Hey! This is for you.

Why could not you abstained yourself from reading this? I mean, don’t you say we should had abstained  from reading  yours ?

Oh yes!, things are different depending where we are located to judge.  On one side, we are vulnerable, we are the ones who were mistreated and offended by others. Therefore,  we are the ones that judge hardly others.  But, on the other side, we are the ones that didn’t know what to do and try to do the best for the ones that surround us. We could not  stay still, because something was happening. So, we actedas we thought it was the best.

Both sides have something to defend. Both sides can argue their actions and thoughts.

Yes, probably and unending discussion, that i don’t even want to start it. So, let’s think about it, but don’t even begin it here. This is one of those things that it’s better to think, rather than talk about it.  The conclusion would always be: put yourself in someone else’s shoes.

How hard can it be?

We all know that answer, right?

It could be pretty hard.  Sometimes, we can finally put ourselves in someone else´s shoes until we live something similar that make us fit in the cavern of thought that made that person act and think the way it did. And.. “instantly” we can understand....and our judging stop. But, right on: this is a p r o c e s s,. is not magic....

I refuss to be another one that condemn you, thats why i want to try to understand you. It will be hard, i know. Dear daddy, please help me through.