#makeyourselfapriority

Try new things, step out of your comfort zone, take risks, do things in ways you've never done them before, ask for help, surround yourself with self-actualized people, become obsessed with the fact that you have one go-round on this planet as the you that is you, and realize how precious and important it is not to squander that. In order to be an icon, a few times you need to be bold. How do I define boldness? Stepping outside of your comfort zone.

no. one bomb ass complete sentence. we do not have to explain ourselves. &we should not feel guilty for prioritizing ourselves.  saying no to what we don’t want is actually saying yes to what we do want.  we are opening ourselves & freeing up time&space.  

being resistant,hesitant to use “no.” is linked to our desire to have the approval of others.  we believe telling the ones around us “no.” will break,ruin,end our relationships.  we attach a lengthy&unnecessary explanation to soften the blow &protect the other person’s feelings.