Milo Rivers!

You can call me Milo, or Milo Rivers! Here's a little bit about me!

🦳 I'm 25 years old (ancient). 🦳

🧷 I have incontinence, and wear diapers full-time to manage. 🧷

🍼 I'm an abdl, but mostly just a dl. 🍼

🏔 I'm very outdoorsy! I'm a mountain biker, snowboarder, whitewater kayaker, rock climber, and occasional hiker (only if there's tomfoolery). 🏔

🎮 I like to play video games and watch movies when I'm not outside. 🎮

🥖 I love to cook, and can probably make better food than u... 🥖

I made this blog to share some of what my life in diapers looks like, focusing on how I manage incontinence while still enjoying nature and the outdoorsy life to the fullest!

Question posts will be tagged "Milo's asks"

Text posts will be tagged "Milo's stories"

Oh! And send in any questions you wanna ask! I'm always up for answering!

Also, I post different stuff on each of my blogs. Here's a guide:

Tumblr: Stories, asks, small writings, pictures, videos.

X: Pictures, videos, small writings.

Instagram: More vanilla pictures, videos, asks, and small writings.

Bluesky: Pictures, videos, small writings.

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Be respectful, appropriate, and use your manners when interacting with my blogs, please.

Abdl is a kink, and therefore should not involve any persons under the age of 18. You are not allowed to visit my blogs if you are under the age of 18.

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I made a throne!

Absolutely no one is obligated to get me anything.

Diapering supplies are the only thing that will be on my wishlist, so you'll only be helping me get the stuff I need for managing my incontinence!

My last trip wasn't super fun cause I was just starting to need diapers full-time around then.

Learning how to deal with that on the fly amongst thousands of people ain't where it's at.

I remember leaking on Goofy's flight school, getting my diaper soaked with water from Splash Mountain, and I got a horrible thigh chafe rash in between my legs by the end of the day that I didn't notice until I rode The Haunted Mansion. The hour long line made that a living hell.

I also didn't bring a change, so I was just walking around with yucky Splash Mountain water for 3 hours until I got back to my hotel room. (Probably why I got a rash.)

I would say that it's a part of my normal happy self. If real adulting needs to be done, it's not very present.

I can't even imagine having the conversation.

"Do you need to keep a stock of, uhm, your things here so you don't risk leaking?

Or,

"I want you to feel comfortable while you're here, so I ordered a case for your favorite diapers and supplies so you don't have to worry about bringing any next time! And so you can stay longer, if you want!

Or,

"Since you're here so often, I think it would be a good idea to bring some extra supplies next time, and leave them here, just in case."

Kind of embarrassed to admit that I actually do own several swim diapers.

According to most, if not all public pool rules; I am required to wear a swim diaper while swimming. So, yes, I have to.

I have three different kinds. My main one is the blue swim diaper from Incontrol. That's the only one I'll use these days since they work so well, are really comfortable, fit like a normal diaper, and don't look ugly, or childish. The other two I have aren't one's that I really like. I have an abdl printed swim diaper from rearz that I can't remember the name of. And then I have the most ugly swim diaper I've ever seen. I won't even mention the brand because it's not worth knowing. They look like a pair of rubber speedos, and give the craziest wedgies. They suck so much.

I haven't been able to go to the pool in so many years. So, unfortunately, I haven't been able to use them for their intended purpose yet. I've only worn them in the bath tub and private hot tubs so far

I've been to both quite a few times. And, I've worn diapers for most of my life, so this isn't a new thing, btw.

If I'm being honest, it can be a little awkward. Not sure why, but I keep getting nurses my age that are quite attractive whom usually end up seeing my diapers one way or another, lol. I don't like, ask them out or flirt with them, or anything, though. That would be inappropriate.

But that's usually the only reason it's awkward. Everyone at the medical facilities are very professional when they see my diapers, and they are never judgemental.

If I ever get into a situation where they might see my diaper, I like to give them a heads up that I have them on. They usually say "It's okay! Dont worry about it at all!" Of course, they know I have incontinence, so it's never a surprise for them. But I still like to tell them because it makes me feel better.

I have a lot of free time right now, and would love to answer more questions!

Trying out some new pampersss.

I got these while visiting the diaper store, and it was such a blushy experience 😳

If not would you want to?

Nope, I haven’t.

I think I would be open to that. But, whoever gets to do it will either have to be my partner, or a very close, and trustworthy friend.

They would also have to know how to tape a diaper on someone else pretty well.

If you look closely at my pictures, you'll see that my tapes are always near perfect. I hate wearing diapers that aren't taped well, and will sometimes spend 10 minutes getting everything situated properly.

If they can't get to that level of perfection, I'd rather just do it myself. Or if it didn't hurt their feelings too much, I could adjust everything after they have given it a try.

I'm sure you were expecting to hear that I'd let anyone do it, given the chance. But, after wearing padding for so much of my life, I really despise ill fitting diapers. It totally ruins my day, and I'd rather not just deal with it. Especially since I can mitigate the chances of a bad fitting diaper if I just put it on myself.

Do you like to tell them before they find out or do you let them find ojt?

When someone is aware of my diapered life, they usually treat me with a lot of empathy and respect. Sometimes I'll get the odd "I'm not sure about that." But it isn't my job to make people like me, so it's whatever at that point. They can stay or go if they want.

At this point in my life, I haven't really found any meaningful difference between letting someone find out, or telling them. There are times where it's more worth telling someone vs not, though.

I've found the most important times to tell someone is when I'm taking a long car trip with them, and I might need a change during it. Or if I'm sleeping over, and might have a diaper leak. If I'm playing some sport where they're definitely going to see some diaper peek, or outline under my clothes. If I'm spending an extended amount of time around them. And if they want to come over to my house, and they want to see my room. (Don't know why that's like everyone's favorite thing to do)

That last one is important because of my diaper shelf. There's absolutely no hiding that thing, lol. Probably also important because I bet that I'm nose blind to some, uh, smells that I got used to over time. Maybe I'm speaking about diaper trash, maybe I'm not. We'll never know!

I think you might be right, lol.

I nerd out over military tanks. It wasn't something I specifically sought out, but now, I know more than what's absolutely necessary for someone who will never be able to use one for it's intended purpose 🤣

But, I'm no regular nerd about it tho. Especially since I know that the abbreviations AP, APFSDS, APDS, APCR, HEAT, and HE stand for. I also know how & when to use them against other tanks of various kinds, including tank destroyers, AA, light tanks, medium tanks, and heavy tanks.