I'm afab and pangender, so I use all pronouns, but often just get defaulted to they/them, which is fine, but, y'know- but I intern in a 3rd grade classroom and just stick with she/her there, but the kids often "mess up" and use he/him for me, and it just gives me so much euphoria that these little 8-9 year olds think I could be a guy too <33
my little sister doesnt really get they/them pronouns so she will just switch up between he and she and honestly? its adorable.
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positivity time- I used to be so scared of possibly coming out to my cishet boyfriend, at the time I simply thought I was nonbinary but since then I've been through a lot of discovery and now I'm transmasc genderfluid. When I told him it was difficult to explain but ultimately he responded with, "that's cool, I'm not straight anymore" (he's currently unlabeled/cool with queer)
He's stuck through it all with me, he's listened to me when I'm dysphoric + just hella confused on wtf my gender decided to be that day. He doesn't fully understand how my gender makes me feel of course, but he wants to understand as much as he can. I feel like he's gone above being an ally, he's gone out of his way to learn a whole lot when I never asked him to and has been endlessly supportive to me in situations where I had to deal with some transphobic bs in person. I've tried to return the favor best I can with him questioning his attraction. I just appreciate him, I feel quite lucky.
That's great, anon! I'm really happy you have such a supportive person in your life :)
Not multigender phobia but multigender joy!!! My mom asked me about my gender identity (I identify as a transfemmasc agender boything and boygirlthing) so i explained it to her in detail and whilst she was confused, she asked questions very respectfully and in the end said she appreciated the talk and the ability to understand me more! ^_^ shoutout my mom!!
This is multigender joy!! Im so happy for you anon, this is wonderful <333
Y'all are getting blasted with bigender positivity and joy because Im bigender and it's my birthday in three days and the party is today and growing up is stressful but. I love the fact that I get to keep being me. I get to be a boygirl. I get to be a boy who is a girl and a girl who is a boy, and both, and neither. It's what makes me happiest. I will be out and proud some day, but Im still proud now because Im the prettiest boy and the handsomest girl and the coolest androgyne and the awesomest enby and there's nothing I love more <3
Solidarity kinda!
I recently discovered I am actually bigender, I am agender and androgyne! It makes me really happy to find out new things about myself and I'm excited to join the multigender community :3
That's so awesome, Im so happy for you!! I hope you'll make yourself at home, we're really glad to have you <333
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What's your favourite thing about being multigender? (Asking this to hopefully bring some positivity)
Ohhh great question! Thank you for the ask!
Im honestly unsure how to reply because my favourite thing is the happiness I get from being free to be myself!! And that's not really specific to being multigender, Id say everyone who has been through a gender questioning journey and found what gives them euphoria is going to feel like that!
But I love calling myself a boygirl, I love being non binary, I love looking and being androgynous and mostly that it takes away the burden of thinking about how my identity isnt accepted by others when I can just be who I am and so live my life without that nagging at me. Also I absolutely love making multigender characters that have complex relationships with gender, I feel there is so much variation that is so cool to explore and I adore doing it!!
Not exactly multiphobia, just wanted to say I love being multigender. Despite living in a place where being any type of queer is illegal, despite the fact that I probably will have to live all my life in a closet. I love being me and no one will take it away from me.
!! This is a shared experience!!
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I love being multigender so much!! I dont live in a supportive place either, but Ill be damned if Im not going to love myself for who I am just because society doesnt. I love being me, with all the "contradictory" and weird labels, I love being queer and I refuse to let anyone take who I am away from me. As long as I exist Im gonna be myself and fight for the right to be me, and as long as I exist Im gonna love and care about others, like me and different from me, and fight for them. Im going to make the space around me safe for them to be in.
I share your feelings Magpie, being multigender means being myself and that is beautiful. It gets tiring with the bigotry but that's why we need community, we need to rely on others and to feel loved for ourselves and to be protected too, so that we know we're not alone and that things can change for the better <3 Im glad to exist here as multigender alongside you!
One of the regulars where I work calls me βyoung man.β I think it started by mistake (most assume Iβm solely a girl because I present femininely) and he just decided not to correct himself since I never corrected him.
Heβs the only one that does this. Itβs nice.
-π―!anon
This is multigender joy!
Absolutely love that, I had an experience where an instructor called me another name by accident and then decided that was my name from then on, and it made me happy as my name is very gendered (perks of italian)
Anyway it's really nice to be gendered differently by different people when you're always locked in others' monogender binary perception of yourself. Happy for you π― <3