#milo's asks

AWWW thank you... have this tiny ivy...

anon you're so fucking right

those shirts are Not the same vibe on anyone else but on dan and phil they are Husband Shirts, bonded pair Do Not Separate just like dan and phil themselves

i feel the same way about phil's blue green and black stripey sweater he wore in tbv, it was so jarring seeing it on its own in wdapteo6, that sweater is the Husband of dan's one black and white flannel shirt, they got married in tbv and now it is Illegal to separate them this is so important !!!!!!!!!!

i just feel like if matt and foggy ever went ghosthunting together they would have ryan and shane energy. foggy as the snarky believer and matt as the complete skeptic. as proof i give you these.

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foggy: do you think you would believe in ghosts if you saw one matt: matt: i’m not sure how any of that would work

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matt: turn that light on if you wanna eat foggy's heart *the light turns on* foggy: *screaming* matt: oh shit did the light actually go on? *laughs hysterically*

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foggy, barely holding it together: onto my final theory- aliens. matt: you’re full of shit

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can you draw this as Jonny i think this would be wonderful

Do you like to tell them before they find out or do you let them find ojt?

When someone is aware of my diapered life, they usually treat me with a lot of empathy and respect. Sometimes I'll get the odd "I'm not sure about that." But it isn't my job to make people like me, so it's whatever at that point. They can stay or go if they want.

At this point in my life, I haven't really found any meaningful difference between letting someone find out, or telling them. There are times where it's more worth telling someone vs not, though.

I've found the most important times to tell someone is when I'm taking a long car trip with them, and I might need a change during it. Or if I'm sleeping over, and might have a diaper leak. If I'm playing some sport where they're definitely going to see some diaper peek, or outline under my clothes. If I'm spending an extended amount of time around them. And if they want to come over to my house, and they want to see my room. (Don't know why that's like everyone's favorite thing to do)

That last one is important because of my diaper shelf. There's absolutely no hiding that thing, lol. Probably also important because I bet that I'm nose blind to some, uh, smells that I got used to over time. Maybe I'm speaking about diaper trash, maybe I'm not. We'll never know!

For sure! And thank you!

First off, it's a good idea to lightly fluff, and fold a diaper lengthwise. This will make the absorbency and fit better.

Second, find the leak guards, and make sure they are standing on their own, not stuck to the diaper. This will help keep you from leaking later on.

Third, place the diaper under you (if you're laying down). Or behind you (if you're standing up).

Fourth, grab the front half of the diaper, underneath where the wings start flaring outward. (Kinda where the crotch is). And fold it in half, length wise.

Fifth, pull the front of the diaper up between your legs while still folding the diaper length wise. (This helps make a place for accidents to go, so you don't leak. Very important.)

Sixth, while holding the front of the diaper to your tummy with one arm, use the other to grab a wing, pull a tape off, and place it.

Seventh, switch arms, grab the opposite wing, find the same tape as the other side, pull it off, and place it at the same level as the other tape you just did. (Important)

Eighth, do those same steps for the other set of tapes. (Top or bottom).

Ninth, adjust the wings underneath. You'll do this by finding the wing underneath the outside layer of the diaper with two fingers, and pulling it towards your backside both on the top of the diaper, and bottom, on both sides. Sorry if that sounds complicating, but I can't explain it any better.

Tenth, make sure theres two creases forming a V shape, starting from between your legs, up and out towards your hips in the wings underneath the outside layer of the diaper. (Important because this will help reduce sharp edges, and bunching of the wings later on. Also Important because it helps it fit lot better, and helps keep the tapes from digging into your hips).

Eleventh, move the top tapes on the landing panel of the diaper up until the top of the wings are level with the top of the front of the diaper. (Make sure the tapes are even on both sides. Sometimes a diaper can be cut wrong, and one wing may be higher than the other. That's okay, just match the tapes.)

Twelfth, bring the bottom tapes up to just below the top tapes. (If you get thigh chafe from the bottom tapes, you can place the bottom tapes underneath the top tapes. You just have to move one top tape up on one side, then move the bottom one to where you think the top tape will cover (no more than half) of the bottom tape. Then move the top tape to the original position it was in. If you cant remember, just reference the opposite tape. Do that again with the other side so everything matches on both sides.

Thirteenth, you'll want to make sure the leak guards and leg gathers are positioned properly. Just run your fingers through the leg holes of the diaper to make the the leak guards stand up up straight. And the leg gathers should lay flat against your legs. You don't want them to be bunched up or they will chafe, and cause leaks.

Fourteenth, while you're down there adjusting the leg gathers and leak guards, try and push out that crease in between the legs much as you can. You won't be able to fully get rid of it, but the effort helps make room for accidents later on, and it will help make things more comfortable.

That should be it! Some final adjustments of the tapes, and folding of the inner wings could help settle things in further at this point, but aren't super necessary.

I've been to both quite a few times. And, I've worn diapers for most of my life, so this isn't a new thing, btw.

If I'm being honest, it can be a little awkward. Not sure why, but I keep getting nurses my age that are quite attractive whom usually end up seeing my diapers one way or another, lol. I don't like, ask them out or flirt with them, or anything, though. That would be inappropriate.

But that's usually the only reason it's awkward. Everyone at the medical facilities are very professional when they see my diapers, and they are never judgemental.

If I ever get into a situation where they might see my diaper, I like to give them a heads up that I have them on. They usually say "It's okay! Dont worry about it at all!" Of course, they know I have incontinence, so it's never a surprise for them. But I still like to tell them because it makes me feel better.

If not would you want to?

Nope, I haven’t.

I think I would be open to that. But, whoever gets to do it will either have to be my partner, or a very close, and trustworthy friend.

They would also have to know how to tape a diaper on someone else pretty well.

If you look closely at my pictures, you'll see that my tapes are always near perfect. I hate wearing diapers that aren't taped well, and will sometimes spend 10 minutes getting everything situated properly.

If they can't get to that level of perfection, I'd rather just do it myself. Or if it didn't hurt their feelings too much, I could adjust everything after they have given it a try.

I'm sure you were expecting to hear that I'd let anyone do it, given the chance. But, after wearing padding for so much of my life, I really despise ill fitting diapers. It totally ruins my day, and I'd rather not just deal with it. Especially since I can mitigate the chances of a bad fitting diaper if I just put it on myself.