You know mommy jacking?
Well a really weird subset of that is if you push a human out of your genitals your chronic illnesses get dismissed by anyone else who has shoved a kid out of their nethers. Like I have Fibromyalgia and a symptom of that is chronic fatigue but if I mentioned being overly exhausted or in pain (the other main symptom) I'd be told in an ANGRY tone: "Well of course your tired all mothers are tired" and I'm like "???!!!" Because yes being a new parent is exhausting but I still have a chronic illness? It's only in the last couple of years that other parents have stopped dismissing my pain or fatigue as "just being a new parent" and people got so mad about it too. Like how dare I suggest I was tired for reasons other than being a parent It was so weird to me that they'd be so angry about it
