#lesphobia

idk how long isff has been around but like. ever since i came out i was fairly aware of anti transmasculinity in the trans community. i always felt like "the wrong kind of trans" as a trans man. however, anti transmasculinity has gotten a lot louder in the recent years, at least since 2023

generally, the lgbt community is always looking for a scapegoat group. when i was a kid, it was asexual people. the "ace discourse" was a big thing, people were debating whether or not asexuals are inherently queer, people were saying that asexuals were inherently homophobic and transphobic, claiming that asexuals who have experienced corrective rape were "stealing that term from lesbians," ect. transmasc lesbians were a big one recently, and currently trans men are the big scapegoat class. the thing is that none of these movements just spawned in. there have always been aphobic people, there have always been transphobic and anti transmasculine people in our community, its just a matter of them finding an opportune time to spread their bigotry. a lot of the scapegoat groups ive seen in the last several years have been transmasculine in some way. a lot of transmeds targetted people who identified as transmasc or trans men but didnt pass as cis men/didnt "try to pass" (whatever that means. i dont try to pass either, i just do. but no ones accusing me of not trying to pass) and transmasc lesbians were targetted, and often misgendered as trans men (if they didnt identify that way, which was most of them) in order to more effectively fearmonger against and harrass them. i remember a post from a trans man where he was talking about transandrophobia in the queer community on tiktok, and a cis woman made a "response video," but deliberately edited out the parts of him saying that he is a trans man, and his trans status was very important context to the discussion

why do you act like this?

is it because some cute trans girls said no when your ugly chaser ass asked her out?

I hope you get better soon and stop being a loser!

I doubt I'll ever be attracted to the botched mockery of women that transwomen are :3

Weird talking to a minor about explicit things, it seems like a trend for your community.

They did a motherfucking a "bury your lesbians" plotline in goddamn 2025. As much as I love the show's creators for the rest of the show, I also hate them for this one thing. It's inexcusable.

It makes it even worse that a good 90% of the time they’ll be saying this to whole ass lesbians or minors

I once had this thrown at me in a conversation which was literally about whether Mike contributed plans to the show, so I was listing examples like the tunnel burn, the sauna trap, the Turnbow and Mac-Z plans and etc (so obviously nothing relating to sex) and somehow got asked if I wanna peg Finn Wolfhard out of nowhere in the middle of the argument 😭 like first of all no, i literally don’t care about that musty man and I’ve never spoken about him I only care about Mike, and also secondly while are you like 25 and making headcanons about who you think a random 16 year old on the internet wants to have sex with. Just volatile and weird as fuck

I also remember one of my mutuals who quite literally had ‘butch’ in her display name and the lesbian flag in her pfp being told she wants to suck him off, and when she tried to call it out, people completely deflected and kept dogpiling her.. 💀 I actually cannot stand those types of people omg they’re rancid

This dude messaged me after I reblogged their post reminding him that he's a man. He hit me with a paragraph of almost every common trans argument in the book. It got kind of creepy at the end, but that might just be me weirded out that a random man on the internet wanted to talk to me about my sexuality.

There are more messages of me disagreeing with him, but these are the more important ones.