I dislike the âaces are innocentâ thing because much of the time weâre just dumb. Like lots of sexuality stuff doesnât apply to us (at least not in the same way) so we donât think about it the same way allos do
Like my roommate mentioned they and their partner got sick after we had all taken a trip to the store in a tiny car and I was like âoh right because we were all crammed in there together, Iâll probably get sick nextâ and they were like âno because later we were kissingâ and I was like âshit. Ace moment. I didnât think about that.â Itâs not that I forgot people kiss or didnât know, I just donât assume every partnership involves kissing (many donât) and thus didnât think about it
Similar thing to when I went to my first Rocky Horror Picture Show. When asked if I enjoyed it, I was like âitâs fun but the plot was very weird and made little sense. The audience commentary was the best partâ and everyone was like âyou donât watch Rocky Horror for the plotâ and I was like âI did. People being half naked doesnât really do it for me so I didnât pay attention to that. However âhow do you fuck a millimeter? Ask your mom!â has entered my vocabulary and will probably live there for quite a long time.â
Weâre just on another level with this sexuality/relationship stuff. Not innocent, just different and sometimes dumb lol