#metoidio

DO NOT let radfems scare you out of bottom surgery. YOU are the one who gets to make that decision not them. Phalloplasty and metoidioplasty are not scary, they are not ugly, it is not bad to want or get bottom surgery.

There is more to phallo and metoidio than scary directly post op surgery photos. PLEASE go look at r/phallo and r/metoidioplasty I promise you won't regret doing so. Please talk to your surgeons and other trans people directly about the recovery process. Bottom surgery is not gross. It's not a "fake" dick. And cis men get phalloplasty too. Phalloplasty was actually created specifically for cis men with genital injuries, originally.

There's a lot of TERFs, Radfems, and various bigots in the phallo and metoidio tags and I just want you guys to know that their opinions should have 0 effect on your choice. Block them. Starve them of air. They're looking to scare people, to scare you and demonize bottom surgery and other trans people out of supporting us.

There's a ridiculous amount of body shaming and fear mongering about phalloplasty and metoidioplasty and I feel like I'm the only one who ever talks about it. The constant "well it's not a real penis/it's not a cis penis/ect" drives me nuts.

Especially when someone is talking about how they WANT bottom surgery and someone butts in like "l just don't think it fits my ✨aesthetic✨" as if anyone asked how much they hate phallo/metoidio

Have you noticed this?? Please tell me you have, I can't be the only one who finds it weird. It's actually incredibly disheartening as someone who wants metoidio to constantly see. If I said half the shit I see said about phallo/metoidio, about vaginoplasty instead people would lose it