waking up a few hours earlier to move in peace. reading books. drinking tea with friends. taking a brisk walk. actively reducing screen time. warm food. prioritising fun. listening to music. training to be present & breaking free from mindless scrolling prison.
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I hate the feeling of wanting to read fanfiction but not knowing what you want to read. Now, I have to mindlessly scroll and see if anything can meet the expectations of the soul crushing/repairing one I just read.
Ever feel like youâre stuck in a mindless scroll and canât get out?
Ah, the gap between intent and action, the ânow selfâ vs. the âlater self,â or morning guy vs. night guy:
We all know our tendency to opt for immediate rewards even when (especially when?!) it doesnât align with long-term goals. We put off exercise. Date people we shouldnât. Watch shows instead of work.Â
As a researcher interested in all things human behavior, this got me thinking. The internet (more specifically, Tumblr) is the perfect place for us to more deeply understand why we behave in ways that donât make us happy. Tumblr sees a future where social platforms arenât designed to exploit our tendency to seek immediate rewards. So I approached them with a question:
What if we could ânudgeâ our decisions to reflect a version of ourselves that brings us happiness in both the short and long-term?
Enter Benevolent Hellsite.
Welcome to an exploration and investigation of happiness and human behavior online. This blog is a staff-affiliated, independent research project designed to start a conversation.
The end goal?Â
Create real features on Tumblr meant to increase short and long-term happiness, informed by YOUâTumblr usersâand the science of human behavior.
What to expect from this blog:
1. Open discussions about how our behavior online leads to (or takes away from) our happiness
2. Prototypes of new features and quizzes based on your responses
âHappinessâ looks different for everyone, so...
Share your thoughts in the replies: How does time spent on Tumblr influence your happiness?
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BIG news on the YouTube frontâWelcome to the Internet just hit 99 MILLION views today! đĽł
In other news, I was reading about the Ennui Engine, and this author must have seen Inside or just agrees with Bo about the IV drip of mediocre content that is slowly ruining our lives.
In the years following World War II, a curious practice arose amongst the island-dwelling people of Melanesia: After cladding themselvesâŚ
We scroll through Twitter, Facebook, TikTok, and Reddit, vaguely hoping to find something with which to amuse or inform ourselves before getting up in the morning or going to bed at night. We favor videos that either are very short or donât require dedicated focus, confident in the knowledge that we can move on to something else whenever we want to. We ignore thoughtfully composed âwalls of text,â but we electronically applaud memetic image macros and single-sentence references that arenât inherently entertaining or insightful (yet are somehow still poorly written). When we amplify these things â using our likes, upvotes, retweets, and shares â we encourage the creation of more low-effort content, and in so doing, we send the message that higher-quality offerings are unwelcome and unwanted.
Even when âdifficultâ pieces of content do get seen, they still share the stage with everything else, marking them as being no better than equal to things that require minimal care and effort to create and consume.
Therein lies the real problem, however: We donât enjoy the low-effort content⌠at least not as much as weâve tricked ourselves into thinking that we do.
Really thought-provoking and well-written article, and it makes me rethink my entire relationship with the Internetâwhat exactly DO I get out of scrolling for hours on end? Sigh
All we can do is view everything online critically and with a grain of salt. As the author optimistically concludes, we CAN make things better:
The Ennui Engine keeps roaring, and weâre left with tiny, stale pellets that we tell ourselves are satisfying. Beneath the lie, though, we only feel depressed, disconnected, and frustrated.
There is a solution to all of this; a way that we can reclaim our lives, help both people and online entertainment improve, and escape the endless churn of the Ennui Engine. It doesnât begin with turning to legislators or forum-administrators, though, and it doesnât involve a retreat from the Web, but it does require that we stop encouraging the ritual. As unpleasant as it may be to admit, we are each individually to blame for this slump-inducing cycleâs persistence, and we are each responsible for halting it.
Whenever we feel ourselves getting listless, we should step away, then challenge ourselves to find (or create) something new, original, and requiring of a bit more effort than we might initially want to expend. We need to remember that five minutes invested in reading an article â even a mediocre one â will almost always offer a better payout of emotional energy than five minutes of gambling on a slot machine with only one reel.
The Internet was created with the intention of connecting exceptional people and sharing noteworthy content, and it can still fulfill that purpose today. As such, the takeaway here is not that we should distance ourselves from social media, turn off our screens, or reject the trappings of the modern era. Instead, we should remain self-aware and discerning as we traverse the Web, encouraging, applauding, and insisting on effort and earnestness from anyone who intends to contribute (no matter how small or substantial their contributions might be). The Ennui Engine will continue running, of course, but we can each make the personal choice to keep from sacrificing ourselves to it⌠and we can warn others against getting ground up in its gears.
I was also reading about how Google offered its suite of software for freeâincluding YouTube videos as educational resourcesâto schools, planning on getting young children addicted to the algorithm (only benefitting the bug-eyed salamanders, indeed).
I just try to keep my kids informed and discerning about what content they are consuming (no easy task, but I think I made a breakthrough when my 11yo daughter got my point about how no massively popular Roblox YTers exist who are female AND American without an insane, ultra-feminine schtick...why is that?)
Hope you all are doing well, and I have lots more SUBSTANTIAL posts coming up (more interviews, analysis of Bill Bailey and Bo, plus my own curated IV drip of artwork for February...I did the mindless scrolling so you don't have to! Haha) âđź