#might help

Yeah we went to Angst Central, currently on Hurt no Comfort street and I don't know how to get to Hurt/Comfort boulevard from here.

since it's winter time so feeling cold while studying not wanting to study and wanting to go to bed soon because yey the blanket's warm is back for me (and maybe fr y'all too).

keep your body lotion near you. also vaseline. BECAUSE WE DON'T WANNA BE DRY AF YK jk but i apply body lotion (if you've hand cream, use it) on my hands whenever it feels dry (i am starting to write a lot) and i get this sudden urge to write more and get more stuff done. also, vaseline for your lips. studying and getting pretty and feeling good.

That advice is for people who do numbers on tiktok because they have comp titles and trope graphs and can summarize their stories with nice little taglines packed with buzzwords.

This is not a hit against those, mind. It is more a hit against my own ability to do those things.

But it does seem it would be easier to do that if I wrote anything the average person would enjoy.

Instead I write fucked up fiction about fucked up creatures and I adore everyone who finds entertainment or catharsis in those words.

It does mean I need to keep expectations low and it does make it extra awkward when a well-meaning friend or family member acts like I'm a big deal because I published something.

Is it awesome to have books out there with my name on them? Yes. Especially this one. Little me what dreamed of being an author is leaping and wriggling she's so happy.

Adult me, who has bills and can't get-let alone keep-a job but also can't get disability because her husband makes just the right amount to exclude her from it, but not enough to cover all of our bills, is absolutely miserable.

So, you know, mixed feelings.

Not sure how to help the second point really. The idea of marketing with videos, even the pngtuber style thing, feels like so much extra work that isn't writing related and won't actually prepare any potential readers for the words. But I'll still try it. See how it goes. If it doesn't detract too much from actually writing and the myriad other things I'm supposed to be doing every day.

1. Live Your Faith Authentically

Let your life quietly reflect Christ’s love, grace, and hope. The way you treat others may speak more clearly than any words you say.

2. Build a True and Caring Friendship

Love them for who they are—not as a project, but as a person made in God’s image. A sincere friendship builds trust and opens hearts.

3. Listen with Empathy and Respect

Be genuinely curious about their story. Let them share their beliefs and doubts without fear of judgment. Listening is a form of love.

4. Pray for Them, Silently and Faithfully

Bring them before God in private prayer. Ask for guidance, gentleness, and the Spirit’s work in their heart—always in God’s time, not yours.

5. Begin with a Universal Language of Faith

Sometimes it helps to start with broader spiritual language—offering prayers that speak of peace, healing, or gratitude without invoking religious terms too soon. This can lower barriers and show that God is already near.

→ Faith is an intimate lens through which you see the world, not everyone will share it—and that’s okay. Respecting that boundary is part of loving well.

→ You might say: “I don’t know if this would be meaningful to you, but sometimes I say a short prayer for peace—would that be alright?”

Click here to see a universal prayer I created for different situations, this prayer does not carry any religion, just good intentions! It may help your friend feel more comfortable!

6. Share Your Own Story

Instead of trying to convince them, let them see the transformation in your life. Share how Jesus brings you peace, meaning, and joy.

7. Ask Thoughtful Questions

A kind, honest question can stir the soul and open space for reflection. You might ask: “Have you ever felt a longing for something more?” or “What gives your life meaning?”

But go slowly. Don’t rush into quoting Scripture or trying to steer the conversation into theological ground too quickly—especially if your friend has had painful experiences with religion. In those cases, what they need first is not doctrine, but compassion, safety, and a human connection.

→ The gospel is not a script; it’s a relationship. Be a safe person, not a persuasive one.

8. Extend Gentle Invitations

You can invite them to a service, a conversation, a book, or a Bible passage—but always in freedom, not pressure. Let them know that your friendship is not conditional.

9. Walk Through Doubts Together

If they have questions about suffering, faith, or contradictions, don’t rush to give perfect answers. Sometimes, the most powerful witness is saying, “I’ve wondered that too. Let’s explore it together.”

10. Share Beauty That Points to God

Whether it’s through nature, music, art, or acts of kindness, show how the beauty in life can awaken spiritual longing. Sometimes the soul is moved before the mind is convinced.

→ “The heavens declare the glory of God” (Psalm 19:1).

11. Encourage Small Steps of Openness

If they’re willing, suggest simple things: reading a Psalm, saying a short prayer, or just sitting in silence. These tiny openings can be sacred doors to grace.

But be attentive: faith is deeply personal, and not everyone will feel comfortable. Avoid offering spiritual reflections when someone is visibly angry, grieving, or feeling emotionally raw. In those moments, presence and listening may be more powerful than words.

12. Be Patient, Present, and Trust God with the Journey

Transformation often takes time. Keep walking beside them with love, even if they wrestle with doubts or take steps slowly. Only God changes hearts. You are called to love.

💛 Our calling is not to win arguments, but to reflect the heart of Jesus—a heart full of truth, tenderness, and grace. When love leads, God moves.

🍀💫 6 Jan 2025 D-118

Today's To-do:

1. Amines: notes *in progress* + module questions

2. Solutions: short notes + cbse ques

3. Reproductive health: short notes + revision + mcq

4. PE chapter 1*in parts* & 2

And yeah, that cat is the ruler of my heart. She always sleeps on our terrace when the sun is out!!!