so flawlessly despite how young they are. Their maturity level is definitely high up there. If you’re friends with them, you’ll be able to get away with anything (they’ll back you up with their conversation skills).

All the ENTJs I know have loud, clear, and deep voices (even the females). When they’re talking about something, almost everyone in the room knows about it. 

You’ll be able to see their noisy and crazy side when they’re with their friends. They may even end up looking childish, which may seem pretty rare. 

They are/were probably known for several leadership awards or student council stuff in school. They like to get all sorts of things written in their resume. The more, the merrier. 

They may have this mature and independent vibe-- because as children, they were most likely put on some kind of pressure to grow up quick. Most of the ones I know grew up with parents with high expectations. Another one I know didn’t even grow up with parents... Tough childhoods definitely make tough people.

They get super insecure when they can’t do something. It hurts watching them look so helpless because they’re usually so well-poised. But they really take it to heart when they take awhile to learn something--or are unable to fix a problem. 

They are private about their love life but keep mentioning little bits and pieces of it for the world to wonder. If you ask about personal things, they’ll tell you about it but leave out a lot of details and just give you a big and blurry picture. You have to be considered a close friend to know the juicy parts. 

The ones I know are quite materialistic when it comes to clothes and looks. They have an eye for fashion and manage to look classy even in plain clothes. Quality matters, the brand matters, but the price doesn’t matter. (Unless it’s a totally unreasonable price)

I noticed how they enjoy inviting and gathering people together--even those they aren’t close with. This is how they express their warm and friendly side. They make great hosts and love making sure that everyone is feeling comfortable and at home. 

The ENTJ females I know are advice-givers. They really know how to take in the problems of people and are willing to figure out ways to solve them--using order and practicality. They are considered the mother-figures. 

They are trustworthy and reliable people. They will always find a way. If they can’t take action--they will easily talk their way through it. 

If there’s ever an awkward silence, they like to fill it in with stories. Embarrassing stories about their close friends, especially. That’s another childish thing about them that is rare to catch--they love poking fun at their friends. 

When ENTJs stare at you, it feels like they’re inspecting you. Yes, they’re staring into your eyes--but they’re not exactly staring deep into your eyes. I’m not sure how to explain, but their stares may seem intimidating... and well, they’re probably just not aware of it. (And that’s okay, it’s totally understandable) 

When they compliment you, they really make you feel special. ENTJs are sincere folk--so feel glad when they say something positive about you! Next thing you know, you’re feeling all “high and mighty.” Their approval is just the best thing ever. It’s like their way of expressing that they’re “cool with you.”

They love posting on social media. Posting pictures of their achievements and trophies and certificates. Memories of getting together with their family or large group of friends. Or posting a picture from a time when they were coincidentally walking on the same grounds as some celebrity while they were strolling around some expensive mall.

They are excellent multitaskers when it comes to both thinking and talking. They can do both at the same time-- like, it doesn’t take them awhile to think things through before saying the right things aloud. They are quick thinkers in that way and if ever they do say something wrong, they can correct themselves in an elegant manner. Such skill. 

When they talk to people, they perform a quick analysis in their heads about the person they are currently talking to--making sure they know their background so that they can find a perfect topic to talk about. Again, such skill.

Every action they do has some sort of motive and has to bring them somewhere “farther in life.” Whether it’s adding more meat to the knowledge they have, or about planning a next get-together with a group of friends, or about a plan that will lead them closer to where they want to be. They live with purpose and efficiency. 

When an ENTJ is alone, they look like a totally different person. You may catch them looking “not present in the world” since they are most likely thinking about something way too hard--and have no one to share their thoughts to at the moment. (This is due to their second function, Ni--them internalizing their ideas and thinking about the future).

 They usually end up as the leaders of the group and may seem bossy-- but they really just want to make things easier for everyone. They have good intentions for the group. (Similar to ESFJs) But if they aren’t the leaders, they’re usually the ones helping the leaders. After all, they have the potential. They just have to use their powers (functions) right. 

Well, fellow ENTJs, what can you say? :) Do you guys relate? Or do these statements fit the ENTJs you know?