CHIRON/Pluto/Mars in the third house natives:
(Pisces mercury natives too tbh)
Write down your points before you confront somebody!!!!!!!!!!!! JOT IT DOWN BOO. People are so quick to gaslight us and allow a conversation about boundaries to escalate and get out of control to a full fledge argument. Often times, we wanted to have a mature conversation, and end up having our words/emotions be misconstrued or the faltering memory of examples of how others have been unfair against us. This is how people gain power in discussions against us and control the narrative to make us feel powerless.
By writing down your specific points, you are able to take back your power to stand up for yourself and avoid being gaslighted or silenced. You are able to stay calm and you can provide someone with clear examples of their fuckery so they can face it full on. You are able to respond to their rebuttals with your own calm ones as now you have the support of your notes to help you explore aspects of the conversation without feeling like you’re losing the plot. Take note and write it down!
