Just realised it's trans day of visibility today bc y'all I was having a bad day but I just remembered how many multigender folks exist and it's so awesome. I exist at the same time as multigender trans girls and boys, as boygirls, as manwomen and womanmen, out there there's bigender people getting funky with gender presentation and multitrans girls trying additional pronouns and multitrans boys finding a new label for themselves. There are transneutral genderfluid people and transfemxenine girlthings and demifluid folks and transandrogynous enbies and cisfem guys and tris genderflux enben and it's just a wonderful place to be.
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I feel like even other trans people who accept multigender people just don't seem to know what to do with multigender people.
I have to keep telling people to mix up the terminology they use for me, and not exclusively put me in one category or only use one kind of terminology to refer to me (such as only "masculine" terminology, or only feminine). I ask people to be more conscientious and use more masculine terms, and they start overcorrecting and forget to use feminine terms. I ask them to start doing that now, they overcorrect, rinse and repeat. People hesitate to put me in the category of "man."
Not multigender phobia but multigender joy!!! My mom asked me about my gender identity (I identify as a transfemmasc agender boything and boygirlthing) so i explained it to her in detail and whilst she was confused, she asked questions very respectfully and in the end said she appreciated the talk and the ability to understand me more! ^_^ shoutout my mom!!
This is multigender joy!! Im so happy for you anon, this is wonderful <333
No way Soul stop creating new blogs challenge. No but fr, hi y'all! This blog is inspired by my wonderful friend @thisisexorsexism and @this-is-antitransfemininity, @this-is-varsexism-transphobia and the new @this-is-binarism and @this-is-sexism.
Im a transfemmasc multigender enby boygirl (if your first question is "how??", check out this post [link] where I explain why I call myself the way I do) and I wanted to make a space specifically to call out multigenderphobia or multigendermisia, aka the discrimination and erasure of multigender identities. I see it a lot tied with rethoric that puts man/woman, masculinity/femininity, cis/trans, binary/nonbinary, gay/straight or gay/lesbian as opposite, mutually exclusive experiences.
This fuels the belief in oppositional sexism and harms *everyone*, but because non binary and specifically multigender people are rarely if ever focused on, even though this rethoric targets us in particular, I wanted to try and contribute my own to the community through this blog.
Should go without saying that any hatred towards contradictory labels is also multigenderphobia, although multigender people arent the only one to use them. This blog is therefore absolutely inclusive of mspec lesbians/gays, cistrans, gaybians, boygirls and manwomen, xenogenders, non binary men and non binary women, honeybee transfem and carpenter bee transmascs and all other labels used in good faith. Also should go without saying, any a-spec identities, ace, aro, afamilial, aplatonic, etc and oriented aroaces + polyamorous people.
This blog is also safe for systems and plurals of any origin, therians and nonhumans, people of colour, intersex people, physically and/or mentally disabled people, neurodivergent people and all personality/mood disorders, and should go without saying but with the current discourse and infighting Ill state it, binary trans women and binary trans men. I support everyone in talking about their oppression and struggles.
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If you recognise my name, I also run @our-genderquestioning-experience and @angels-safe-corner. Im not an activist and I am just a multigender student who really wants to do eir part to help other trans people.
I use ey/em/eir/eirs/emself pronouns alongside he/him and she/her *intercheangably* (I cannot stress enough to not just refer to me as she or he exclusively), alternatively it/its or any neos. Please do not use they/them for me, although I totally understand if it's used because you havent read my pronouns yet (aka as a gender neutral way to refer to anyone), but if you're reading this, Id rather you use my preferred pronouns than they/them.
The main header flag and dividers are the multigender flag made by @wrenflags in this post [link]
The profile picture is a sensory friendly softened version of the original multigender flag, made by @your-bigender-big-brother in this post [link] on which @rikkayeet applied the trans anarchy symbol, which you can find in this post [link] and the original design + different versions they made in this post [link]
Thattt should be all, asks will be open for anyone. Multigender people shoutout to y'all, you're awesome and wonderful and I love you <3
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I think I'm a boy and a girl at once, sometimes one or the other, but I feel them at once most of the time. I like he/him and she/her, both of them.
If I tell people I'm a man, I'll be seen as a cis man and pushed out of trans spaces.
If I tell people I'm a woman, I'm a trans girl and I can't call myself a man/boy and have to present as a girl as much as possible.
If I tell people I'm both, they ask me what my AGAB is, they know I'm perisex (probably anyway) so I know they want to know what my genitals are.
If I tell people I'm both, they pick one to make a assumption based on.
If I tell people I'm both, I'm assumed to usually be AFAB since I guess only people with a certain criteria of experiences get to be a girl and a boy.
I tried being a trans girl, I think I even liked being a girl, but I still felt like a boy. I still wanted to be seen as a man, but also a woman.
I consider myself as a man to be somewhat separate from myself as a woman, I have multiple genders and it's not really mixed. I really am just "both"
I'm attracted to women (mostly I think), so I would consider myself somewhere between "straight" and "lesbian", but I'd never tell anyone that. Since I am also a man, even if I am also a woman.
I hope one day I can be a man and a woman, but I feel like people won't ever see me that way. I feel tired.
English is not my first, sorry if this is phrased odd :-]
This is multigenderphobia.
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Oh anon, Im so sorry for all the transphobia you've had to face. It is totally valid to experience gender as you do, and personally I think it's really cool! It sucks that even other trans people dont really like the concept of multiple genders. You shouldnt have to hide part of yourself to receive support from your community, it is YOUR community and I'm sorry that it isnt a safe place for you yet. You are not any less of a girl for being also a boy. You are not any less of a boy for being also a girl.
I absolutely hate how people will ask about others' agab and make assumptions based off of it, it makes me so angry to see trans people being treated this way. You dont have to disclose personal details to anyone for your identity to be valid and respected. You dont owe anyone information on your body nor your experiences.
The fact that there's the assumption that all multigender/non binary people are afab is mostly steeped in misogyny. People who assume others to be afab usually see them as 'cis girls pretending to be special' and not actual multigender/trans people. It harms absolutely everyone because this assumption ends up excluding others who dont see their experiences discussed and end up thinking they're not really multigender or that they're less valid, that they're alone. There is No criteria of experiences to be multigender, you simply are, and every multigender person is multigender regardless of their lived experiences.
It's okay to be both a girl and a boy. You dont have to leave behind a part of you. You can and deserve to be seen and loved wholly. It's okay if they're separate experiences at the same time.
And I am sorry you cant call yourself what you want, sexuality doesnt have to be all clean lines and boxes, if your experience is somewhere in between straight and lesbian that is so valid!! I get the feeling that people wont see you that way, I truly do, and the tiredness that comes with that. I hope that here you can find some comfort here because Im gonna be fighting for all of us and you will always have a space to be yourself here, you will always be welcome as a fellow multigender person. So even if it gets tiring, I will have your back, even if I may not know you bc you deserve to be yourself. You can send me asks anytime you need. Love ya <3
Hey y'all, asks will stay open, but due to exam season and personal things I might have more of a hard time running the account rn as far as reblogs goes. To clarify, Im not going anywhere! I want to be there to share joy and help others, but I have three requests this pride month.
If you need to talk, if you need to rant, scream of joy, if you want someone to listen, my askbox is open for you and I dont want you to think you'd be bothering me with it. All asks are posted unless explicitly stated otherwise and even if things may be a little harder for me, I still want y'all to know that if you need, asks are on
Share queer joy!! Send posts about happiness and supporting others. I will take some time away from engaging in discourse, and I want to center community and happiness during pride, for my own health
While I wouldnt go as far as calling running this blog "work" that I do, if my presence here is something positive to you, please let me know! Im only human, so bigotry and my personal life gets me down sometimes. This account is mine but it's also dedicated to, and to support, you all and the community, so please tell me if this space means something to you!! If you've sent me an ask and appreciated my reply, if you like this blog, if this space is important to you, tell me about it!
You all are my main motivation in running this, and while Im not planning to quit either way, it helps to know if this blog and what I do is something you appreciate! I want to know if anyone is counting on this blog or if what I do here helped anyone, because that's what helps me know that what Im trying to do works and that my effort to keep this up is worthwhile <3
[pt: While I wouldnt go as far as calling running this blog "work" that I do, if my presence here is something positive to you, please let me know! Im only human, so bigotry and my personal life gets me down sometimes. This account is mine but it's also dedicated to, and to support, you all and the community, so please tell me if this space means something to you!! If you've sent me an ask and appreciated my reply, if you like this blog, if this space is important to you, tell me about it!
You all are my main motivation in running this, and while Im not planning to quit either way, it helps to know if this blog and what I do is something you appreciate! I want to know if anyone is counting on this blog or if what I do here helped anyone, because that's what helps me know that what Im trying to do works and that my effort to keep this up is worthwhile <3 /end pt]
What's your favourite thing about being multigender? (Asking this to hopefully bring some positivity)
Ohhh great question! Thank you for the ask!
Im honestly unsure how to reply because my favourite thing is the happiness I get from being free to be myself!! And that's not really specific to being multigender, Id say everyone who has been through a gender questioning journey and found what gives them euphoria is going to feel like that!
But I love calling myself a boygirl, I love being non binary, I love looking and being androgynous and mostly that it takes away the burden of thinking about how my identity isnt accepted by others when I can just be who I am and so live my life without that nagging at me. Also I absolutely love making multigender characters that have complex relationships with gender, I feel there is so much variation that is so cool to explore and I adore doing it!!
