#kintype problems

Aww, I mean I guess I can understand the thought process. But really, how you confirm kintypes is up to you! Though I suggest not trying to use other people, or other people’s pendulums, runes, tarot, etc. to confirm a kintype - I don’t even use my own runes to full confirm kintypes lmao. These things can be innacurate/unreliable,  so I suggest relying on your own gut feelings, emotions, and memories in whatever way possible.

Some people just go by feeling, but I find personally that I prefer to wait until I’ve gotten what feels like a memory from that timeline. Then I consider it confirmed! But whatever feels right to you; there’s no real “wrong” way to confirm, as long as you have some sort of process and don’t just assume that because you’re questioning it must be legit.

;~; I feel you really heavily on this one, but you don’t have to be super heavily involved in all your kintypes! For example, I’m kin with a winged otherwise-human boy and I don’t really look for people from there or get shifts from him that often, so it might not be that bad.

;~; I’m sure things will work out alright, friend. I didn’t want to be kin with Bill Cipher at first and yet, here I am.

;~; well if it makes you feel any better, I firmly believe that if you’re worried about being fake you’re probably Not Actually Fake, and besides, even without that being considered, your feelings and how you identify yourself are completely valid!

Also I have like over ten kintypes (at least if you include questioning ones) by now so you’re not the only one with a lot of kintypes lmao

I understand this feeling immensely tbh. If it’s any consolation, if you’re referring to your brother as “your brother”, chances are you’re not faking it! And I don’t notice a difference between primary/secondary/etc. either lmao... ^^’

Either way, I doubt you’re faking it. Try to do things that may give you memories from that canon - I personally always confirm kintypes with a solid memory, so that might help you!