So as a Libra, yes I do think we play into our astrological signs oh so well, I have this instinct to find balance in every situation. The path of least resistance, as seen from every point of view. This is exhausting, but yet it is what I do.
I am an amazing listener. I can soak other people's concerns, listen to the minute of their life, their thoughts, and bad jokes like no tomorrow but in exchange for this ability to understand people, I lose my self. Being so finely in tuned with those around me, so conscientious of every action and reaction, that I can no longer differentiate what I want, to what others expect.
The master mediator, aka, master manipulator. In social situations, I can defuse a bomb, or an argument between two people. I can turn the situation so both parties know what is going on (which is the basis to most arguments, one side gets their point, while the other in frustation wont take the a moment to absorb and think it from the other's end, but only theirs), and we can carry on to have a good time. There are definite times where I wanted to sit back, and watch it blow up... But then I would have to decide which side to take... Then the tug-a-war begins. The path of least resistance, and I am guilty of it.